{"id":6819,"date":"2015-04-13T12:54:46","date_gmt":"2015-04-13T09:54:46","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.ozdeyis.net\/?p=6819"},"modified":"2026-02-12T14:04:07","modified_gmt":"2026-02-12T14:04:07","slug":"gecmisi-bir-kitap-gibi-kullanin-eviniz-gibi-degil-richard-wilkins","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/e-motivasyon.net\/en\/gecmisi-bir-kitap-gibi-kullanin-eviniz-gibi-degil-richard-wilkins.html","title":{"rendered":"\u201cUse the past like a book, not like your home.\u201d Richard Wilkins"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u201cUse the past like a book, not like your home.\u201d Richard Wilkins<\/em><\/strong><\/h3>\n

\"Motivasyon<\/a><\/p>\n

Richard Wilkins\u2019in bu s\u00f6z\u00fc, ki\u015fisel geli\u015fim ve zihinsel \u00f6zg\u00fcrl\u00fck a\u00e7\u0131s\u0131ndan g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc bir metafor sunar. Kitaplar okunur, ders \u00e7\u0131kar\u0131l\u0131r ve sonra kapat\u0131l\u0131r. Ama ev, i\u00e7inde ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z yerdir. \u00c7o\u011fumuz ge\u00e7mi\u015fi bir referans kayna\u011f\u0131 olarak kullanmak yerine, orada ya\u015famaya devam ederiz. Eski hatalar, ka\u00e7\u0131r\u0131lm\u0131\u015f f\u0131rsatlar, k\u0131rg\u0131nl\u0131klar ya da ba\u015far\u0131lar\u2026 Hepsi zihnimizde yeniden ve yeniden oynar. Oysa ge\u00e7mi\u015f deneyimdir, kimlik de\u011fildir.<\/strong> Ondan \u00f6\u011frenebiliriz ama oraya yerle\u015firsek bug\u00fcn\u00fc ka\u00e7\u0131r\u0131r\u0131z. Motivasyon ve ba\u015far\u0131 yolculu\u011funda en b\u00fcy\u00fck engellerden biri, d\u00fcn\u00fcn y\u00fck\u00fcn\u00fc bug\u00fcne ta\u015f\u0131makt\u0131r.<\/p>\n

Bu s\u00f6zden ilhamla g\u00fcnl\u00fck hayatta uygulayabilece\u011fimiz tek ve g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc \u00f6neri \u015fudur: \u201cDers \u00e7\u0131kar \u2013 b\u0131rak\u201d rit\u00fceli olu\u015fturun.<\/strong> Ge\u00e7mi\u015fte sizi etkileyen bir olay\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcn ve kendinize \u015fu iki soruyu sorun: \u201cBu olay bana ne \u00f6\u011fretti?\u201d ve \u201cBu dersi ald\u0131ktan sonra art\u0131k neyi b\u0131rak\u0131yorum?\u201d Cevaplar\u0131 yaz\u0131n. Biz genellikle ya ge\u00e7mi\u015fi ink\u00e2r ederiz ya da ona saplan\u0131p kal\u0131r\u0131z. Oysa sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 olan, bilgeli\u011fi almak ve duygusal y\u00fck\u00fc b\u0131rakmakt\u0131r.<\/strong> Yazmak, zihnin da\u011f\u0131n\u0131kl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 d\u00fczenler ve kapanmam\u0131\u015f sayfalar\u0131 kapatman\u0131za yard\u0131mc\u0131 olur.<\/p>\n

Bir ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131zl\u0131k ya\u015fad\u0131n\u0131z diyelim. E\u011fer onu eviniz yaparsan\u0131z, \u201cBen zaten yapam\u0131yorum\u201d inanc\u0131 yerle\u015fir. Ama onu kitap gibi kullan\u0131rsan\u0131z, \u201cBu y\u00f6ntem i\u015fe yaramad\u0131, ba\u015fka bir yol denemeliyim\u201d dersini \u00e7\u0131kar\u0131rs\u0131n\u0131z. Ayn\u0131 \u015fekilde ge\u00e7mi\u015fteki bir ba\u015far\u0131y\u0131 da eviniz yaparsan\u0131z geli\u015fiminiz durur; ama referans olarak kullan\u0131rsan\u0131z \u00f6zg\u00fcven \u00fcretir. Richard Wilkins\u2019in mesaj\u0131 net: Hayat ileri do\u011fru ya\u015fan\u0131r. Ge\u00e7mi\u015ften g\u00fc\u00e7 al\u0131n, ama gelece\u011fi orada ya\u015famaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmay\u0131n.<\/em><\/strong> Ki\u015fisel geli\u015fim, motivasyon ve i\u00e7sel \u00f6zg\u00fcrl\u00fck; d\u00fcn\u00fcn hik\u00e2yesini okuyup bug\u00fcn\u00fcn sayfas\u0131n\u0131 cesaretle yazabildi\u011fimizde ba\u015flar.<\/p>\n

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Richard Wilkins Kimdir?<\/strong><\/h3>\n

Richard Wilkins, ki\u015fisel geli\u015fim ve motivasyon alan\u0131nda s\u00f6zleriyle bilinen bir yazard\u0131r. \u00d6zellikle zihinsel d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015f\u00fcm, ge\u00e7mi\u015fle bar\u0131\u015fma ve bireysel sorumluluk temalar\u0131 \u00fczerine yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131 vurucu tespitlerle tan\u0131n\u0131r. S\u00f6zlerinde sade ama g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc metaforlar kullanarak bireylerin fark\u0131ndal\u0131k geli\u015ftirmesine katk\u0131 sa\u011flamay\u0131 ama\u00e7lamaktad\u0131r.<\/p>\n

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