{"id":8748,"date":"2015-06-25T13:18:57","date_gmt":"2015-06-25T10:18:57","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.ozdeyis.net\/?p=8748"},"modified":"2026-07-17T20:43:20","modified_gmt":"2026-07-17T20:43:20","slug":"hikayelerini-bilmediklerimizdir-en-cok-dusman-olduklarimiz-slavoj-zizek","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/e-motivasyon.net\/en\/hikayelerini-bilmediklerimizdir-en-cok-dusman-olduklarimiz-slavoj-zizek.html","title":{"rendered":"“Hikayelerini bilmediklerimizdir, en \u00e7ok d\u00fc\u015fman olduklar\u0131m\u0131z.” Slavoj Zizek"},"content":{"rendered":"

“Hikayelerini bilmediklerimizdir, en \u00e7ok d\u00fc\u015fman olduklar\u0131m\u0131z.” Slavoj Zizek<\/em><\/strong><\/h3>\n

Slavoj \u017di\u017eek bu s\u00f6z\u00fcyle, \u00f6nyarg\u0131lar\u0131n \u00e7o\u011fu zaman bilgi eksikli\u011finden beslendi\u011fini anlat\u0131r. Bir insan\u0131n ya\u015fad\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131, m\u00fccadelelerini, korkular\u0131n\u0131 ve umutlar\u0131n\u0131 bilmedi\u011fimizde, onu yaln\u0131zca d\u0131\u015far\u0131dan g\u00f6rd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcm\u00fcz kadar\u0131yla yarg\u0131lar\u0131z. Oysa her insan\u0131n g\u00f6r\u00fcnmeyen bir hik\u00e2yesi vard\u0131r. Bazen sert tav\u0131rlar\u0131n arkas\u0131nda k\u0131rg\u0131nl\u0131k, \u00f6fkenin arkas\u0131nda hayal k\u0131r\u0131kl\u0131\u011f\u0131, sessizli\u011fin arkas\u0131nda ise derin bir ac\u0131 sakl\u0131 olabilir. \u0130nsanlar\u0131 tan\u0131maya ba\u015flad\u0131k\u00e7a, yarg\u0131lar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n yerini anlay\u0131\u015f; mesafemizin yerini ise empati almaya ba\u015flar.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Bu d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnceyi g\u00fcnl\u00fck hayat\u0131n\u0131za ta\u015f\u0131mak i\u00e7in kendinize basit bir al\u0131\u015fkanl\u0131k kazand\u0131r\u0131n: Size kar\u015f\u0131 mesafeli ya da olumsuz davrand\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fcz bir ki\u015fiye, o g\u00fcn yaln\u0131zca bir samimi soru<\/strong> sorun ve cevab\u0131n\u0131 ger\u00e7ekten dinleyin. Onun g\u00fcn\u00fc nas\u0131l ge\u00e7ti\u011fini, neyle u\u011fra\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 ya da son zamanlarda neler ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 \u00f6\u011frenmeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131n. \u00c7o\u011fu zaman tek bir i\u00e7ten sohbet, uzun s\u00fcredir ta\u015f\u0131d\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z yanl\u0131\u015f d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnceleri de\u011fi\u015ftirebilir. Empati<\/strong>, insan ili\u015fkilerini g\u00fc\u00e7lendiren en de\u011ferli becerilerden biridir.<\/p>\n

Hayat\u0131m\u0131za d\u00f6n\u00fcp bakt\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131zda, ilk tan\u0131\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131zda yanl\u0131\u015f de\u011ferlendirdi\u011fimiz ama zamanla \u00e7ok sevdi\u011fimiz insanlar mutlaka olmu\u015ftur. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc onlar\u0131 tan\u0131d\u0131k\u00e7a hik\u00e2yelerini de \u00f6\u011frenmi\u015fizdir. Biz de insanlara sadece ilk izlenimlerle de\u011fil, ya\u015fam \u00f6yk\u00fclerini anlamaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015farak yakla\u015fabiliriz. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc bazen bir insan\u0131 sevmemizi sa\u011flayan \u015fey, onun de\u011fi\u015fmesi de\u011fil; bizim onun hik\u00e2yesini sonunda duymaya ba\u015flamam\u0131zd\u0131r.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

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Slavoj \u017di\u017eek Kimdir?<\/strong><\/h3>\n

Slavoj \u017di\u017eek (1949-) Sloven filozof, k\u00fclt\u00fcr kuramc\u0131s\u0131, psikanaliz ara\u015ft\u0131rmac\u0131s\u0131 ve yazard\u0131r. \u00c7a\u011fda\u015f felsefenin en dikkat \u00e7ekici isimlerinden biri olan \u017di\u017eek, ideoloji, siyaset, pop\u00fcler k\u00fclt\u00fcr ve insan psikolojisi \u00fczerine geli\u015ftirdi\u011fi \u00f6zg\u00fcn yorumlarla tan\u0131nmaktad\u0131r. \u00c7ok say\u0131da kitab\u0131 bulunan d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcr, \u00f6zellikle toplumsal \u00f6nyarg\u0131lar, kimlik, k\u00fclt\u00fcr ve insan davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131 \u00fczerine yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131 analizlerle d\u00fcnya \u00e7ap\u0131nda geni\u015f bir okur kitlesine ula\u015fm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r.<\/p>\n

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\u0130nsanlara Dair \u00d6zl\u00fc S\u00f6zler ve \u00d6zdeyi\u015fler<\/a><\/p><\/blockquote>\n