{"id":6529,"date":"2015-03-24T01:21:27","date_gmt":"2015-03-23T23:21:27","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.ozdeyis.net\/?p=6529"},"modified":"2026-02-07T09:01:41","modified_gmt":"2026-02-07T09:01:41","slug":"en-guclu-iki-savasci-sabir-ve-zamandir-tolstoy","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/e-motivasyon.net\/en\/en-guclu-iki-savasci-sabir-ve-zamandir-tolstoy.html","title":{"rendered":"\u201cThe two strongest warriors are patience and time.\u201d Tolstoy"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u201cThe two strongest warriors are patience and time.\u201d Tolstoy<\/strong><\/em><\/h3>\n

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Tolstoy bu s\u00f6z\u00fcyle, hayat\u0131n g\u00f6r\u00fcnmeyen ama en etkili iki g\u00fcc\u00fcne dikkat \u00e7eker. Sab\u0131r; acele etmeyen, beklemeyi bilen, duygular\u0131n\u0131 y\u00f6netebilen bir i\u00e7 g\u00fc\u00e7t\u00fcr. Zaman ise tarafs\u0131zd\u0131r; kimseye torpil ge\u00e7mez ama \u0131srarla devam edenin lehine \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131r<\/strong>. \u00c7o\u011fumuz g\u00fcc\u00fc h\u0131zda, ani kararlarda ya da sert tepkilerde arar\u0131z. Oysa ger\u00e7ek d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015f\u00fcmler sessizce olur. Sab\u0131r, bizi yolda tutar; zaman ise bu sabr\u0131n eme\u011fini g\u00f6r\u00fcn\u00fcr k\u0131lar. Tolstoy\u2019un i\u015faret etti\u011fi \u015fey, hayat\u0131n b\u00fcy\u00fck sava\u015flar\u0131n\u0131n g\u00fcr\u00fclt\u00fcyle de\u011fil, s\u00fcreklilikle kazan\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131d\u0131r<\/strong>.<\/p>\n

Bu s\u00f6zden ilhamla g\u00fcnl\u00fck hayatta uygulanabilecek tek ama etkili bir pratik \u00f6neri: Bir konuda kendinize \u201czaman tan\u0131ma s\u00fcresi\u201d belirleyin.<\/strong> Hemen sonu\u00e7 bekledi\u011finiz bir alan\u0131 se\u00e7in; ili\u015fki, \u00f6\u011frenme, sa\u011fl\u0131k ya da ki\u015fisel geli\u015fim\u2026 Ard\u0131ndan o alan i\u00e7in bilin\u00e7li olarak \u201cEn az 30 g\u00fcn boyunca sadece devam edece\u011fim\u201d diye karar verin. Bu s\u00fcre boyunca sonucu de\u011fil, s\u00fcreci takip edin. Sab\u0131r burada beklemek de\u011fil; ayn\u0131 y\u00f6nde istikrarl\u0131 kalabilme becerisidir<\/strong>. Zaman ise bu istikrar\u0131n en sad\u0131k m\u00fcttefikidir.<\/p>\n

\u00d6rne\u011fin yeni bir al\u0131\u015fkanl\u0131k edinmeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015fan biri, ilk haftada de\u011fi\u015fim g\u00f6rmeyince vazge\u00e7ti\u011finde sava\u015f\u0131 kaybeder. Ama her g\u00fcn k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck de olsa ad\u0131m atan ki\u015fi, fark\u0131nda bile olmadan g\u00fc\u00e7lenir. Bir noktadan sonra zaman, onun lehine \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmaya ba\u015flar. \u0130\u015fte o an anlar\u0131z ki ger\u00e7ek g\u00fc\u00e7 kaslarda ya da h\u0131zda de\u011fil; bekleyebilen bir zihinde ve vazge\u00e7meyen bir kalpte sakl\u0131d\u0131r<\/strong>. Sab\u0131rla y\u00fcr\u00fcyen biri i\u00e7in zaman, d\u00fc\u015fman de\u011fil; en g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc yol arkada\u015f\u0131d\u0131r.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

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Tolstoy Kimdir?<\/h3>\n
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Lev Nikolayevi\u00e7 Tolstoy, d\u00fcnya edebiyat\u0131n\u0131n ve d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnce tarihinin en etkili isimlerinden biridir. Sava\u015f ve Bar\u0131\u015f<\/em> . Anna Karenina<\/em> gibi eserleriyle insan do\u011fas\u0131n\u0131, ahlaki \u00e7at\u0131\u015fmalar\u0131 ve ya\u015fam\u0131n anlam\u0131n\u0131 derinlemesine ele alm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. Tolstoy, yaln\u0131zca bir romanc\u0131 de\u011fil; ayn\u0131 zamanda sab\u0131r, etik, sade ya\u015fam ve i\u00e7sel g\u00fc\u00e7 \u00fczerine d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnen bir filozoftur. Onun s\u00f6zleri ve metinleri, zaman\u0131n insan \u00fczerindeki etkisini ve sabr\u0131n d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015ft\u00fcr\u00fcc\u00fc g\u00fcc\u00fcn\u00fc<\/strong> bug\u00fcn h\u00e2l\u00e2 g\u00fcncelli\u011fini koruyan bir bilgelikle hat\u0131rlat\u0131r.<\/p>\n

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