{"id":6625,"date":"2015-04-02T13:13:07","date_gmt":"2015-04-02T10:13:07","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.ozdeyis.net\/?p=6625"},"modified":"2026-02-09T17:27:40","modified_gmt":"2026-02-09T17:27:40","slug":"ask-icimizdeki-yangini-sondurmeksizin-tasimaya-calismaktir-rainer-m-rilke","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/e-motivasyon.net\/en\/ask-icimizdeki-yangini-sondurmeksizin-tasimaya-calismaktir-rainer-m-rilke.html","title":{"rendered":"\u201cLove is trying to carry the fire within us without extinguishing it.\u201d Rainer M. Rilke"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u201cLove is trying to carry the fire within us without extinguishing it.\u201d Rainer M. Rilke<\/strong><\/em><\/h3>\n

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\u201cA\u015fk, i\u00e7imizdeki yang\u0131n\u0131 s\u00f6nd\u00fcrmeksizin ta\u015f\u0131maya \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmakt\u0131r.\u201d s\u00f6z\u00fcyle Rainer Maria Rilke<\/strong>, a\u015fk\u0131 sakinle\u015ftiren de\u011fil, derinle\u015ftiren<\/strong> bir deneyim olarak ele al\u0131r. Bu ifade, a\u015fk\u0131 bir ka\u00e7\u0131\u015f ya da rahatlama alan\u0131 gibi g\u00f6rmekten \u00e7ok, insan\u0131n kendi i\u00e7sel ate\u015fiyle temas kurma cesareti olarak betimler. Hepimiz biliriz ki a\u015fk, co\u015fku kadar korku da bar\u0131nd\u0131r\u0131r; yak\u0131nl\u0131k kadar k\u0131r\u0131lganl\u0131k da getirir. Rilke\u2019ye g\u00f6re mesele bu yang\u0131n\u0131 s\u00f6nd\u00fcrmek de\u011fil, onunla yanmadan, yok olmadan ya\u015famay\u0131 \u00f6\u011frenmektir<\/strong>. Yani a\u015fk, bizi t\u00fcketen de\u011fil, bizi d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015ft\u00fcren bir i\u00e7sel s\u00fcre\u00e7tir.<\/p>\n

Bu s\u00f6zden ilhamla g\u00fcnl\u00fck hayatta uygulanabilecek tek ve g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc bir pratik \u00f6neri \u015fudur: Duyguyu bast\u0131rmak yerine adland\u0131r\u0131n.<\/strong> Sevdi\u011finizde i\u00e7inizde y\u00fckselen yo\u011funlu\u011fu hemen kontrol etmeye, susturmaya ya da \u201cnormalle\u015ftirmeye\u201d \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmak yerine, durup \u015fu c\u00fcmleyi kurun: \u201c\u015eu an i\u00e7imde g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc bir duygu var ve bu ge\u00e7ici bir tehdit de\u011fil.\u201d Bu fark\u0131ndal\u0131k, duygunun sizi y\u00f6netmesini de\u011fil, sizin onu ta\u015f\u0131man\u0131z\u0131 sa\u011flar. A\u015fk\u0131 y\u00f6netmeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmak yerine, onunla bilin\u00e7li bir ili\u015fki kurmak<\/strong>, i\u00e7sel yang\u0131n\u0131 sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 bir \u0131s\u0131ya d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015ft\u00fcr\u00fcr.<\/p>\n

Rilke\u2019nin a\u015fk anlay\u0131\u015f\u0131, \u00f6zellikle ili\u015fkilerde s\u0131k\u00e7a yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z bir hataya ayna tutar: Sevilmek u\u011fruna kendimizden vazge\u00e7mek. Oysa ger\u00e7ek a\u015fk, iki insan\u0131n birbirini s\u00f6nd\u00fcrmeden, hatta birbirinin ate\u015fine sayg\u0131 duyarak<\/strong> yan yana durabilmesidir. Biri tutkuyu bast\u0131r\u0131rken di\u011feri de yava\u015f yava\u015f silinir. Rilke\u2019nin bu s\u00f6z\u00fc bize \u015funu hat\u0131rlat\u0131r:<\/strong> A\u015fk, kendimizi kaybetmek de\u011fil; kendimizi koruyarak derinle\u015fmeyi \u00f6\u011frenmektir.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

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Rainer Maria Rilke Kimdir?<\/strong><\/h3>\n

Rainer Maria Rilke<\/strong>, 20. y\u00fczy\u0131l\u0131n en etkili \u015fair ve d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcrlerinden biridir. Avusturya do\u011fumlu olan Rilke, \u015fiirlerinde ve mektuplar\u0131nda insan\u0131n i\u00e7 d\u00fcnyas\u0131n\u0131, yaln\u0131zl\u0131\u011f\u0131, a\u015fk\u0131 ve varolu\u015fu derin bir sezgiyle ele alm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. \u00d6zellikle Gen\u00e7 Bir \u015eaire Mektuplar<\/em> adl\u0131 eseri, a\u015fk, ili\u015fki, sab\u0131r ve i\u00e7sel olgunluk \u00fczerine bug\u00fcn h\u00e2l\u00e2 s\u0131k\u00e7a ba\u015fvurulan bir kaynakt\u0131r. Rilke\u2019ye g\u00f6re a\u015fk, iki insan\u0131n birbirini tamamlamas\u0131 de\u011fil, iki b\u00fct\u00fcn insan\u0131n yan yana b\u00fcy\u00fcmesidir<\/strong>. Bu yakla\u015f\u0131m\u0131yla, modern ili\u015fkiler ve ki\u015fisel geli\u015fim alan\u0131nda g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc bir d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnsel miras b\u0131rakm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r.<\/p>\n

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A\u015fk ve Sevgi \u00dczerine En \u0130yi \u00d6zl\u00fc S\u00f6zler<\/a><\/p><\/blockquote>\n