{"id":9428,"date":"2015-07-23T12:45:36","date_gmt":"2015-07-23T09:45:36","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.ozdeyis.net\/?p=9428"},"modified":"2026-04-20T20:59:52","modified_gmt":"2026-04-20T20:59:52","slug":"degisiklik-yapmakta-basarili-olan-insanlar-degisiklige-kendilerinden-baslayanlardir-george-b-shaw","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/e-motivasyon.net\/en\/degisiklik-yapmakta-basarili-olan-insanlar-degisiklige-kendilerinden-baslayanlardir-george-b-shaw.html","title":{"rendered":"“De\u011fi\u015fiklik yapmakta ba\u015far\u0131l\u0131 olan insanlar, de\u011fi\u015fikli\u011fe kendilerinden ba\u015flayanlard\u0131r.” George B. Shaw"},"content":{"rendered":"

“De\u011fi\u015fiklik yapmakta ba\u015far\u0131l\u0131 olan insanlar, de\u011fi\u015fikli\u011fe kendilerinden ba\u015flayanlard\u0131r.” George B. Shaw<\/strong><\/em><\/h3>\n

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George Bernard Shaw<\/span><\/span>\u2019un bu g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc s\u00f6z\u00fc, de\u011fi\u015fim ve ki\u015fisel geli\u015fim konusundaki en temel ger\u00e7e\u011fi sade bir \u015fekilde ortaya koyar: D\u00fcnya de\u011fi\u015fmeden \u00f6nce, insan\u0131n kendisi de\u011fi\u015fmelidir.<\/strong> \u00c7o\u011fu zaman \u00e7evremizin, ko\u015fullar\u0131n ya da insanlar\u0131n de\u011fi\u015fmesini bekleriz. Ancak bu bekleyi\u015f, bizi pasif bir konuma iter. Oysa ger\u00e7ek d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015f\u00fcm, i\u00e7eriden ba\u015flar. D\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnce kal\u0131plar\u0131m\u0131z, al\u0131\u015fkanl\u0131klar\u0131m\u0131z ve bak\u0131\u015f a\u00e7\u0131m\u0131z de\u011fi\u015fmeden, d\u0131\u015f d\u00fcnyada kal\u0131c\u0131 bir de\u011fi\u015fim yaratmak neredeyse imk\u00e2ns\u0131zd\u0131r. Kendi i\u00e7 d\u00fcnyas\u0131n\u0131 d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015ft\u00fcren insan, d\u0131\u015f d\u00fcnyay\u0131 da etkileyebilecek g\u00fcce ula\u015f\u0131r.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Bu s\u00f6zden ilham alarak g\u00fcnl\u00fck hayatta uygulayabilece\u011fimiz etkili bir \u00f6neri: De\u011fi\u015fmesini istedi\u011finiz bir durumu belirleyin ve \u00f6nce kendi davran\u0131\u015f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 g\u00f6zden ge\u00e7irin.<\/strong> \u00d6rne\u011fin, daha iyi bir ileti\u015fim istiyorsan\u0131z \u00f6nce siz daha iyi dinlemeyi deneyin. Daha \u00fcretken bir hayat istiyorsan\u0131z, k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck de olsa her g\u00fcn d\u00fczenli bir ad\u0131m at\u0131n. Bu yakla\u015f\u0131m, sizi \u201c\u015fik\u00e2yet eden\u201d konumdan \u201csorumluluk alan\u201d konuma ta\u015f\u0131r. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc motivasyonun en g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc kayna\u011f\u0131, kontrol edebildi\u011fimiz alanlara odaklanmakt\u0131r. Kendinizde ba\u015flatt\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z her de\u011fi\u015fim, \u00e7evrenize dalga dalga yay\u0131l\u0131r.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Hayat\u0131n i\u00e7inde bunu s\u0131k\u00e7a g\u00f6r\u00fcr\u00fcz. Bir ekipte lider de\u011fi\u015fti\u011finde, \u00e7o\u011fu zaman ekip de d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015f\u00fcr. Ama as\u0131l etki, liderin \u00f6nce kendi yakla\u015f\u0131m\u0131n\u0131 de\u011fi\u015ftirmesinden do\u011far. Ya da bir ailede, bir ki\u015finin sab\u0131rl\u0131 ve anlay\u0131\u015fl\u0131 olmas\u0131, t\u00fcm ili\u015fkinin tonunu de\u011fi\u015ftirir. Siz de\u011fi\u015fti\u011finizde, d\u00fcnya da size farkl\u0131 davranmaya ba\u015flar. Bu y\u00fczden de\u011fi\u015fimi d\u0131\u015far\u0131da aramak yerine, aynaya bakmak gerekir. Unutmay\u0131n; ger\u00e7ek de\u011fi\u015fim ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131 de\u011fi\u015ftirmekle de\u011fil, kendinizde ba\u015flatt\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015f\u00fcmle ba\u015flar.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

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George Bernard Shaw Kimdir?<\/strong><\/h3>\n

George Bernard Shaw (1856-1950) \u0130rlandal\u0131 oyun yazar\u0131, ele\u015ftirmen ve d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcrd\u00fcr. Edebiyat d\u00fcnyas\u0131nda keskin zek\u00e2s\u0131, toplumsal ele\u015ftirileri ve g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc diyaloglar\u0131yla tan\u0131n\u0131r. 1925 y\u0131l\u0131nda Nobel Edebiyat \u00d6d\u00fcl\u00fc\u2019n\u00fc kazanan Shaw, eserlerinde insan do\u011fas\u0131n\u0131, toplumun aksayan y\u00f6nlerini ve bireysel sorumlulu\u011fu sorgulayan temalara yer vermi\u015ftir.<\/p>\n

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Ba\u015far\u0131 \u00d6zl\u00fc S\u00f6zleri<\/a><\/p><\/blockquote>\n