{"id":9488,"date":"2015-07-26T20:23:43","date_gmt":"2015-07-26T17:23:43","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.ozdeyis.net\/?p=9488"},"modified":"2026-08-07T22:54:15","modified_gmt":"2026-08-07T22:54:15","slug":"basit-keyifler-hayatin-karmasasi-karsisindaki-son-siginagimizdir-oscar-wilde","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/e-motivasyon.net\/en\/basit-keyifler-hayatin-karmasasi-karsisindaki-son-siginagimizdir-oscar-wilde.html","title":{"rendered":"“Basit keyifler, hayat\u0131n karma\u015fas\u0131 kar\u015f\u0131s\u0131ndaki son s\u0131\u011f\u0131na\u011f\u0131m\u0131zd\u0131r.” Oscar Wilde"},"content":{"rendered":"

“Basit keyifler, hayat\u0131n karma\u015fas\u0131 kar\u015f\u0131s\u0131ndaki son s\u0131\u011f\u0131na\u011f\u0131m\u0131zd\u0131r.” Oscar Wilde<\/strong><\/em><\/h3>\n

Hayat\u0131n karma\u015fas\u0131 i\u00e7inde huzuru \u00e7o\u011fu zaman b\u00fcy\u00fck de\u011fi\u015fimlerde, pahal\u0131 deneyimlerde ya da ula\u015f\u0131lmas\u0131 zor mutluluklarda arar\u0131z. Oysa Oscar Wilde\u2019\u0131n \u201cBasit keyifler, hayat\u0131n karma\u015fas\u0131 kar\u015f\u0131s\u0131ndaki son s\u0131\u011f\u0131na\u011f\u0131m\u0131zd\u0131r.\u201d s\u00f6z\u00fc, mutlulu\u011fun her zaman b\u00fcy\u00fck ve g\u00f6steri\u015fli \u015feylere ihtiya\u00e7 duymad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131<\/strong> hat\u0131rlat\u0131r. Bir fincan kahvenin kokusu, sevdi\u011fimiz bir m\u00fczi\u011fi dinlemek, deniz kenar\u0131nda y\u00fcr\u00fcmek, g\u00fczel bir sohbet etmek ya da g\u00fcn\u00fcn sonunda sessizce dinlenmek… Bunlar k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck g\u00f6r\u00fcnse de zihnimizin y\u00fck\u00fcn\u00fc hafifletebilen g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc ya\u015fam anlar\u0131d\u0131r. Hayat karma\u015f\u0131kla\u015ft\u0131k\u00e7a, basit \u015feylerin de\u011ferini fark etmek huzur ve ya\u015fam doyumu<\/strong> a\u00e7\u0131s\u0131ndan daha da \u00f6nemli h\u00e2le gelir.<\/p>\n

Bu s\u00f6zden g\u00fcnl\u00fck ya\u015fam i\u00e7in \u00e7\u0131karabilece\u011fimiz pratik \u00f6neri olduk\u00e7a basit: Her g\u00fcn kendinize k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck bir keyif an\u0131 ay\u0131r\u0131n.<\/strong> Bunun i\u00e7in \u00f6zel bir zaman ya da b\u00fcy\u00fck bir b\u00fct\u00e7e gerekmez. Her g\u00fcn sizi ger\u00e7ekten iyi hissettiren \u00fc\u00e7 basit \u015feyi belirleyin ve bunlardan en az birini bilin\u00e7li olarak ger\u00e7ekle\u015ftirin. \u00d6rne\u011fin sabah kahvenizi acele etmeden i\u00e7ebilir, on be\u015f dakika y\u00fcr\u00fcyebilir, sevdi\u011finiz bir \u015fark\u0131y\u0131 g\u00f6zlerinizi kapatarak dinleyebilir veya telefonunuzu bir kenara b\u0131rak\u0131p sevdiklerinizle sohbet edebilirsiniz. Buradaki ama\u00e7, yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z \u015feyin b\u00fcy\u00fckl\u00fc\u011f\u00fc de\u011fil, o an\u0131n ger\u00e7ekten fark\u0131nda olmakt\u0131r.<\/strong> \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc bazen zihnimizi dinlendiren \u015fey, hayat\u0131m\u0131za daha fazlas\u0131n\u0131 eklemek de\u011fil, zaten sahip oldu\u011fumuz g\u00fczellikleri fark etmektir.<\/p>\n

D\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcn; yo\u011fun bir i\u015f g\u00fcn\u00fcn\u00fcn ard\u0131ndan eve geldi\u011finizde sizi bekleyen s\u0131cak bir yemek, sevdi\u011finiz bir insanla yap\u0131lan k\u0131sa bir sohbet veya pencereden i\u00e7eri giren ak\u015fam g\u00fcne\u015fi size beklenmedik bir huzur verebilir. Bunlar\u0131n hi\u00e7biri hayat\u0131n\u0131zdaki b\u00fcy\u00fck sorunlar\u0131 ortadan kald\u0131rmaz; fakat sorunlar\u0131n aras\u0131nda nefes alabilece\u011finiz bir alan a\u00e7ar. Basit keyifler hayat\u0131 m\u00fckemmel h\u00e2le getirmez, ancak hayat\u0131n a\u011f\u0131rl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 ta\u015f\u0131nabilir k\u0131lar.<\/strong> Oscar Wilde\u2019\u0131n s\u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc bug\u00fcn kendi ya\u015fam\u0131m\u0131za uyarlad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131zda belki de \u015fu sonucu \u00e7\u0131karabiliriz: Mutlulu\u011fu s\u00fcrekli daha fazlas\u0131nda aramak yerine, elimizde olan k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck g\u00fczellikleri fark etmeyi \u00f6\u011frenmek de bir ya\u015fam becerisidir.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

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Oscar Wilde Kimdir?<\/h3>\n

Oscar Wilde (1854-1900) \u0130rlandal\u0131 \u015fair, yazar, oyun yazar\u0131 ve ele\u015ftirmendir. Viktorya d\u00f6nemi edebiyat\u0131n\u0131n en dikkat \u00e7ekici isimlerinden biri olan Wilde, zek\u00e2s\u0131, n\u00fcktedanl\u0131\u011f\u0131 ve toplumsal ele\u015ftirileri ile tan\u0131nm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. Dorian Gray\u2019in Portresi<\/em>, Ciddi Olman\u0131n \u00d6nemi<\/em> . Mutlu Prens<\/em> en bilinen eserleri aras\u0131ndad\u0131r. Eserlerinde toplumun ahlaki yarg\u0131lar\u0131n\u0131, ikiy\u00fczl\u00fcl\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fc, g\u00fczellik anlay\u0131\u015f\u0131n\u0131 ve insan ili\u015fkilerini ironik ve \u00e7arp\u0131c\u0131 bir dille ele alan Wilde, k\u0131sa ya\u015fam\u0131na ra\u011fmen d\u00fcnya edebiyat\u0131nda kal\u0131c\u0131 bir iz b\u0131rakm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r.<\/p>\n

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Hayata Dair En \u0130yi \u00d6zl\u00fc S\u00f6zler<\/a><\/p><\/blockquote>\n