{"id":6360,"date":"2015-03-03T11:44:37","date_gmt":"2015-03-03T09:44:37","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.ozdeyis.net\/?p=6360"},"modified":"2026-02-03T10:20:12","modified_gmt":"2026-02-03T10:20:12","slug":"birine-asik-olmak-onu-kalabaligin-icinden-cekip-cikarmak-coklugun-icinde-tek-kilmaktir-gilles-deleuze","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/e-motivasyon.net\/en\/birine-asik-olmak-onu-kalabaligin-icinden-cekip-cikarmak-coklugun-icinde-tek-kilmaktir-gilles-deleuze.html","title":{"rendered":"\u201cTo fall in love with someone is to pull them out of the crowd, to make them one in the multitude.\u201d Gilles Deleuze"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u201cTo fall in love with someone is to pull them out of the crowd, to make them one in the multitude.\u201d Gilles Deleuze<\/strong><\/em><\/h3>\n

\""G\u00fczel<\/a><\/p>\n

Gilles Deleuze\u2019\u00fcn bu \u00e7arp\u0131c\u0131 s\u00f6z\u00fc, a\u015fk\u0131 yaln\u0131zca bir duygu de\u011fil, bir alg\u0131 devrimi<\/strong> olarak ele al\u0131r. Kalabal\u0131\u011f\u0131n i\u00e7inden birini \u201c\u00e7ekip \u00e7\u0131karmak\u201d, onu fiziksel olarak ay\u0131rmak de\u011fil; zihinsel ve duygusal olarak merkezimize almakt\u0131r. A\u015f\u0131k oldu\u011fumuzda d\u00fcnya h\u00e2l\u00e2 kalabal\u0131kt\u0131r ama art\u0131k odak noktam\u0131z de\u011fi\u015fmi\u015ftir<\/strong>. O ki\u015fi, \u00e7oklu\u011fun i\u00e7inden s\u0131yr\u0131l\u0131r ve bizim i\u00e7in \u201ctek\u201d olur. Deleuze burada a\u015fk\u0131n se\u00e7ici do\u011fas\u0131na i\u015faret eder: A\u015fk, herkesi g\u00f6rmekten vazge\u00e7ip bir ki\u015fiyi derinlemesine g\u00f6rmeyi se\u00e7mektir. Bu y\u00fczden a\u015fk, y\u00fczeyselli\u011fin de\u011fil, yo\u011funlu\u011fun<\/strong> alan\u0131d\u0131r.<\/p>\n

Bu s\u00f6zden ilhamla g\u00fcnl\u00fck hayatta uygulayabilece\u011fimiz basit ama g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc bir pratik \u00f6neri getirebiliriz. Hayat\u0131n\u0131zdaki \u00f6nemli bir ili\u015fkiyi d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcn ve bug\u00fcn sadece tam dikkatle dinleme<\/strong> prati\u011fini uygulay\u0131n. Kar\u015f\u0131n\u0131zdaki konu\u015furken telefonu bir kenara b\u0131rak\u0131n, cevap vermek i\u00e7in de\u011fil anlamak i\u00e7in dinleyin. Bu, romantik bir ili\u015fki olmak zorunda de\u011fil; bir dostluk, bir ebeveyn-\u00e7ocuk ili\u015fkisi ya da uzun s\u00fcredir ihmal etti\u011finiz bir ba\u011f olabilir. Birini ger\u00e7ekten dinlemek, onu kalabal\u0131ktan ay\u0131rman\u0131n en somut yollar\u0131ndan biridir.<\/strong> Bu k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck eylem, ili\u015fkilerde derinlik yarat\u0131r ve \u201c\u00e7okluk\u201d i\u00e7inde kaybolan ba\u011f\u0131 yeniden g\u00f6r\u00fcn\u00fcr k\u0131lar.<\/p>\n

G\u00fcnl\u00fck hayattan bir \u00f6rnek d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnelim. Ayn\u0131 evde ya\u015fay\u0131p birbirine yabanc\u0131la\u015fan \u00e7iftler ya da ayn\u0131 ofiste \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131p birbirini ger\u00e7ekten tan\u0131mayan insanlar\u2026 Kalabal\u0131klar i\u00e7inde yan yana ama ayr\u0131 d\u00fcnyalarda ya\u015famak \u00e7ok yayg\u0131nd\u0131r. Oysa bir ak\u015fam k\u0131sa bir y\u00fcr\u00fcy\u00fc\u015fte yap\u0131lan samimi bir sohbet, ya da g\u00f6z g\u00f6ze bak\u0131larak i\u00e7ilen bir kahve, ili\u015fkiyi yeniden \u201ctek\u201d k\u0131labilir. Deleuze\u2019\u00fcn i\u015faret etti\u011fi a\u015fk tam da budur: Birini se\u00e7mek de\u011fil, se\u00e7ti\u011fini ger\u00e7ekten g\u00f6rmek ve ona alan a\u00e7makt\u0131r.<\/strong><\/em> Bu bak\u0131\u015f a\u00e7\u0131s\u0131, a\u015fk\u0131 ge\u00e7ici bir heyecandan \u00e7\u0131kar\u0131r; bilin\u00e7li bir ba\u011f kurma eylemine<\/strong> d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015ft\u00fcr\u00fcr.<\/p>\n

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Gilles Deleuze Kimdir?<\/strong>
Gilles Deleuze (1925\u20131995), 20. y\u00fczy\u0131l\u0131n en etkili Frans\u0131z filozoflar\u0131ndan biridir. Felsefeyi dura\u011fan kavramlar \u00fczerinden de\u011fil, olu\u015f, fark, ili\u015fki ve \u00e7okluk<\/strong> kavramlar\u0131 \u00fczerinden ele alm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. \u00d6zellikle F\u00e9lix Guattari ile birlikte geli\u015ftirdi\u011fi \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmalar, modern d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnceye radikal a\u00e7\u0131l\u0131mlar getirmi\u015ftir. Deleuze\u2019e g\u00f6re insan, sabit bir kimlik de\u011fil; ili\u015fkiler i\u00e7inde s\u00fcrekli yeniden \u015fekillenen bir varl\u0131kt\u0131r. A\u015fk, arzu ve ba\u011flanma \u00fczerine d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnceleri de bu \u00e7er\u00e7evede ele al\u0131n\u0131r. Onun yakla\u015f\u0131m\u0131, bug\u00fcn psikoloji, sanat, sosyoloji ve ili\u015fki dinamikleri alan\u0131nda h\u00e2l\u00e2 g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc bir ilham kayna\u011f\u0131d\u0131r.<\/p>\n

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A\u015fk ve Sevgi \u00dczerine En \u0130yi \u00d6zl\u00fc S\u00f6zler<\/a><\/p><\/blockquote>\n