{"id":7320,"date":"2015-05-06T00:04:37","date_gmt":"2015-05-05T21:04:37","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.ozdeyis.net\/?p=7320"},"modified":"2026-02-20T14:58:03","modified_gmt":"2026-02-20T14:58:03","slug":"sevginin-olcusu-olcusuz-sevmektir-baruch-spinoza","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/e-motivasyon.net\/en\/sevginin-olcusu-olcusuz-sevmektir-baruch-spinoza.html","title":{"rendered":"\u201cThe measure of love is to love without measure.\u201d Baruch Spinoza"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u201cThe measure of love is to love without measure.\u201d Baruch Spinoza<\/strong><\/em><\/h3>\n

\""Sevginin<\/a><\/p>\n

\u201cSevginin \u00f6l\u00e7\u00fcs\u00fc, \u00f6l\u00e7\u00fcs\u00fcz sevmektir.\u201d diyen Baruch Spinoza<\/span><\/span>, sevgiyi bir pazarl\u0131k unsuru olmaktan \u00e7\u0131kar\u0131p bir varolu\u015f bi\u00e7imi h\u00e2line getirir. \u00c7o\u011fu zaman sevgiyi ko\u015fullara ba\u011flar\u0131z: \u201cBeni anlarsa severim\u201d, \u201cHak ederse ilgilenirim\u201d, \u201cKar\u015f\u0131l\u0131k g\u00f6r\u00fcrsem a\u00e7\u0131l\u0131r\u0131m.\u201d Oysa Spinoza\u2019n\u0131n yakla\u015f\u0131m\u0131 \u00e7ok daha radikaldir. Sevgi, hesap yapmad\u0131\u011f\u0131nda b\u00fcy\u00fcr. Ger\u00e7ek sevgi, kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131k beklemeden akabildi\u011finde \u00f6zg\u00fcrle\u015fir.<\/strong> Ki\u015fisel geli\u015fim ve motivasyon a\u00e7\u0131s\u0131ndan bakt\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131zda ise sevgi; insan\u0131n hem kendine hem hayata kar\u015f\u0131 a\u00e7\u0131k kalabilme cesaretidir. \u00d6l\u00e7erek sevdi\u011fimizde g\u00fcvende kal\u0131r\u0131z; \u00f6l\u00e7\u00fcs\u00fcz sevdi\u011fimizde ise b\u00fcy\u00fcr\u00fcz.<\/p>\n

Bu s\u00f6zden ilhamla g\u00fcnl\u00fck hayatta uygulayabilece\u011fimiz tek ve g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc bir pratik \u00f6neri: \u201cKo\u015fulsuz bir jest\u201d yap\u0131n. Haftada en az bir kez, hi\u00e7bir kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131k beklemeden birine destek olun. K\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck bir te\u015fekk\u00fcr mesaj\u0131, i\u00e7ten bir takdir, beklenmedik bir yard\u0131m\u2026 Sonras\u0131nda kendinize \u015fu soruyu sorun: \u201cBunu yaparken nas\u0131l hissettim?\u201d Sevgi payla\u015f\u0131ld\u0131k\u00e7a azalan de\u011fil, \u00e7o\u011falan bir enerjidir.<\/strong> Motivasyonun en g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc kaynaklar\u0131ndan biri de budur. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc insan, de\u011fer verdi\u011fini hissetti\u011finde ve de\u011fer verdi\u011finde i\u00e7sel olarak g\u00fc\u00e7lenir.<\/p>\n

\u00d6rne\u011fin yo\u011fun bir g\u00fcn\u00fcn ortas\u0131nda, e\u015finize ya da bir arkada\u015f\u0131n\u0131za i\u00e7ten bir minnettarl\u0131k mesaj\u0131 att\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcn. Belki b\u00fcy\u00fck bir \u015fey de\u011fi\u015fmez; ama i\u00e7inizde bir yumu\u015fama olur. O an fark edersiniz ki sevgi, b\u00fcy\u00fck s\u00f6zlerden \u00e7ok k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck ama samimi anlarda sakl\u0131d\u0131r. Ger\u00e7ek zenginlik, \u00f6l\u00e7erek de\u011fil; y\u00fcrekten ve cesurca sevebildi\u011fimizde ortaya \u00e7\u0131kar.<\/strong><\/em> Baruch Spinoza\u2019n\u0131n i\u015faret etti\u011fi sevgi anlay\u0131\u015f\u0131, sadece romantik ili\u015fkiler i\u00e7in de\u011fil; hayat\u0131n tamam\u0131 i\u00e7in ge\u00e7erlidir. Kendimizi, i\u015fimizi, hayallerimizi \u00f6l\u00e7\u00fcs\u00fcz bir ba\u011fl\u0131l\u0131kla sevdi\u011fimizde; ki\u015fisel geli\u015fim ve i\u00e7sel huzur do\u011fal bir sonu\u00e7 h\u00e2line gelir.<\/p>\n

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Baruch Spinoza Kimdir?<\/h3>\n

Baruch Spinoza (1632-1677) Hollandal\u0131 filozoftur ve modern felsefenin en \u00f6nemli d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcrlerinden biri olarak kabul edilir. En \u00f6nemli eseri Ethica<\/span><\/span> (Etika), Tanr\u0131, do\u011fa, insan zihni ve duygular \u00fczerine sistematik bir felsefi yap\u0131 sunar. Ak\u0131lc\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131 ve \u00f6zg\u00fcr d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnceyi savunan Spinoza, d\u00f6neminde d\u0131\u015flanm\u0131\u015f olsa da sonraki y\u00fczy\u0131llarda d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnce d\u00fcnyas\u0131n\u0131 derinden etkilemi\u015ftir. Sevgi, \u00f6zg\u00fcrl\u00fck ve i\u00e7sel huzur kavramlar\u0131n\u0131 rasyonel bir temelde ele almas\u0131, onu hem felsefe hem de ki\u015fisel geli\u015fim alan\u0131nda kal\u0131c\u0131 bir referans noktas\u0131 h\u00e2line getirmi\u015ftir.<\/p>\n

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A\u015fk ve Sevgi \u00dczerine En \u0130yi \u00d6zl\u00fc S\u00f6zler<\/a><\/p><\/blockquote>\n