{"id":9116,"date":"2015-07-08T20:59:34","date_gmt":"2015-07-08T17:59:34","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.ozdeyis.net\/?p=9116"},"modified":"2026-03-08T20:43:03","modified_gmt":"2026-03-08T20:43:03","slug":"zorluklari-karsilamanin-iki-yolu-vardir-ya-zorluklari-degistirirsiniz-ya-da-zorluklari-cozmek-icin-kendinizi-phyllis-bottome","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/e-motivasyon.net\/en\/zorluklari-karsilamanin-iki-yolu-vardir-ya-zorluklari-degistirirsiniz-ya-da-zorluklari-cozmek-icin-kendinizi-phyllis-bottome.html","title":{"rendered":"\u201cThere are two ways to meet challenges; either you change the difficulties or you change yourself to solve the difficulties.\u201d Phyllis Bottome"},"content":{"rendered":"

“Zorluklar\u0131 kar\u015f\u0131laman\u0131n iki yolu vard\u0131r; ya zorluklar\u0131 de\u011fi\u015ftirirsiniz ya da zorluklar\u0131 \u00e7\u00f6zmek i\u00e7in kendinizi.” Phyllis Bottome<\/strong><\/em><\/h3>\n

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\u201cZorluklar\u0131 kar\u015f\u0131laman\u0131n iki yolu vard\u0131r; ya zorluklar\u0131 de\u011fi\u015ftirirsiniz ya da zorluklar\u0131 \u00e7\u00f6zmek i\u00e7in kendinizi.\u201d s\u00f6z\u00fcyle Phyllis Bottome<\/span><\/span>, hayat\u0131n ka\u00e7\u0131n\u0131lmaz ger\u00e7eklerinden biri olan zorluklara nas\u0131l yakla\u015fmam\u0131z gerekti\u011fini anlat\u0131r. \u0130nsan \u00e7o\u011fu zaman kar\u015f\u0131la\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131 engelleri yaln\u0131zca d\u0131\u015f ko\u015fullar\u0131n bir sonucu olarak g\u00f6r\u00fcr. Oysa baz\u0131 durumlarda zorluklar\u0131 de\u011fi\u015ftirmek m\u00fcmk\u00fcn olsa da, \u00e7o\u011fu zaman as\u0131l de\u011fi\u015fmesi gereken \u015fey bizim bak\u0131\u015f a\u00e7\u0131m\u0131z, becerilerimiz ve i\u00e7sel g\u00fcc\u00fcm\u00fczd\u00fcr.<\/strong> Bu s\u00f6z bize \u00f6nemli bir ger\u00e7e\u011fi hat\u0131rlat\u0131r: Hayat\u0131n zorluklar\u0131 kar\u015f\u0131s\u0131nda yaln\u0131zca d\u00fcnyay\u0131 de\u011fi\u015ftirmeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmak yetmez; bazen kendimizi geli\u015ftirmek de gerekir.<\/strong> \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc geli\u015fen insan, ayn\u0131 zorlukla kar\u015f\u0131la\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131nda art\u0131k onu farkl\u0131 bir g\u00fc\u00e7le kar\u015f\u0131layabilir.<\/p>\n

Bu d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnceden ilham alarak g\u00fcnl\u00fck hayatta uygulayabilece\u011fimiz pratik bir \u00f6neri var: \u201c\u00c7ift soru y\u00f6ntemi.\u201d<\/strong> Bir sorunla kar\u015f\u0131la\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131zda kendimize iki basit soru sormay\u0131 al\u0131\u015fkanl\u0131k haline getirebiliriz: \u201cBu durumu de\u011fi\u015ftirebilir miyim?\u201d ve \u201cE\u011fer de\u011fi\u015ftiremiyorsam kendimi nas\u0131l geli\u015ftirebilirim?\u201d Bu iki soru zihnimizi \u015fik\u00e2yetten \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fcme do\u011fru y\u00f6nlendirir. \u00d6rne\u011fin bir i\u015fte zorlan\u0131yorsak yeni bir beceri \u00f6\u011frenmek, ileti\u015fimde sorun ya\u015f\u0131yorsak empatiyi geli\u015ftirmek ya da stresli bir durumda sakin kalmay\u0131 \u00f6\u011frenmek\u2026 Kendimizi geli\u015ftirdi\u011fimizde ayn\u0131 zorluk art\u0131k eskisi kadar g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc g\u00f6r\u00fcnmez.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Hayat\u0131n i\u00e7inde bunun pek \u00e7ok \u00f6rne\u011fini g\u00f6rmek m\u00fcmk\u00fcnd\u00fcr. Bir \u00f6\u011frenci zor bir dersle kar\u015f\u0131la\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131nda iki yol vard\u0131r: ya dersin \u015fartlar\u0131n\u0131n de\u011fi\u015fmesini beklemek ya da daha iyi \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmay\u0131 \u00f6\u011frenmek. \u0130kinci yolu se\u00e7en ki\u015fi zamanla yaln\u0131zca o dersi de\u011fil, gelecekte kar\u015f\u0131la\u015faca\u011f\u0131 bir\u00e7ok zorlu\u011fu da daha rahat a\u015fabilecek bir beceri kazan\u0131r. \u0130\u015fte Phyllis Bottome<\/span><\/span>\u2019nin s\u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fcn \u00f6z\u00fc tam olarak burada sakl\u0131d\u0131r. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc hayat\u0131n zorluklar\u0131 bazen de\u011fi\u015fmez; fakat o zorluklarla ba\u015fa \u00e7\u0131kabilecek g\u00fcc\u00fc geli\u015ftirmek her zaman bizim elimizdedir.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

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Phyllis Bottome Kimdir?<\/strong><\/h3>\n

Phyllis Bottome<\/span><\/span> (1884-1963) \u0130ngiliz romanc\u0131 ve yazard\u0131r. Romanlar\u0131nda insan psikolojisini, toplumsal ili\u015fkileri ve bireyin i\u00e7 d\u00fcnyas\u0131n\u0131 derinlemesine ele alm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. \u00d6zellikle insan\u0131n ki\u015fisel geli\u015fimi, i\u00e7sel d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015f\u00fcm\u00fc ve ya\u015famla m\u00fccadelesi \u00fczerine yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131 g\u00f6zlemlerle tan\u0131n\u0131r. Edebiyat \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmalar\u0131n\u0131n yan\u0131 s\u0131ra psikoloji ve insan davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131 \u00fczerine d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnceleriyle de dikkat \u00e7ekmi\u015f, eserleri farkl\u0131 dillere \u00e7evrilerek geni\u015f bir okur kitlesine ula\u015fm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r.<\/p>\n

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