{"id":9257,"date":"2015-07-14T14:34:25","date_gmt":"2015-07-14T11:34:25","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.ozdeyis.net\/?p=9257"},"modified":"2026-03-25T12:12:02","modified_gmt":"2026-03-25T12:12:02","slug":"ufacik-bir-umut-bile-askin-dogmasi-icin-yeterlidir-stendhal","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/e-motivasyon.net\/en\/ufacik-bir-umut-bile-askin-dogmasi-icin-yeterlidir-stendhal.html","title":{"rendered":"\u201cEven a little hope is enough for love to be born.\u201d Stendhal"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u201cEven a little hope is enough for love to be born.\u201d Stendhal<\/strong><\/em><\/h3>\n

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\u201cUfac\u0131k bir umut bile a\u015fk\u0131n do\u011fmas\u0131 i\u00e7in yeterlidir.\u201d s\u00f6z\u00fc, Stendhal<\/span><\/span>\u2019in insan ruhunu derinlemesine g\u00f6zlemleyen bak\u0131\u015f a\u00e7\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 yans\u0131t\u0131r. Bu ifade bize a\u015fk\u0131n b\u00fcy\u00fck olaylarla de\u011fil, \u00e7o\u011fu zaman k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fcc\u00fck bir ihtimalle ba\u015flad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 anlat\u0131r. \u0130nsan kalbi kesinlikten \u00e7ok olas\u0131l\u0131kla hareket eder; bazen bir bak\u0131\u015f, k\u0131sa bir sohbet ya da i\u00e7ten bir ilgi k\u0131r\u0131nt\u0131s\u0131 bile duygular\u0131n filizlenmesi i\u00e7in yeterlidir. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc a\u015fk\u0131n temelinde beklenti de\u011fil, umut duygusunun yaratt\u0131\u011f\u0131 i\u00e7sel canl\u0131l\u0131k<\/strong> vard\u0131r. Stendhal\u2019e g\u00f6re a\u015fk, mant\u0131\u011f\u0131n de\u011fil, kalbin \u201cbelki\u201d dedi\u011fi yerde do\u011far; yani insan\u0131n i\u00e7 d\u00fcnyas\u0131nda ye\u015feren k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck bir \u0131\u015f\u0131k, duygusal bir evrenin ba\u015flang\u0131c\u0131na d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015febilir.<\/p>\n

Bu s\u00f6zden ilhamla g\u00fcnl\u00fck hayatta uygulayabilece\u011fimiz pratik \u00f6neri \u015fudur: \u0130nsan ili\u015fkilerinde kesin yarg\u0131lar yerine k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck ihtimallere alan a\u00e7may\u0131 deneyin. Bir insan\u0131 tan\u0131madan \u00f6nce zihnimizde olu\u015fturdu\u011fumuz kal\u0131plar \u00e7o\u011fu zaman ger\u00e7ek ba\u011flar\u0131n olu\u015fmas\u0131n\u0131 engeller. Bu y\u00fczden kendimize \u015fu k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck al\u0131\u015fkanl\u0131\u011f\u0131 kazand\u0131rabiliriz: Yeni tan\u0131\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z bir ki\u015fiyle ilgili hemen karar vermek yerine, ona ikinci bir sohbet f\u0131rsat\u0131 tan\u0131mak. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc ili\u015fkiler \u00e7o\u011fu zaman ilk izlenimle de\u011fil, verilen ikinci \u015fanslarla derinle\u015fir.<\/strong> K\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck bir merak, k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck bir anlay\u0131\u015f ya da k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck bir sab\u0131r, beklenmedik ba\u011flar\u0131n kap\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 aralayabilir.<\/p>\n

G\u00fcnl\u00fck ya\u015famdan basit bir \u00f6rnek d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnelim: Belki uzun zamand\u0131r ileti\u015fimin zay\u0131flad\u0131\u011f\u0131 bir arkada\u015f\u0131n\u0131za att\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z k\u0131sa bir mesaj ya da \u00e7ekinerek ba\u015flad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z bir konu\u015fma, yeniden kurulan g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc bir ba\u011f\u0131n ba\u015flang\u0131c\u0131 olabilir. B\u00fcy\u00fck duygular \u00e7o\u011fu zaman b\u00fcy\u00fck ad\u0131mlarla de\u011fil, k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck cesaretlerle ba\u015flar. Stendhal\u2019in s\u00f6z\u00fc bize \u015funu hat\u0131rlat\u0131r: \u0130nsan kalbi tamamen kapal\u0131 de\u011fildir; sadece bir i\u015faret bekler. Bazen k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fcc\u00fck bir umut, hayat\u0131n y\u00f6n\u00fcn\u00fc de\u011fi\u015ftirecek kadar g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fcd\u00fcr.<\/strong> \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc a\u015fk \u00e7o\u011fu zaman b\u00fcy\u00fck bir ba\u015flang\u0131\u00e7 yapmaz; k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck bir ihtimalin ciddiye al\u0131nmas\u0131yla b\u00fcy\u00fcr.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

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Stendhal Kimdir?<\/strong><\/h3>\n

Stendhal (1783-1842) Frans\u0131z romanc\u0131 ve deneme yazar\u0131d\u0131r. Ger\u00e7ek ad\u0131 Marie-Henri Beyle olan Stendhal, \u00f6zellikle insan psikolojisini derinlemesine inceleyen eserleriyle tan\u0131n\u0131r. K\u0131rm\u0131z\u0131 ve Siyah<\/em> with Parma Manast\u0131r\u0131<\/em> adl\u0131 romanlar\u0131 d\u00fcnya edebiyat\u0131n\u0131n \u00f6nemli klasikleri aras\u0131nda kabul edilir. A\u015fk, tutku ve bireyin i\u00e7sel \u00e7at\u0131\u015fmalar\u0131n\u0131 ger\u00e7ek\u00e7i bir bak\u0131\u015fla ele alan yazar, modern psikolojik roman\u0131n \u00f6nc\u00fclerinden biri say\u0131l\u0131r.<\/p>\n

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A\u015fk ve Sevgi \u00dczerine En \u0130yi \u00d6zl\u00fc S\u00f6zler<\/a><\/p><\/blockquote>\n