{"id":9064,"date":"2015-07-07T14:17:18","date_gmt":"2015-07-07T11:17:18","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.ozdeyis.net\/?p=9064"},"modified":"2026-03-06T11:24:02","modified_gmt":"2026-03-06T11:24:02","slug":"insanlar-olgunlastikca-taraflara-inanmayi-birakirlar-virginia-woolf","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/e-motivasyon.net\/en\/insanlar-olgunlastikca-taraflara-inanmayi-birakirlar-virginia-woolf.html","title":{"rendered":"\u201cAs people mature, they stop believing in the 'sides'.\u201d Virginia Woolf"},"content":{"rendered":"

“\u0130nsanlar olgunla\u015ft\u0131k\u00e7a ‘taraflara’ inanmay\u0131 b\u0131rak\u0131rlar.” Virginia Woolf<\/strong><\/em><\/h3>\n

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\u201c\u0130nsanlar olgunla\u015ft\u0131k\u00e7a \u2018taraflara\u2019 inanmay\u0131 b\u0131rak\u0131rlar.\u201d s\u00f6z\u00fc, insan\u0131n d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnsel geli\u015fimiyle birlikte d\u00fcnyay\u0131 daha geni\u015f bir perspektiften g\u00f6rmeye ba\u015flad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 anlat\u0131r. Virginia Woolf<\/span><\/span> bu s\u00f6zle, hayat\u0131 siyah ve beyaz kutulara ay\u0131rman\u0131n asl\u0131nda zihinsel bir kolayc\u0131l\u0131k oldu\u011funu hat\u0131rlat\u0131r. Gen\u00e7 ya\u015flarda \u00e7o\u011fu zaman bir tart\u0131\u015fmada \u201chakl\u0131 taraf\u201d ve \u201chaks\u0131z taraf\u201d arar\u0131z. Oysa deneyim artt\u0131k\u00e7a fark ederiz ki ger\u00e7ek hayat \u00e7o\u011fu zaman gri tonlardan olu\u015fur. Olgunluk; insanlar\u0131, olaylar\u0131 ve fikirleri tek bir cepheye s\u0131k\u0131\u015ft\u0131rmak yerine, farkl\u0131 bak\u0131\u015f a\u00e7\u0131lar\u0131n\u0131 ayn\u0131 anda g\u00f6rebilme becerisidir.<\/strong> Bu fark\u0131ndal\u0131k, hem d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnce d\u00fcnyam\u0131z\u0131 zenginle\u015ftirir hem de ili\u015fkilerimizde daha anlay\u0131\u015fl\u0131 olmam\u0131z\u0131 sa\u011flar.<\/p>\n

Bu s\u00f6zden ilham alarak g\u00fcnl\u00fck hayat\u0131m\u0131zda uygulayabilece\u011fimiz basit ama g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc bir pratik \u015fudur: Bir tart\u0131\u015fma veya fikir ayr\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131 ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131zda kendinize \u015fu soruyu sorun: \u201cKar\u015f\u0131 taraf\u0131n bak\u0131\u015f a\u00e7\u0131s\u0131nda do\u011fru olabilecek ne var?\u201d Bu k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck zihinsel egzersiz, otomatik olarak savunmaya ge\u00e7memizi engeller. Olgun d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnce, hakl\u0131 \u00e7\u0131kmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmaktan \u00e7ok ger\u00e7e\u011fi anlamaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131r.<\/strong> B\u00f6yle d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcm\u00fczde tart\u0131\u015fmalar\u0131n bir sava\u015f de\u011fil, bir \u00f6\u011frenme alan\u0131 oldu\u011funu fark ederiz. Bu yakla\u015f\u0131m hem empatiyi geli\u015ftirir hem de zihinsel esnekli\u011fi art\u0131r\u0131r.<\/p>\n

G\u00fcnl\u00fck hayatta bunun say\u0131s\u0131z \u00f6rne\u011fini g\u00f6rebiliriz. \u00d6rne\u011fin iki arkada\u015f bir konu hakk\u0131nda tamamen z\u0131t fikirler savunabilir. Birinin bak\u0131\u015f a\u00e7\u0131s\u0131 deneyimlerinden, di\u011ferinin bak\u0131\u015f a\u00e7\u0131s\u0131 ise de\u011ferlerinden besleniyor olabilir. E\u011fer taraflardan biri geri \u00e7ekilip durumu daha geni\u015f bir perspektiften de\u011ferlendirebilirse, asl\u0131nda her iki g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn de i\u00e7inde bir par\u00e7a ger\u00e7ek bulundu\u011funu g\u00f6rebilir. \u0130\u015fte Virginia Woolf<\/span><\/span>\u2019un s\u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fcn i\u015faret etti\u011fi olgunluk tam da budur: Hayat ilerledik\u00e7e anlar\u0131z ki \u00e7o\u011fu meselede \u00f6nemli olan \u201changi tarafta oldu\u011fumuz\u201d de\u011fil, ger\u00e7e\u011fi daha derin bir \u015fekilde g\u00f6rebilme cesaretimizdir.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

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Virginia Woolf Kimdir?<\/strong><\/h3>\n

Virginia Woolf<\/span><\/span> (1882-1941) \u0130ngiliz romanc\u0131, deneme yazar\u0131 ve modernist edebiyat\u0131n en \u00f6nemli isimlerinden biridir. Bilin\u00e7 ak\u0131\u015f\u0131 tekni\u011fini ustal\u0131kla kulland\u0131\u011f\u0131 eserleriyle tan\u0131n\u0131r. Mrs Dalloway<\/em>, To the Lighthouse<\/em> ve Orlando<\/em> gibi romanlar\u0131 edebiyat tarihinde \u00f6nemli bir yere sahiptir. Virginia Woolf, insan zihninin karma\u015f\u0131k yap\u0131s\u0131n\u0131, bireysel \u00f6zg\u00fcrl\u00fc\u011f\u00fc ve toplumsal kal\u0131plar\u0131 sorgulayan eserleriyle d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnce d\u00fcnyas\u0131nda derin izler b\u0131rakm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r.<\/p>\n

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Ki\u015fisel Geli\u015fim \u00d6zl\u00fc S\u00f6zleri<\/a><\/p><\/blockquote>\n