{"id":9296,"date":"2015-07-17T22:31:27","date_gmt":"2015-07-17T19:31:27","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.ozdeyis.net\/?p=9296"},"modified":"2026-04-05T09:59:21","modified_gmt":"2026-04-05T09:59:21","slug":"sonunda-aci-getirecek-zevklerden-kacinabilen-sonunda-zevk-getirecek-acilara-da-dayanabilen-insan-mutlu-ve-basarilidir-montaigne","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/e-motivasyon.net\/en\/sonunda-aci-getirecek-zevklerden-kacinabilen-sonunda-zevk-getirecek-acilara-da-dayanabilen-insan-mutlu-ve-basarilidir-montaigne.html","title":{"rendered":"\u201cThe person who can avoid the pleasures that will bring pain in the end, and who can endure the pain that will bring pleasure in the end, is happy and successful.\u201d Montaigne"},"content":{"rendered":"

“Sonunda ac\u0131 getirecek zevklerden ka\u00e7\u0131nabilen, sonunda zevk getirecek ac\u0131lara da dayanabilen insan mutlu ve ba\u015far\u0131l\u0131d\u0131r.” Montaigne<\/strong><\/em><\/h3>\n

\"\"<\/a><\/p>\n

<\/section>\n
\n
\n
\n
\n
\n
\n
\n

\u201cSonunda ac\u0131 getirecek zevklerden ka\u00e7\u0131nabilen, sonunda zevk getirecek ac\u0131lara da dayanabilen insan mutlu ve ba\u015far\u0131l\u0131d\u0131r.\u201d s\u00f6z\u00fc, Michel de Montaigne<\/span><\/span> taraf\u0131ndan insan do\u011fas\u0131n\u0131n en temel \u00e7eli\u015fkilerinden birini anlat\u0131r: anl\u0131k haz ile uzun vadeli mutluluk aras\u0131ndaki se\u00e7im. Montaigne burada bize, ger\u00e7ek mutlulu\u011fun kolay olan\u0131 se\u00e7mekten de\u011fil, do\u011fru olan\u0131 se\u00e7ebilme olgunlu\u011fundan do\u011fdu\u011funu hat\u0131rlat\u0131r. G\u00fcnl\u00fck ya\u015famda \u00e7o\u011fu zaman k\u0131sa vadeli rahatl\u0131klar \u2014 ertelemek, vazge\u00e7mek, disiplin gerektiren i\u015fleri b\u0131rakmak \u2014 bize cazip gelir. Ancak anl\u0131k zevkler \u00e7o\u011fu zaman uzun vadeli pi\u015fmanl\u0131klar\u0131n tohumudur.<\/strong> Buna kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131k emek, sab\u0131r ve bazen rahats\u0131zl\u0131k i\u00e7eren s\u00fcre\u00e7ler ise ileride g\u00fcven, ba\u015far\u0131 ve i\u00e7 huzur olarak geri d\u00f6ner. Ki\u015fisel geli\u015fim ve motivasyon a\u00e7\u0131s\u0131ndan bak\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131nda bu s\u00f6z, \u00f6z disiplinin mutlulu\u011fun gizli anahtar\u0131 oldu\u011funu a\u00e7\u0131k\u00e7a ortaya koyar.<\/p>\n

Bu d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnceden ilhamla g\u00fcnl\u00fck hayatta uygulayabilece\u011fimiz pratik \u00f6neri \u015fudur: \u201c10 dakika kural\u0131.\u201d Yapmak istemedi\u011finiz ama uzun vadede size fayda sa\u011flayacak bir i\u015fe yaln\u0131zca 10 dakika ay\u0131rmay\u0131 taahh\u00fct edin. Spor yapmak, kitap okumak, yeni bir beceri \u00f6\u011frenmek ya da \u00f6nemli bir projeye ba\u015flamak gibi. \u00c7o\u011fu zaman ba\u015flang\u0131\u00e7 k\u0131sm\u0131 zihinsel diren\u00e7 yarat\u0131r; fakat ba\u015flad\u0131ktan sonra devam etmek kolayla\u015f\u0131r. Ba\u015flang\u0131\u00e7taki k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck rahats\u0131zl\u0131\u011fa katlanmak, gelecekteki b\u00fcy\u00fck tatminin kap\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 a\u00e7ar.<\/strong> Bu y\u00f6ntem, beynimizi k\u0131sa vadeli hazdan uzun vadeli kazanca do\u011fru yeniden e\u011fitmenin basit ama etkili yollar\u0131ndan biridir.<\/p>\n

Hayatta ba\u015far\u0131l\u0131 insanlar\u0131n ortak \u00f6zelliklerine bakt\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131zda bunu a\u00e7\u0131k\u00e7a g\u00f6r\u00fcr\u00fcz: S\u0131nav\u0131na \u00e7al\u0131\u015fan \u00f6\u011frenci e\u011flenceyi erteleyebilir, sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 ya\u015fam\u0131 se\u00e7en biri ge\u00e7ici konforlardan vazge\u00e7ebilir, bir giri\u015fimci belirsizlik stresine ra\u011fmen yoluna devam edebilir. \u0130lk bak\u0131\u015fta zor g\u00f6r\u00fcnen bu se\u00e7imler zamanla \u00f6zg\u00fcven, ba\u015far\u0131 ve i\u00e7sel huzur getirir. Montaigne\u2019in mesaj\u0131 asl\u0131nda \u00e7ok nettir: Ger\u00e7ek mutluluk, ac\u0131dan ka\u00e7makta de\u011fil; do\u011fru ac\u0131ya sabredip yanl\u0131\u015f zevklerden bilin\u00e7li \u015fekilde uzakla\u015fabilmektedir.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

\n

Michel de Montaigne Kimdir?<\/strong><\/h3>\n

Michel de Montaigne (1533\u20131592) Frans\u0131z filozof, denemeci ve d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcrd\u00fcr. Modern deneme t\u00fcr\u00fcn\u00fcn kurucusu kabul edilen Montaigne, insan do\u011fas\u0131, ahlak, mutluluk ve ya\u015fam bilgeli\u011fi \u00fczerine yazd\u0131\u011f\u0131 Denemeler<\/em> adl\u0131 eseriyle tan\u0131n\u0131r. R\u00f6nesans d\u00f6neminde bireyin i\u00e7 d\u00fcnyas\u0131n\u0131 merkeze alan yakla\u015f\u0131m\u0131yla felsefede \u00f6nemli bir d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015f\u00fcm yaratm\u0131\u015f, \u00f6zellikle \u00f6z fark\u0131ndal\u0131k, \u00f6l\u00e7\u00fcl\u00fcl\u00fck ve insan\u0131n kendini tan\u0131mas\u0131 konular\u0131ndaki fikirleriyle modern ki\u015fisel geli\u015fim d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcncesine g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc katk\u0131lar sa\u011flam\u0131\u015ft\u0131r.<\/p>\n

\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n

Ba\u015far\u0131 \u00d6zl\u00fc S\u00f6zleri<\/a><\/p><\/blockquote>\n