{"id":9537,"date":"2018-10-31T05:52:47","date_gmt":"2018-10-31T05:52:47","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.ozdeyis.net\/?p=9537"},"modified":"2026-02-21T13:50:39","modified_gmt":"2026-02-21T13:50:39","slug":"hayatta-onemli-bir-kararin-alinmasinda-iki-tane-en-iyi-zaman-vardir-birincisi-yillar-onceydi-ikincisi-ise-simdi-joyce-chapman","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/e-motivasyon.net\/en\/hayatta-onemli-bir-kararin-alinmasinda-iki-tane-en-iyi-zaman-vardir-birincisi-yillar-onceydi-ikincisi-ise-simdi-joyce-chapman.html","title":{"rendered":"\u201cThere are two best times to make an important decision in life; the first was years ago, the second is now..!\u201d Joyce Chapman"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u201cThere are two best times to make an important decision in life; the first was years ago, the second is now..!\u201d Joyce Chapman<\/strong><\/em><\/span><\/p>\n

\""Hayatta<\/a><\/p>\n

Joyce Chapman<\/span><\/span>\u2019\u0131n bu s\u00f6z\u00fc zaman ve karar verme \u00fczerine \u00e7arp\u0131c\u0131 bir fark\u0131ndal\u0131k \u00e7a\u011fr\u0131s\u0131d\u0131r. Hepimizin i\u00e7inde \u201cKe\u015fke daha \u00f6nce ba\u015flasayd\u0131m\u201d c\u00fcmlesi yank\u0131lan\u0131r. Ertelenmi\u015f hayaller, \u00f6telenmi\u015f ad\u0131mlar, cesaret edilememi\u015f ba\u015flang\u0131\u00e7lar\u2026 Fakat ge\u00e7mi\u015f art\u0131k kapanm\u0131\u015f bir defterdir. Bu s\u00f6z bize \u015funu hat\u0131rlat\u0131r: Ge\u00e7mi\u015fi de\u011fi\u015ftiremeyiz ama bug\u00fcn\u00fc se\u00e7ebiliriz.<\/strong> Ki\u015fisel geli\u015fim ve motivasyon tam da burada ba\u015flar; pi\u015fmanl\u0131kta oyalanmak yerine \u015fimdi harekete ge\u00e7me cesaretinde.<\/p>\n

Bu s\u00f6zden ilhamla g\u00fcnl\u00fck hayatta uygulayabilece\u011fimiz tek bir pratik \u00f6neri \u015fu olabilir: \u201c24 saat kural\u0131\u201dn\u0131 devreye al\u0131n.<\/strong> Uzun s\u00fcredir erteledi\u011finiz bir karar varsa \u2013bir e\u011fitime ba\u015flamak, bir projeyi duyurmak, bir konu\u015fmay\u0131 yapmak\u2013 \u00f6n\u00fcm\u00fczdeki 24 saat i\u00e7inde o kararla ilgili somut bir ad\u0131m at\u0131n. B\u00fcy\u00fck olmak zorunda de\u011fil. Bir telefon g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015fmesi, bir kay\u0131t i\u015flemi, bir taslak plan\u2026 \u00d6nemli olan m\u00fckemmel zaman\u0131n gelmesini beklemek de\u011fil; zaman\u0131 harekete ge\u00e7irerek m\u00fckemmelle\u015ftirmektir. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc motivasyon, d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnerek de\u011fil; ba\u015flayarak b\u00fcy\u00fcr.<\/p>\n

Diyelim ki y\u0131llard\u0131r kitap yazmak istiyorsunuz ama \u201cdaha haz\u0131r de\u011filim\u201d diyerek bekliyorsunuz. Be\u015f y\u0131l \u00f6nce ba\u015flasayd\u0131n\u0131z bug\u00fcn belki \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcnc\u00fc bask\u0131y\u0131 konu\u015fuyor olabilirdiniz. Bu d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnce moral bozmak i\u00e7in de\u011fil; uyand\u0131rmak i\u00e7in var. \u015eimdi bir sayfa yazsan\u0131z, bir ay sonra otuz sayfan\u0131z olur. Joyce Chapman\u2019\u0131n mesaj\u0131 nettir: En do\u011fru zaman d\u00fcn de\u011fildi; en g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc zaman \u015fimdi verdi\u011finiz karard\u0131r.<\/strong><\/em> Hayat, bekleyenleri de\u011fil; ad\u0131m atanlar\u0131 d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015ft\u00fcr\u00fcr. Ve biz, karar verdi\u011fimiz anda y\u00f6n\u00fcm\u00fcz\u00fc de\u011fi\u015ftirebiliriz.<\/p>\n

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Joyce Chapman Kimdir?<\/strong><\/h3>\n

Joyce Chapman (1930-2014) Amerikal\u0131 motivasyon konu\u015fmac\u0131s\u0131 ve ki\u015fisel geli\u015fim e\u011fitmenidir. \u00d6zellikle karar verme, zaman y\u00f6netimi ve bireysel sorumluluk konular\u0131nda verdi\u011fi seminerlerle tan\u0131nm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. \u0130nsanlar\u0131 ertelemeyi b\u0131rak\u0131p harekete ge\u00e7meye te\u015fvik eden s\u00f6ylemleriyle ki\u015fisel geli\u015fim alan\u0131nda etkili bir isim olmu\u015ftur.<\/p>\n

\u201cYou are at a dead end. Not because you made the wrong decisions, but because you made the right decisions. For trying to make sensible decisions based on the data you have.\u201d Paul Arden<\/a><\/p><\/blockquote>\n