{"id":9303,"date":"2015-07-17T23:05:41","date_gmt":"2015-07-17T23:05:41","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.ozdeyis.net\/?p=9303"},"modified":"2026-03-28T11:51:18","modified_gmt":"2026-03-28T11:51:18","slug":"etkin-iletisimde-bulunabilmek-icin-hepimizin-dunyayi-farkli-sekilde-algiladigimizin-ve-bu-algilamalarimizi-digerleriyle-iletisimimizde-rehber-olarak-kullandigimizin-farkina-varmaliyiz-anthony-rob","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/e-motivasyon.net\/en\/etkin-iletisimde-bulunabilmek-icin-hepimizin-dunyayi-farkli-sekilde-algiladigimizin-ve-bu-algilamalarimizi-digerleriyle-iletisimimizde-rehber-olarak-kullandigimizin-farkina-varmaliyiz-anthony-rob.html","title":{"rendered":"\u201cTo be able to communicate effectively, we must realize that we all perceive the world differently and use these perceptions as guides in our communication with others.\u201d Anthony Robbins"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u201cTo be able to communicate effectively, we must realize that we all perceive the world differently and use these perceptions as guides in our communication with others.\u201d Anthony Robbins<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

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\u201cEtkin ileti\u015fimde bulunabilmek i\u00e7in hepimizin d\u00fcnyay\u0131 farkl\u0131 \u015fekilde alg\u0131lad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n ve bu alg\u0131lamalar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 di\u011ferleriyle ileti\u015fimimizde rehber olarak kulland\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n fark\u0131na varmal\u0131y\u0131z.\u201d<\/strong> s\u00f6z\u00fc, ki\u015fisel geli\u015fim ve ileti\u015fim psikolojisi alan\u0131nda \u00f6nemli bir isim olan Anthony Robbins<\/span><\/span> taraf\u0131ndan dile getirilen g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc bir fark\u0131ndal\u0131k \u00e7a\u011fr\u0131s\u0131d\u0131r. Bu s\u00f6z\u00fcn temelinde \u015fu ger\u00e7ek yatar: Ayn\u0131 olaya bakan iki insan, asl\u0131nda ayn\u0131 \u015feyi g\u00f6rmez. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc herkes ge\u00e7mi\u015f deneyimleri, inan\u00e7lar\u0131, duygusal filtreleri ve beklentileri \u00fczerinden bir anlam \u00fcretir. \u0130leti\u015fimde ya\u015fanan bir\u00e7ok \u00e7at\u0131\u015fman\u0131n nedeni, insanlar\u0131n ger\u00e7e\u011fi farkl\u0131 alg\u0131lad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 unutmam\u0131zd\u0131r.<\/strong> Biz \u00e7o\u011fu zaman kar\u015f\u0131m\u0131zdakinin yanl\u0131\u015f d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fc varsayar\u0131z; oysa \u00e7o\u011fu durumda sadece farkl\u0131 bir pencereden bak\u0131yordur. Etkin ileti\u015fim, hakl\u0131 olmaktan \u00e7ok anlamaya istekli olmakla ba\u015flar.<\/p>\n

Bu s\u00f6zden ilhamla g\u00fcnl\u00fck hayatta uygulayabilece\u011fimiz pratik \u00f6neri \u015fudur: Bir konu\u015fma s\u0131ras\u0131nda hemen cevap vermek yerine \u00f6nce alg\u0131y\u0131 anlamaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmak. Bunun i\u00e7in basit ama g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc bir soru sorabilirsiniz: \u201cSen bunu nas\u0131l g\u00f6r\u00fcyorsun?\u201d<\/strong> Bu soru, ileti\u015fimi savunma alan\u0131ndan anlay\u0131\u015f alan\u0131na ta\u015f\u0131r. \u00d6zellikle i\u015f hayat\u0131nda, aile ili\u015fkilerinde veya arkada\u015fl\u0131kta bu yakla\u015f\u0131m b\u00fcy\u00fck fark yarat\u0131r. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc insanlar anla\u015f\u0131lmadan ikna olmazlar. \u0130leti\u015fimde empati kurmak yaln\u0131zca nazik bir davran\u0131\u015f de\u011fil, ayn\u0131 zamanda etkili ileti\u015fimin temel stratejisidir. B\u00f6ylece ileti\u015fim \u00e7at\u0131\u015fma \u00fcretmek yerine ba\u011f kurmaya ba\u015flar.<\/p>\n

\u00d6rne\u011fin bir i\u015f toplant\u0131s\u0131nda bir proje hakk\u0131nda fikir ayr\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131 ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnelim. Siz plan\u0131 riskli g\u00f6r\u00fcrken, ekip arkada\u015f\u0131n\u0131z f\u0131rsat olarak de\u011ferlendirebilir. Tart\u0131\u015fmay\u0131 kazanmak yerine onun bak\u0131\u015f a\u00e7\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 anlamaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131zda konu\u015fman\u0131n tonu de\u011fi\u015fir. Bir anda kar\u015f\u0131t taraflar olmaktan \u00e7\u0131k\u0131p ortak \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fcm arayan insanlar h\u00e2line gelirsiniz. \u0130\u015fte Anthony Robbins<\/span><\/span>\u2019in vurgulad\u0131\u011f\u0131 ileti\u015fim g\u00fcc\u00fc tam olarak budur: Farkl\u0131 alg\u0131lar\u0131 kabul etmek, ileti\u015fimi zay\u0131flatmaz; aksine derinle\u015ftirir.<\/strong> Ger\u00e7ek ileti\u015fim, ayn\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmek de\u011fil; farkl\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnceleri anlayabilecek kadar bilin\u00e7li olabilmektir.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

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Anthony Robbins Kimdir?<\/h3>\n

Anthony Robbins<\/span><\/span> (1960\u2013 ) Amerikal\u0131 ki\u015fisel geli\u015fim yazar\u0131, motivasyon konu\u015fmac\u0131s\u0131 ve ya\u015fam ko\u00e7udur. \u00d6zellikle insan davran\u0131\u015f\u0131, motivasyon, liderlik ve etkin ileti\u015fim konular\u0131ndaki \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmalar\u0131yla d\u00fcnya \u00e7ap\u0131nda tan\u0131nm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. Unlimited Power<\/em> . Awaken the Giant Within<\/em> gibi kitaplar\u0131yla geni\u015f kitlelere ula\u015fm\u0131\u015f, seminerleri ve ko\u00e7luk programlar\u0131yla bireysel performans geli\u015ftirme alan\u0131nda etkili bir isim h\u00e2line gelmi\u015ftir. Robbins, n\u00f6ro-dilbilimsel programlama (NLP), davran\u0131\u015f de\u011fi\u015fimi ve zihinsel modelleme \u00fczerine geli\u015ftirdi\u011fi yakla\u015f\u0131mlarla ki\u015fisel geli\u015fim literat\u00fcr\u00fcnde \u00f6nemli bir yer edinmi\u015ftir.<\/p>\n

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