{"id":6396,"date":"2015-03-07T14:03:49","date_gmt":"2015-03-07T12:03:49","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.ozdeyis.net\/?p=6396"},"modified":"2026-02-04T13:16:42","modified_gmt":"2026-02-04T13:16:42","slug":"hayatin-binlerce-hazinesi-icinde-umut-ya-da-uzuntuyu-secmek-bizim-elimizdedir-gontran-de-poncins","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/e-motivasyon.net\/en\/hayatin-binlerce-hazinesi-icinde-umut-ya-da-uzuntuyu-secmek-bizim-elimizdedir-gontran-de-poncins.html","title":{"rendered":"“Hayat\u0131n binlerce hazinesi i\u00e7inde umut ya da \u00fcz\u00fcnt\u00fcy\u00fc se\u00e7mek bizim elimizdedir.” Gontran De Poncins"},"content":{"rendered":"

“Hayat\u0131n binlerce hazinesi i\u00e7inde umut ya da \u00fcz\u00fcnt\u00fcy\u00fc se\u00e7mek bizim elimizdedir.” Gontran De Poncins<\/strong><\/em><\/h3>\n

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Gontran De Poncins bu s\u00f6z\u00fcyle, ya\u015fam\u0131n bize sunduklar\u0131ndan \u00e7ok bizim onlara nas\u0131l bakt\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n<\/strong> belirleyici oldu\u011funu hat\u0131rlat\u0131r. Hayat tek bir renkten olu\u015fmaz; sevinci de bar\u0131nd\u0131r\u0131r, kayb\u0131 da, f\u0131rsat\u0131 da, hayal k\u0131r\u0131kl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 da\u2026 Ancak ayn\u0131 ko\u015fullar i\u00e7inde bile baz\u0131 insanlar umudu b\u00fcy\u00fct\u00fcrken, baz\u0131lar\u0131 \u00fcz\u00fcnt\u00fcye tutunur. Buradaki kilit nokta \u015fudur: Duygular\u0131m\u0131z her zaman se\u00e7ti\u011fimiz anlamlar\u0131n sonucudur.<\/strong> Biz, ya\u015fad\u0131klar\u0131m\u0131zdan hangi \u201chazineyi\u201d \u00e7\u0131karaca\u011f\u0131m\u0131za fark\u0131nda olarak ya da olmayarak karar veririz.<\/p>\n

Bu s\u00f6zden ilhamla g\u00fcnl\u00fck hayatta uygulanabilecek tek ve g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc bir pratik \u00f6neri: G\u00fcn\u00fcn sonunda kendinize \u201cBug\u00fcn neyi umut olarak se\u00e7tim?\u201d sorusunu sorun.<\/strong> Ya\u015fananlar\u0131 de\u011fi\u015ftiremeyebiliriz ama onlar\u0131 zihnimizde nereye koyaca\u011f\u0131m\u0131za karar verebiliriz. Siz ve biz, g\u00fcn i\u00e7inde can s\u0131kan bir olaya tak\u0131l\u0131p kalmak yerine, ayn\u0131 g\u00fcn\u00fcn i\u00e7indeki k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck ama ger\u00e7ek bir olumlu detay\u0131 bilin\u00e7li olarak se\u00e7ebiliriz. Bu basit fark\u0131ndal\u0131k, zihni yava\u015f yava\u015f umut odakl\u0131 bir bak\u0131\u015fa<\/strong> al\u0131\u015ft\u0131r\u0131r.<\/p>\n

\u00d6rne\u011fin zor ge\u00e7en bir i\u015f g\u00fcn\u00fcn\u00fc d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcn. Ayn\u0131 g\u00fcn i\u00e7inde bir hata, bir gecikme ya da bir hayal k\u0131r\u0131kl\u0131\u011f\u0131 ya\u015fanm\u0131\u015f olabilir. Ama ayn\u0131 g\u00fcn, \u00f6\u011frendi\u011finiz yeni bir \u015fey, ald\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck bir destek ya da g\u00f6sterdi\u011finiz bir \u00e7aba da vard\u0131r. Gontran De Poncins\u2019in i\u015faret etti\u011fi nokta tam buras\u0131d\u0131r: Hayat\u0131n sundu\u011fu hazineler aras\u0131nda hangisini cebimize koyaca\u011f\u0131m\u0131z bize aittir.<\/strong> Umut, \u015fartlar de\u011fi\u015fti\u011finde de\u011fil; biz se\u00e7im yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131zda g\u00fc\u00e7lenir.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

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Gontran De Poncins Kimdir?<\/strong><\/h3>\n

Gontran De Poncins (1900\u20131962), Frans\u0131z yazar, gezgin ve g\u00f6zlemcidir. En \u00e7ok, insan do\u011fas\u0131na ve ya\u015fam ko\u015fullar\u0131na dair yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131 derin g\u00f6zlemlerle tan\u0131n\u0131r. Zorlu \u00e7evrelerde, \u00f6zellikle kutup b\u00f6lgelerinde edindi\u011fi deneyimler, onun umut, dayan\u0131kl\u0131l\u0131k ve insan\u0131n i\u00e7sel g\u00fcc\u00fc<\/strong> \u00fczerine d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcncelerini \u015fekillendirmi\u015ftir. De Poncins\u2019in s\u00f6zleri, hayat\u0131n d\u0131\u015f ko\u015fullar\u0131ndan \u00e7ok i\u00e7sel tutumun<\/strong> belirleyici oldu\u011funu vurgulayan sade ama g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc bir ya\u015fam felsefesini yans\u0131t\u0131r.<\/p>\n

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