Every word that comes out of the mouth creates vibrations unique to the person saying it. Depending on our upbringing and our outlook on life, we attribute special vibrations to the words we speak. Every word can create extremely powerful positive and negative vibrational responses. It depends on the person doing or listening to the speech, or the relationship to that word, or the past. Probably the word that creates the most negative vibrations is money.
For most of us, the beliefs associated with these words are very intense. When we utter, think, or hear the word money, we radiate negative vibrations everywhere. Of course, this creates impenetrable walls around us that absolutely prevent money from reaching us. That is, the way we talk about this thing that we want so much makes it distant from us. But why? After all, money is nice, isn't it? Gold, silver, iron, banknotes or something?
Money is generally considered to be a 'mournable thing'. From our childhood, we learn that the word money includes the meanings of struggle, necessity, necessity. We learn how this feels to our fathers, mothers, aunts, uncles, and adult family friends. We learn about the tension and pain that accompanies the word. Most importantly, we learn the place of money in life!
Since we have never learned to flow energy and get rid of negative vibrations, we spend our lives emitting negative energy in this regard. We're fighting a war we can't win. In the end, we get very tired, we get discouraged, we feel that we have been wronged. Our body finally responds to these negativities and we die. What a beautiful life!
Mankind has never been satisfied with what he has. That's why whenever we think of money, we immediately think we don't have enough money. Money evokes inadequacy, lack of inadequacy… the vibrations of feeling bad of deprivation, something we never want again, deprivation.
Fortunately, old, musty beliefs about money aren't all that hard to get rid of. It is possible to overthrow the doctrines that society has created about money.
“You have to work hard to earn money. No one will give you money for nothing. Money is hard to get. Money is hard to accumulate. I've never had much money. Money goes as it comes. Money is the father of all evil. We must save money to secure our future. How happy I would be if I had money. (It means I can't be happy now.) Money doesn't grow on trees.”
Read these sentences out loud and think about how they make you feel. You didn't feel very well, did you? But we all grow up hearing these phrases and we believe money is the only key to our freedom. I do not deny that money is important. But we always think that money is earned by working hard, struggling, even fighting. However, money, like everything else, is nothing but energy. And attracting money, like everything else, is nothing but a process of energy flow. Now it's time to write a new script.
Let's say you wanted to build a new terrace for your house and it costs 25 thousand dollars. You thought for a long time, but you didn't know where to find this money. You end up feeling overwhelmed, disappointed and “Oh, forget it!” you said.
You acted like many of us. You have been a prisoner of old beliefs that limit us and cause negative energy flows throughout our lives. You finally closed yourself off. As a result of your request for the money required to have the terrace built, you felt so exhausted that you finally gave up.
Creating a new scenario is nothing more than creating a beautiful daydream and living it emotionally. And that's the important part: you have to live your daydream emotionally or it will fly away. Say a request out loud, as if you were talking to a friend (writing is second choice). Don't talk about what's going to happen. Just say what's happening right now. Make this statement as realistic as possible; feel the satisfaction, pleasure, satisfaction in detail. Remember, you have to feel the passion behind every word.
Let's give an example. Take a hundred dollar bill, put it in your wallet and go shopping. If you can handle a whole day, great. If you can't, take a lunch break. Go to a place with a lot of shops. Look for anything you can get with that $100. It could be a walkman, a pair of pants, a soccer ball, a new suit, new gadgets, a bedspread.
$100 is still in your pocket; so say to yourself, “Wow, I can buy this for $100, no problem” (then feel how happy you are). Don't find things that add up to $100, look for things that cost $100 each. When you find about a thousand things, see what happens. You spent almost $100,000 on the feeling, and it made you feel great, get rid of your old vibrational thought patterns of deprivation.
If you want real change in your life, you have to radiate more energy around you and increase your positive energy flow to keep things going. One of the best ways to do this is to “make it your way”.
You can use the making your way method to create the desired setting or atmosphere to make a particular event happen. This is to spread the “I want it to be like this” energy in everyday events or decisions: “I intend to finish my report easily and on time. I intend to enjoy today. I intend to resolve the tension between us as soon as possible.”
Making it your way is like writing a new script, but with less intensity. Once you get used to doing the little things the way of everyday life, move on to the big things. This could be a customer or sales you're having trouble with. See and feel a meeting or agreement the way you want it to happen. Repeat this often throughout the day. Tell the universe what you want, spread your positive energy accordingly, feel what the results will be and be sure that they will come true. Making your way is what it is.
Remember… It's not the money that matters, it's how you radiate your energy. If you stop concentrating on your lack of money, you will have money. Focusing on lack of money and having negative feelings about it prevents you from spreading positive energy. Try to get rid of it. Stop dwelling on the hows. You'll learn anyway.
Want to measure the amount of negativity in your life? Look at your income. As people who struggle with money for most of their lives, the more negativity we radiate, the less income we have. Your income increases or decreases depending on the negative energy.
Lynn Grabhorn
Source: Lynn Grabhorn (2012) “The Secret of the Law of Attraction” (Trans. Suat Kadıoğlu) Kalipso Publications, Istanbul pp.120-135
