{"id":6520,"date":"2015-03-24T00:52:43","date_gmt":"2015-03-23T22:52:43","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.ozdeyis.net\/?p=6520"},"modified":"2026-02-07T09:15:16","modified_gmt":"2026-02-07T09:15:16","slug":"hayat-ne-gideni-getirir-ne-de-kaybettigin-zamani-geri-cevirir-ya-yasaman-gereken-zamani-yasayacaksin-ya-da-yasamadim-diye-aglamayacaksin-tolstoy","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/e-motivasyon.net\/en\/hayat-ne-gideni-getirir-ne-de-kaybettigin-zamani-geri-cevirir-ya-yasaman-gereken-zamani-yasayacaksin-ya-da-yasamadim-diye-aglamayacaksin-tolstoy.html","title":{"rendered":"“Hayat ne gideni getirir ne de kaybetti\u011fin zaman\u0131 geri \u00e7evirir. Ya ya\u015faman gereken zaman\u0131 ya\u015fayacaks\u0131n ya da ya\u015famad\u0131m diye a\u011flamayacaks\u0131n.” Tolstoy"},"content":{"rendered":"

“Hayat ne gideni getirir ne de kaybetti\u011fin zaman\u0131 geri \u00e7evirir. Ya ya\u015faman gereken zaman\u0131 ya\u015fayacaks\u0131n ya da ya\u015famad\u0131m diye a\u011flamayacaks\u0131n.” Tolstoy<\/strong><\/em><\/h3>\n

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Tolstoy bu s\u00f6z\u00fcyle bizi sert ama d\u00fcr\u00fcst bir ger\u00e7ekle y\u00fczle\u015ftirir: Hayat pazarl\u0131k kabul etmez.<\/strong> Geri alma tu\u015fu yoktur, erteleme dosyas\u0131 birikir ama kapanmaz. Kaybettiklerimiz geri gelmez, ka\u00e7\u0131rd\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z anlar yeniden ya\u015fanmaz. Bu y\u00fczden Tolstoy\u2019un vurgusu nettir; mesele ne ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z de\u011fil, ya\u015fay\u0131p ya\u015famad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131zd\u0131r<\/strong>. Hayat, ba\u015f\u0131m\u0131za gelenlerden \u00e7ok, bizim ona ne kadar kat\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131zla ilgilidir. Ya\u015famak; risk almak, \u00fcz\u00fclmek, sevinmek ve sorumluluk \u00fcstlenmek demektir. Ka\u00e7t\u0131k\u00e7a de\u011fil, i\u00e7ine girdik\u00e7e anlam kazan\u0131r.<\/p>\n

Bu s\u00f6zden ilhamla g\u00fcnl\u00fck hayatta uygulanabilecek tek bir pratik \u00f6neri: \u201cSonra yapar\u0131m\u201d dedi\u011finiz tek bir \u015feyi bug\u00fcn yap\u0131n.<\/strong> B\u00fcy\u00fck bir karar olmak zorunda de\u011fil. Uzun s\u00fcredir erteledi\u011finiz bir telefon, yazmak isteyip ba\u015flamad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z bir metin, gitmek isteyip hep oyalad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z bir ziyaret\u2026 \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc zaman kayb\u0131 \u00e7o\u011fu zaman b\u00fcy\u00fck hatalardan de\u011fil, k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck ertelemelerden<\/strong> olu\u015fur. Bug\u00fcn att\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck bir ad\u0131m, yar\u0131n \u201cke\u015fke\u201d dememenin en g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc sigortas\u0131d\u0131r.<\/p>\n

\u00d6rne\u011fin y\u0131llarca mutsuz oldu\u011fu bir hayat\u0131 \u201c\u015fartlar b\u00f6yle\u201d diyerek s\u00fcrd\u00fcren biri, geriye d\u00f6n\u00fcp bakt\u0131\u011f\u0131nda en \u00e7ok \u015fartlara de\u011fil, kendi suskunlu\u011funa<\/strong> \u00fcz\u00fcl\u00fcr. Tolstoy\u2019un alt\u0131n\u0131 \u00e7izdi\u011fi tam olarak budur: Hayat, ya\u015fanmadan ge\u00e7mez. Ya bug\u00fcn\u00fcn sorumlulu\u011funu al\u0131r ve ya\u015fam\u0131n i\u00e7ine gireriz ya da yar\u0131n, ya\u015famad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z bir hayat\u0131n yas\u0131n\u0131 tutar\u0131z.<\/strong><\/em> Bu se\u00e7im her g\u00fcn, her an yeniden \u00f6n\u00fcm\u00fcze gelir.<\/p>\n

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Tolstoy Kimdir?<\/h3>\n
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Lev Nikolayevi\u00e7 Tolstoy, edebiyat tarihinin en derinlikli d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcr-yazarlar\u0131ndan biridir. Sava\u015f ve Bar\u0131\u015f<\/em> . Anna Karenina<\/em> gibi ba\u015fyap\u0131tlar\u0131nda insan\u0131n ahlaki se\u00e7imlerini, zamanla ili\u015fkisini ve ya\u015fam\u0131n anlam\u0131n\u0131 sorgular. Tolstoy i\u00e7in hayat; d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fclerek de\u011fil, sorumluluk al\u0131narak ya\u015fan\u0131r<\/strong>. Eserleri ve s\u00f6zleri, zaman\u0131 ertelemenin de\u011fil, bilin\u00e7le ya\u015faman\u0131n insan\u0131 \u00f6zg\u00fcrle\u015ftirdi\u011fini hat\u0131rlatan g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc bir \u00e7a\u011fr\u0131d\u0131r.<\/p>\n

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Hayata Dair En \u0130yi \u00d6zl\u00fc S\u00f6zler<\/a><\/p><\/blockquote>\n