{"id":7383,"date":"2015-05-08T13:26:51","date_gmt":"2015-05-08T10:26:51","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.ozdeyis.net\/?p=7383"},"modified":"2026-06-23T10:43:39","modified_gmt":"2026-06-23T10:43:39","slug":"bir-gemi-doguya-gider-bir-gemi-batiya-esen-ayni-ruzgardir-hangi-yone-gidecegini-belirleyen-ruzgar-degil-yelkendir-ella-wheeler-wilcox","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/e-motivasyon.net\/en\/bir-gemi-doguya-gider-bir-gemi-batiya-esen-ayni-ruzgardir-hangi-yone-gidecegini-belirleyen-ruzgar-degil-yelkendir-ella-wheeler-wilcox.html","title":{"rendered":"\u201cA ship goes east, a ship goes west. It is the same wind that blows; It is the sail, not the wind, that determines which way to go.\u201d Ella Wheeler Wilcox"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u201cA ship goes east, a ship goes west. It is the same wind that blows; It is the sail, not the wind, that determines which way to go.\u201d Ella Wheeler Wilcox<\/strong><\/em><\/h3>\n

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\u201cBir gemi do\u011fuya gider, bir gemi bat\u0131ya. Esen ayn\u0131 r\u00fczg\u00e2rd\u0131r; hangi y\u00f6ne gidece\u011fini belirleyen r\u00fczg\u00e2r de\u011fil, yelkendir.<\/strong>\u201d s\u00f6z\u00fcyle Ella Wheeler Wilcox<\/strong>, ya\u015fam\u0131n adil olmayan ama \u00f6\u011fretici ger\u00e7e\u011fini sade bir metaforla anlat\u0131r. Hepimiz ayn\u0131 d\u00fcnyada, benzer ko\u015fullar\u0131n i\u00e7inde ya\u015f\u0131yoruz; ayn\u0131 r\u00fczg\u00e2ra maruz kal\u0131yoruz. Zorluklar, f\u0131rsatlar, krizler ya da de\u011fi\u015fimler \u00e7o\u011fu zaman ortak. Ancak sonu\u00e7lar neden bu kadar farkl\u0131 oluyor? \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc belirleyici olan d\u0131\u015f etkenler de\u011fil, onlara nas\u0131l kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131k verdi\u011fimizdir<\/strong>. Yelken, insan\u0131n bak\u0131\u015f a\u00e7\u0131s\u0131n\u0131, tutumunu ve i\u00e7sel y\u00f6n\u00fcn\u00fc temsil eder. Siz ve biz, r\u00fczg\u00e2r\u0131 kontrol edemeyiz ama yelkeni nas\u0131l a\u00e7aca\u011f\u0131m\u0131za karar verebiliriz<\/strong>. \u0130\u015fte bu fark, hayat\u0131n y\u00f6n\u00fcn\u00fc belirler.<\/p>\n

Bu s\u00f6zden ilhamla g\u00fcnl\u00fck hayatta uygulanabilecek pratik bir \u00f6neri \u015fudur: Kontrol edemedi\u011finiz bir durumla kar\u015f\u0131la\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131zda oda\u011f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 hemen \u015fu soruya \u00e7evirin: \u201cBu durumda yelkenimi nas\u0131l ayarlayabilirim?\u201d<\/strong> Siz ve biz \u00e7o\u011fu zaman r\u00fczg\u00e2ra k\u0131zar\u0131z; \u015fartlar\u0131, insanlar\u0131, zaman\u0131 su\u00e7lar\u0131z. Oysa enerjimizi buna harcamak yerine, tutumumuzu yeniden d\u00fczenlemek \u00e7ok daha etkilidir. Bir gecikme, bir engel ya da beklenmedik bir de\u011fi\u015fim kar\u015f\u0131s\u0131nda, bak\u0131\u015f a\u00e7\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 bilin\u00e7li olarak d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015ft\u00fcrmek; duyguyu y\u00f6netmek, \u00f6\u011frenmeye odaklanmak ya da yeni bir yol denemek\u2026 Bunlar\u0131n her biri yelkeni yeniden ayarlamak demektir. Motivasyon da tam burada do\u011far:<\/strong> Tepki vermekten \u00e7\u0131k\u0131p y\u00f6n vermeye ba\u015flad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z anda.<\/p>\n

Ayn\u0131 i\u015f yerinde \u00e7al\u0131\u015fan iki ki\u015fiyi d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcn. Ayn\u0131 ko\u015fullar, ayn\u0131 y\u00f6neticiler, ayn\u0131 bask\u0131lar\u2026 Biri s\u00fcrekli \u015fik\u00e2yet ederken di\u011feri \u00f6\u011frenmeye, geli\u015fmeye ve f\u0131rsat g\u00f6rmeye odaklan\u0131r. Zamanla biri yerinde sayar, di\u011feri yol al\u0131r. R\u00fczg\u00e2r ayn\u0131d\u0131r ama sonu\u00e7lar farkl\u0131d\u0131r. Ella Wheeler Wilcox\u2019un hat\u0131rlatt\u0131\u011f\u0131 ger\u00e7ek \u015fudur: Hayat bizi nereye savurdu\u011fundan \u00e7ok, biz kendimizi hangi y\u00f6ne \u00e7evirdi\u011fimizle ilgilenir.<\/strong><\/em> Siz ve biz, yelkenimizi bilin\u00e7li kulland\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131zda, en sert r\u00fczg\u00e2rlar bile bizi kendi yolumuza ta\u015f\u0131maya ba\u015flar.<\/p>\n

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Ella Wheeler Wilcox Kimdir?<\/strong><\/h3>\n

Ella Wheeler Wilcox, 1850\u20131919 y\u0131llar\u0131 aras\u0131nda ya\u015fam\u0131\u015f Amerikal\u0131 bir \u015fair, yazar ve d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcrd\u00fcr. En \u00e7ok \u201ciyimserlik\u201d, \u201cki\u015fisel sorumluluk\u201d ve \u201czihinsel tutumun g\u00fcc\u00fc\u201d \u00fczerine yazd\u0131\u011f\u0131 \u015fiir ve denemeleriyle tan\u0131n\u0131r. D\u00f6neminin pop\u00fcler edebiyat\u00e7\u0131lar\u0131ndan biri olan Wilcox, eserlerinde ya\u015fam kar\u015f\u0131s\u0131nda edilgen kalmak yerine, bireyin kendi y\u00f6n\u00fcn\u00fc se\u00e7me g\u00fcc\u00fcne vurgu yapm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. \u201cYelken ve r\u00fczg\u00e2r\u201d metaforu da onun bu yakla\u015f\u0131m\u0131n\u0131n en \u00e7arp\u0131c\u0131 \u00f6rneklerinden biridir. Bug\u00fcn h\u00e2l\u00e2 s\u00f6zleri; motivasyon, ki\u015fisel geli\u015fim ve i\u00e7sel liderlik alanlar\u0131nda ilham verici bir kaynak olarak okunmaya devam etmektedir.<\/p>\n

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