{"id":7995,"date":"2015-05-30T23:40:21","date_gmt":"2015-05-30T20:40:21","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.ozdeyis.net\/?p=7995"},"modified":"2026-02-23T06:29:41","modified_gmt":"2026-02-23T06:29:41","slug":"sozu-suz-de-soyle-gonlu-bulandirmasin-sozu-diz-de-soyle-kulaga-inci-diye-takilsin-sozu-yuze-soyle-giybet-olup-utandirmasin-sems-i-tebrizi","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/e-motivasyon.net\/en\/sozu-suz-de-soyle-gonlu-bulandirmasin-sozu-diz-de-soyle-kulaga-inci-diye-takilsin-sozu-yuze-soyle-giybet-olup-utandirmasin-sems-i-tebrizi.html","title":{"rendered":"“S\u00f6z\u00fc s\u00fcz de s\u00f6yle, g\u00f6nl\u00fc buland\u0131rmas\u0131n. S\u00f6z\u00fc diz de s\u00f6yle, kula\u011fa inci diye tak\u0131ls\u0131n. S\u00f6z\u00fc y\u00fcze s\u00f6yle, g\u0131ybet olup utand\u0131rmas\u0131n.” \u015eems-i Tebrizi"},"content":{"rendered":"

“S\u00f6z\u00fc s\u00fcz de s\u00f6yle, g\u00f6nl\u00fc buland\u0131rmas\u0131n. S\u00f6z\u00fc diz de s\u00f6yle, kula\u011fa inci diye tak\u0131ls\u0131n. S\u00f6z\u00fc y\u00fcze s\u00f6yle, g\u0131ybet olup utand\u0131rmas\u0131n.” \u015eems-i Tebrizi<\/strong><\/em><\/h3>\n

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Bu s\u00f6z, konu\u015fmay\u0131 bir beceri de\u011fil; bir ahl\u00e2k meselesi<\/strong><\/em> olarak ele al\u0131r. \u015eems-i Tebrizi, s\u00f6z\u00fcn do\u011frulu\u011fundan \u00f6nce etkisine<\/strong><\/em> dikkat \u00e7eker. Her do\u011fru, her yerde ve her bi\u00e7imde s\u00f6ylenmek zorunda de\u011fildir. S\u00f6z s\u00fcz\u00fclmeden \u00e7\u0131kt\u0131\u011f\u0131nda g\u00f6n\u00fcl k\u0131rar, dizilmeden s\u00f6ylendi\u011finde de\u011ferini yitirir, arkadan konu\u015fuldu\u011funda ise sahibini de muhatab\u0131n\u0131 da kirletir. Dil, kalbin terc\u00fcman\u0131d\u0131r; kalp bulan\u0131ksa s\u00f6z de bulan\u0131k akar.<\/strong><\/em> Bu y\u00fczden s\u00f6z\u00fcn g\u00fcc\u00fc, y\u00fcksek sesle de\u011fil; incelikle kuruldu\u011funda ortaya \u00e7\u0131kar. Biz bu s\u00f6zde, konu\u015fman\u0131n sadece kendimizi ifade etmek de\u011fil, kar\u015f\u0131m\u0131zdakini g\u00f6zetmek oldu\u011funu hat\u0131rlar\u0131z.<\/p>\n

Bu bak\u0131\u015f a\u00e7\u0131s\u0131ndan ilhamla g\u00fcnl\u00fck hayatta uygulanabilecek tek bir pratik \u00f6neri var: Konu\u015fmadan \u00f6nce kendinize \u00fc\u00e7 k\u0131sa soru sorun.<\/strong><\/em> \u201cBu s\u00f6z do\u011fru mu?\u201d, \u201cGerekli mi?\u201d, \u201c\u015eu an m\u0131 s\u00f6ylenmeli?\u201d Bu \u00fc\u00e7 s\u00fczge\u00e7ten ge\u00e7meyen s\u00f6z\u00fc dile getirmemek, \u00e7o\u011fu zaman en bilgece davran\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. Susmak bazen eksiklik de\u011fil; \u00f6zen g\u00f6stergesidir.<\/strong><\/em> Biz bu k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck duraksamay\u0131 al\u0131\u015fkanl\u0131k h\u00e2line getirdi\u011fimizde, hem ili\u015fkilerimiz sadele\u015fir hem de s\u00f6zlerimiz de\u011fer kazan\u0131r.<\/p>\n

\u00d6rne\u011fin bir arkada\u015f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n hatas\u0131n\u0131 ba\u015fkalar\u0131yla payla\u015fmak kolayd\u0131r; ama y\u00fcz\u00fcne, incitmeden s\u00f6ylemek cesaret ister. Ya da \u00f6fkeliyken s\u00f6ylenen bir c\u00fcmle, y\u0131llarca unutulmayacak bir iz b\u0131rakabilir. Biz \u00e7o\u011fu zaman ne s\u00f6yledi\u011fimizi hat\u0131rlamay\u0131z; ama nas\u0131l hissettirdi\u011fimizi insanlar uzun s\u00fcre ta\u015f\u0131r.<\/strong><\/em> S\u00f6z, yerini buldu\u011funda inci olur; rastgele savruldu\u011funda y\u00fck. Ve belki de en b\u00fcy\u00fck ustal\u0131k, do\u011fru s\u00f6z\u00fc de\u011fil; do\u011fru anda, do\u011fru kalple s\u00f6yleyebilmektir.<\/p>\n

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\u015eems-i Tebrizi Kimdir?<\/h3>\n

Shams Tabrizi<\/strong>\u00a0(1185?\u20131248?), derin sezgileri, sars\u0131c\u0131 sorular\u0131 ve kal\u0131plar\u0131 y\u0131kan yakla\u015f\u0131m\u0131yla tan\u0131nan b\u00fcy\u00fck bir mutasavv\u0131ft\u0131r. En \u00e7ok\u00a0Mevlana Celaleddin Rumi\u2019nin d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnsel ve ruhsal d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015f\u00fcm\u00fcndeki etkisiyle<\/strong>\u00a0bilinir. \u015eems, bilgiyi ak\u0131ldan \u00e7ok kalpten okuyan, insan\u0131 y\u00fczle\u015fmeye davet eden bir \u00f6\u011fretmendir. \u00d6\u011fretilerinde\u00a0kader, teslimiyet, cesaret, i\u00e7sel \u00f6zg\u00fcrl\u00fck ve hakikatle temas<\/strong>\u00a0\u00f6nemli yer tutar. Bug\u00fcn \u015eems-i Tebrizi\u2019nin s\u00f6zleri; ki\u015fisel geli\u015fim, fark\u0131ndal\u0131k, motivasyon ve anlam aray\u0131\u015f\u0131 i\u00e7inde olan pek \u00e7ok insan i\u00e7in h\u00e2l\u00e2 g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc bir rehber niteli\u011fi ta\u015f\u0131maktad\u0131r.<\/p>\n

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\u0130nsanlara Dair \u00d6zl\u00fc S\u00f6zler ve \u00d6zdeyi\u015fler<\/a><\/p><\/blockquote>\n