{"id":9034,"date":"2015-07-06T01:10:15","date_gmt":"2015-07-05T22:10:15","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.ozdeyis.net\/?p=9034"},"modified":"2026-03-05T21:14:22","modified_gmt":"2026-03-05T21:14:22","slug":"bir-kapiyi-itmeden-acik-olup-olmadigini-anlayamazsin-montaigne","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/e-motivasyon.net\/en\/bir-kapiyi-itmeden-acik-olup-olmadigini-anlayamazsin-montaigne.html","title":{"rendered":"“Bir kap\u0131y\u0131 itmeden a\u00e7\u0131k olup olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 anlayamazs\u0131n.” Montaigne"},"content":{"rendered":"

“Bir kap\u0131y\u0131 itmeden a\u00e7\u0131k olup olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 anlayamazs\u0131n.” Montaigne<\/strong><\/em><\/h3>\n

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\u201cYou can't tell if a door is open until you push it.<\/strong>\u201d s\u00f6z\u00fc, insan\u0131n hayat kar\u015f\u0131s\u0131ndaki en b\u00fcy\u00fck yan\u0131lg\u0131lar\u0131ndan birini \u00e7ok sade bir metaforla anlat\u0131r. Bu s\u00f6z\u00fcn sahibi olan Michel de Montaigne<\/span><\/span>, \u00e7o\u011fu zaman denemeden vazge\u00e7ti\u011fimizi ve ihtimalleri zihnimizde kapatt\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 hat\u0131rlat\u0131r. Bir f\u0131rsat\u0131n m\u00fcmk\u00fcn olup olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 \u00f6\u011frenmenin tek yolu onu denemektir. Fakat insanlar \u00e7o\u011fu zaman reddedilme korkusu, ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131zl\u0131k ihtimali ya da al\u0131\u015fkanl\u0131klar\u0131n konforu nedeniyle o kap\u0131y\u0131 hi\u00e7 itmez. Oysa ger\u00e7ek \u015fu ki hayatta pek \u00e7ok kap\u0131 sand\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131zdan daha kolay a\u00e7\u0131labilir.<\/strong> Sadece \u00e7o\u011fu insan o ilk k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck hareketi yapmaya cesaret edemez.<\/p>\n

Bu d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnceden ilham alarak g\u00fcnl\u00fck hayatta uygulayabilece\u011fimiz pratik bir yakla\u015f\u0131m vard\u0131r: \u201cK\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck denemeler kural\u0131.\u201d<\/strong> Merak etti\u011fimiz ama \u00e7ekindi\u011fimiz bir konuda dev ad\u0131mlar atmak zorunda de\u011filiz; bazen sadece k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck bir hamle yeterlidir. \u00d6rne\u011fin yeni bir i\u015f fikri akl\u0131n\u0131za geldiyse hemen b\u00fcy\u00fck yat\u0131r\u0131mlar yapmak yerine o fikri k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck \u00f6l\u00e7ekte test edebilirsiniz. Birine ula\u015fmak istiyorsan\u0131z uzun uzun d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmek yerine k\u0131sa bir mesaj yazabilirsiniz. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc hayatta bir\u00e7ok f\u0131rsat\u0131n kap\u0131s\u0131 k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck bir deneme ile aralan\u0131r.<\/strong> Denemek, ba\u015far\u0131n\u0131n garantisi de\u011fildir; fakat denememek neredeyse her zaman f\u0131rsat\u0131n ka\u00e7\u0131r\u0131lmas\u0131 anlam\u0131na gelir.<\/p>\n

G\u00fcnl\u00fck ya\u015famda bunun say\u0131s\u0131z \u00f6rne\u011fini g\u00f6r\u00fcr\u00fcz. Bir ki\u015fi y\u0131llarca bir projeye ba\u015flamay\u0131 hayal eder ama \u201cya olmazsa\u201d d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcncesi onu durdurur. Ba\u015fka biri ise ayn\u0131 fikri k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck bir ad\u0131mla dener ve zamanla b\u00fcy\u00fct\u00fcr. Aradaki fark \u00e7o\u011fu zaman yetenek de\u011fil, kap\u0131y\u0131 itme cesaretidir.<\/strong> Montaigne\u2019in bu s\u00f6z\u00fc bize \u00f6nemli bir hat\u0131rlatma yapar: Hayatta ger\u00e7ekten kapal\u0131 olan kap\u0131lar kadar, sadece dokunulmay\u0131 bekleyen kap\u0131lar da vard\u0131r.<\/strong> Ve bazen b\u00fct\u00fcn de\u011fi\u015fim, o kap\u0131y\u0131 hafif\u00e7e itmeye karar verdi\u011fimiz anda ba\u015flar.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

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Michel de Montaigne Kimdir?<\/h3>\n

Michel de Montaigne<\/span><\/span> (1533-1592) Frans\u0131z filozof, yazar ve R\u00f6nesans d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcr\u00fcd\u00fcr. Modern deneme t\u00fcr\u00fcn\u00fcn kurucular\u0131ndan biri olarak kabul edilir. En \u00fcnl\u00fc eseri Denemeler (Essais)<\/em> adl\u0131 kitab\u0131d\u0131r ve bu eserinde insan do\u011fas\u0131n\u0131, bilgiye yakla\u015f\u0131m\u0131, ku\u015fkuyu ve g\u00fcnl\u00fck ya\u015fam\u0131n i\u00e7indeki d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnsel deneyimleri ele al\u0131r. Montaigne\u2019in felsefesi sorgulama, deneyim ve bireysel d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnce \u00f6zg\u00fcrl\u00fc\u011f\u00fc<\/strong> \u00fczerine kuruludur. Yaz\u0131lar\u0131 y\u00fczy\u0131llard\u0131r hem felsefe hem de edebiyat d\u00fcnyas\u0131nda etkisini s\u00fcrd\u00fcrmekte ve insan\u0131n kendini tan\u0131ma yolculu\u011funa \u0131\u015f\u0131k tutmaktad\u0131r.<\/p>\n

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