{"id":8842,"date":"2015-06-29T02:47:58","date_gmt":"2015-06-28T23:47:58","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.ozdeyis.net\/?p=8842"},"modified":"2026-07-24T17:17:05","modified_gmt":"2026-07-24T17:17:05","slug":"bir-duvar-insa-etmeden-once-iceridekiler-icin-mi-yoksa-disaridakiler-icin-mi-oldugunu-bilmek-isterdim-robert-frost","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/e-motivasyon.net\/en\/bir-duvar-insa-etmeden-once-iceridekiler-icin-mi-yoksa-disaridakiler-icin-mi-oldugunu-bilmek-isterdim-robert-frost.html","title":{"rendered":"\u201cBefore I build a wall, I would like to know if it was for the inside or the outside.\u201d Robert Frost"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u201cBefore I build a wall, I would like to know if it was for the inside or the outside.\u201d Robert Frost<\/strong><\/em><\/h3>\n

Hayat\u0131m\u0131zda bazen kendimizi korumak i\u00e7in g\u00f6r\u00fcnmez duvarlar \u00f6reriz. K\u0131r\u0131lmamak, incinmemek ya da hayal k\u0131r\u0131kl\u0131\u011f\u0131 ya\u015famamak ad\u0131na insanlardan uzakla\u015fabiliriz. Ancak Robert Frost’un “Bir duvar in\u015fa etmeden \u00f6nce, i\u00e7eridekiler i\u00e7in mi, yoksa d\u0131\u015far\u0131dakiler i\u00e7in mi oldu\u011funu bilmek isterdim.” s\u00f6z\u00fc, koydu\u011fumuz s\u0131n\u0131rlar\u0131n ger\u00e7ekten bizi koruyup korumad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 sorgulamaya davet eder.<\/strong> Baz\u0131 duvarlar zararl\u0131 insanlar\u0131 d\u0131\u015far\u0131da tutarken, baz\u0131lar\u0131 ise sevgiyi, dostlu\u011fu ve yeni f\u0131rsatlar\u0131 da d\u0131\u015far\u0131da b\u0131rakabilir. Ki\u015fisel geli\u015fim, ne herkese s\u0131n\u0131rs\u0131zca kap\u0131lar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 a\u00e7mak ne de herkesi d\u0131\u015far\u0131da b\u0131rakmakt\u0131r. As\u0131l denge, sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 s\u0131n\u0131rlar kurarken kalbimizi tamamen kapatmamakta yatar.<\/p>\n

Bu d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnceyi g\u00fcnl\u00fck ya\u015famda uygulaman\u0131n etkili bir yolu, kendinizi bir insandan ya da yeni bir deneyimden uzak tutarken bunun nedenini d\u00fcr\u00fcst\u00e7e kendinize sormakt\u0131r.<\/strong> “Ger\u00e7ekten kendimi korumak i\u00e7in mi geri \u00e7ekiliyorum, yoksa ge\u00e7mi\u015fte ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131m bir hayal k\u0131r\u0131kl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131n etkisiyle mi?” sorusu, verdi\u011finiz kararlar\u0131 daha bilin\u00e7li h\u00e2le getirebilir. Bu k\u0131sa i\u00e7 de\u011ferlendirme, hem sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 s\u0131n\u0131rlar koyman\u0131za hem de korkular\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n hayat\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 gereksiz yere daraltmas\u0131n\u0131 \u00f6nlemenize yard\u0131mc\u0131 olur.<\/p>\n

Bir d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcn; ge\u00e7mi\u015fte g\u00fcveni sars\u0131lan iki ki\u015fiden biri b\u00fct\u00fcn insanlara kap\u0131lar\u0131n\u0131 kapat\u0131rken, di\u011feri ders \u00e7\u0131kar\u0131yor ama yeni insanlara kar\u015f\u0131 tamamen umudunu kaybetmiyor. Zamanla ikinci ki\u015fi hem daha g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc ili\u015fkiler kuruyor hem de hayat\u0131n sundu\u011fu yeni f\u0131rsatlar\u0131 de\u011ferlendirebiliyor. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc g\u00fcvenmek ile tedbirli olmak birbirinin z\u0131dd\u0131 de\u011fildir. Hayat\u0131m\u0131zdaki en sa\u011flam duvarlar, bizi d\u00fcnyadan koparanlar de\u011fil; huzurumuzu korurken sevgiyi, dostlu\u011fu ve geli\u015fimi i\u00e7eri almaya devam edenlerdir. Ger\u00e7ek bilgelik, ne zaman kap\u0131 a\u00e7aca\u011f\u0131m\u0131z\u0131, ne zaman s\u0131n\u0131r \u00e7izece\u011fimizi bilmektir.<\/strong><\/em> Robert Frost’un bu s\u00f6z\u00fc, bize s\u0131n\u0131rlar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 korkuyla de\u011fil, bilin\u00e7le in\u015fa etmemiz gerekti\u011fini hat\u0131rlatan derin bir ya\u015fam dersidir.<\/p>\n

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Robert Frost Kimdir?<\/h3>\n

Robert Frost (1874-1963) Amerikal\u0131 \u015fairdir. Do\u011fa, insan ili\u015fkileri, yaln\u0131zl\u0131k, se\u00e7imler ve ya\u015fam\u0131n anlam\u0131 \u00fczerine yazd\u0131\u011f\u0131 \u015fiirlerle 20. y\u00fczy\u0131l\u0131n en \u00f6nemli edebiyat\u00e7\u0131lar\u0131ndan biri kabul edilir. The Road Not Taken (Gidilmeyen Yol), Stopping by Woods on a Snowy Evening ve Mending Wall (Tamir Edilen Duvar) gibi eserleriyle d\u00fcnya \u00e7ap\u0131nda tan\u0131nm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. D\u00f6rt kez Pulitzer \u015eiir \u00d6d\u00fcl\u00fc kazanan Frost, sade g\u00f6r\u00fcnen ancak derin anlamlar ta\u015f\u0131yan anlat\u0131m\u0131yla insan\u0131n i\u00e7 d\u00fcnyas\u0131n\u0131 ve ya\u015fam\u0131n evrensel ger\u00e7eklerini ustal\u0131kla dile getirmi\u015ftir. Bug\u00fcn de \u015fiirleri ve d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnceleri, ki\u015fisel geli\u015fim ve insan psikolojisi \u00fczerine ilham veren eserler aras\u0131nda yer almaktad\u0131r.<\/p>\n

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