{"id":7409,"date":"2015-05-09T22:47:40","date_gmt":"2015-05-09T19:47:40","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.ozdeyis.net\/?p=7409"},"modified":"2026-07-25T11:46:54","modified_gmt":"2026-07-25T11:46:54","slug":"bir-amac-dogrultusunda-yasayip-belli-prensipler-cercevesinde-hareket-ettigimizde-guclu-ama-yumusak-bir-bambuya-benzeriz-karsilastigimiz-gucler-karsisinda-egilsek-de-sonra-yeniden-eski-halimize","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/e-motivasyon.net\/en\/bir-amac-dogrultusunda-yasayip-belli-prensipler-cercevesinde-hareket-ettigimizde-guclu-ama-yumusak-bir-bambuya-benzeriz-karsilastigimiz-gucler-karsisinda-egilsek-de-sonra-yeniden-eski-halimize.html","title":{"rendered":"“Bir ama\u00e7 do\u011frultusunda ya\u015fay\u0131p belli prensipler \u00e7er\u00e7evesinde hareket etti\u011fimizde, -g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc ama yumu\u015fak- bir bambuya benzeriz; kar\u015f\u0131la\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z g\u00fc\u00e7ler kar\u015f\u0131s\u0131nda e\u011filsek de sonra yeniden eski halimize d\u00f6neriz.” Dan Millman"},"content":{"rendered":"

“Bir ama\u00e7 do\u011frultusunda ya\u015fay\u0131p belli prensipler \u00e7er\u00e7evesinde hareket etti\u011fimizde, -g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc ama yumu\u015fak- bir bambuya benzeriz; kar\u015f\u0131la\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z g\u00fc\u00e7ler kar\u015f\u0131s\u0131nda e\u011filsek de sonra yeniden eski halimize d\u00f6neriz.” Dan Millman<\/strong><\/em><\/h3>\n

Hayatta g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc olmak, hi\u00e7bir zaman k\u0131r\u0131lmamak ya da hi\u00e7 zorlanmamak anlam\u0131na gelmez. As\u0131l g\u00fc\u00e7, ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z sars\u0131nt\u0131lardan sonra yeniden aya\u011fa kalkabilmektir. Dan Millman’\u0131n “Bir ama\u00e7 do\u011frultusunda ya\u015fay\u0131p belli prensipler \u00e7er\u00e7evesinde hareket etti\u011fimizde, -g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc ama yumu\u015fak- bir bambuya benzeriz; kar\u015f\u0131la\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z g\u00fc\u00e7ler kar\u015f\u0131s\u0131nda e\u011filsek de, sonra yeniden eski halimize d\u00f6neriz.” s\u00f6z\u00fc, psikolojik dayan\u0131kl\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131n en g\u00fczel tan\u0131mlar\u0131ndan birini yapar.<\/strong> Bambu, sert bir a\u011fa\u00e7 gibi direnmeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmaz; r\u00fczg\u00e2rla birlikte esner ama k\u00f6klerinden kopmaz. \u0130nsan da ya\u015fam amac\u0131n\u0131 ve temel de\u011ferlerini korudu\u011fu s\u00fcrece, kar\u015f\u0131la\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131 zorluklar onu ge\u00e7ici olarak sarsabilir fakat y\u0131kamaz. Ki\u015fisel geli\u015fim, kat\u0131la\u015fmak de\u011fil; esnek kal\u0131rken \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc kaybetmemeyi \u00f6\u011frenmektir.<\/p>\n

Bu d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnceyi g\u00fcnl\u00fck ya\u015famda uygulaman\u0131n etkili bir yolu, hayat\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 y\u00f6nlendiren en \u00f6nemli \u00fc\u00e7 ilkeyi bir k\u00e2\u011f\u0131da yaz\u0131p s\u0131k s\u0131k g\u00f6zden ge\u00e7irmektir.<\/strong> \u00d6rne\u011fin d\u00fcr\u00fcstl\u00fck, \u00f6\u011frenme, sab\u0131r ya da yard\u0131mseverlik gibi sizi siz yapan de\u011ferleri belirleyin. Zor bir karar vermeniz gerekti\u011finde kendinize \u015fu soruyu sorun: “Bu se\u00e7im, benim temel ilkelerimle uyumlu mu?” B\u00f6ylece d\u0131\u015f ko\u015fullar de\u011fi\u015fse bile y\u00f6n\u00fcn\u00fcz\u00fc kaybetmez, olaylara anl\u0131k duygularla de\u011fil, kal\u0131c\u0131 de\u011ferlerinizle yakla\u015fabilirsiniz.<\/p>\n

Bir d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcn; ayn\u0131 f\u0131rt\u0131naya yakalanan iki a\u011fa\u00e7tan biri sert oldu\u011fu i\u00e7in k\u0131r\u0131l\u0131yor, di\u011feri ise esneyerek f\u0131rt\u0131nay\u0131 atlat\u0131yor. Hayat\u0131n beklenmedik s\u0131navlar\u0131 kar\u015f\u0131s\u0131nda insanlar da benzer \u015fekilde davran\u0131r. Amac\u0131n\u0131 ve de\u011ferlerini bilen ki\u015filer, ge\u00e7ici ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131zl\u0131klar ya\u015fasalar bile yeniden toparlanmay\u0131 ba\u015far\u0131rlar. Ger\u00e7ek dayan\u0131kl\u0131l\u0131k, hi\u00e7 e\u011filmemek de\u011fil; e\u011fildikten sonra yeniden do\u011frulabilmektir. Hayat\u0131n r\u00fczg\u00e2rlar\u0131 y\u00f6n\u00fcm\u00fcz\u00fc de\u011fi\u015ftirebilir, ama sa\u011flam k\u00f6klerimiz ve g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc ilkelerimiz oldu\u011fu s\u00fcrece bizi yerimizden s\u00f6kemez.<\/strong><\/em> Dan Millman’\u0131n bu s\u00f6z\u00fc, bize g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc olman\u0131n s\u0131rr\u0131n\u0131n kat\u0131l\u0131kta de\u011fil, bilin\u00e7li bir esneklik ve sa\u011flam de\u011ferler \u00fczerinde y\u00fckselen bir ya\u015famda sakl\u0131 oldu\u011funu hat\u0131rlatmaktad\u0131r.<\/p>\n

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Dan Millman Kimdir?<\/h3>\n

Dan Millman (1946-) Amerikal\u0131 yazar, eski d\u00fcnya \u015fampiyonu trampolin sporcusu ve ki\u015fisel geli\u015fim e\u011fitmenidir. \u00d6zellikle Bar\u0131\u015f\u00e7\u0131l Sava\u015f\u00e7\u0131’n\u0131n Yolu (Way of the Peaceful Warrior) adl\u0131 otobiyografik roman\u0131yla d\u00fcnya \u00e7ap\u0131nda tan\u0131nm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. Eserlerinde fark\u0131ndal\u0131k, ya\u015fam amac\u0131, zihinsel dayan\u0131kl\u0131l\u0131k, \u00f6z disiplin ve bilin\u00e7li ya\u015fam konular\u0131n\u0131 ele alm\u0131\u015f; Do\u011fu felsefesini modern ya\u015famla bulu\u015fturan yakla\u015f\u0131m\u0131yla milyonlarca insana ilham vermi\u015ftir. Dan Millman, ki\u015fisel geli\u015fim alan\u0131nda \u00f6zellikle i\u00e7sel denge, dayan\u0131kl\u0131l\u0131k ve anlaml\u0131 bir ya\u015fam \u00fczerine geli\u015ftirdi\u011fi d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcncelerle g\u00fcn\u00fcm\u00fczde de en \u00e7ok okunan yazarlardan biri olmay\u0131 s\u00fcrd\u00fcrmektedir.<\/p>\n

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