{"id":6343,"date":"2015-03-02T22:44:29","date_gmt":"2015-03-02T20:44:29","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.ozdeyis.net\/?p=6343"},"modified":"2026-02-03T10:48:53","modified_gmt":"2026-02-03T10:48:53","slug":"camdan-evde-oturanlar-baskalarina-tas-atmamalidirlar-george-herbert","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/e-motivasyon.net\/en\/camdan-evde-oturanlar-baskalarina-tas-atmamalidirlar-george-herbert.html","title":{"rendered":"“Camdan evde oturanlar, ba\u015fkalar\u0131na ta\u015f atmamal\u0131d\u0131rlar.” George Herbert"},"content":{"rendered":"

“Camdan evde oturanlar, ba\u015fkalar\u0131na ta\u015f atmamal\u0131d\u0131rlar.” George Herbert<\/strong><\/em><\/h3>\n

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George Herbert\u2019in \u201cCamdan evde oturanlar, ba\u015fkalar\u0131na ta\u015f atmamal\u0131d\u0131rlar.\u201d s\u00f6z\u00fc, insan\u0131n kendi k\u0131r\u0131lganl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 fark etmeden ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131 yarg\u0131lamas\u0131n\u0131n ne kadar \u00e7eli\u015fkili oldu\u011funu hat\u0131rlat\u0131r. Hepimizin zaaflar\u0131, hatalar\u0131 ve eksik y\u00f6nleri vard\u0131r; ancak \u00e7o\u011fu zaman bunlar\u0131 g\u00f6rmezden gelip ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131n kusurlar\u0131na odaklanmay\u0131 tercih ederiz. Oysa ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131 ele\u015ftirme e\u011filimi, \u00e7o\u011fu zaman kendi i\u00e7imizde y\u00fczle\u015fmek istemedi\u011fimiz yanlar\u0131m\u0131zdan do\u011far<\/strong>. Bu s\u00f6z, bizi ahlaki bir \u00fcst\u00fcnl\u00fc\u011fe de\u011fil, al\u00e7akg\u00f6n\u00fcll\u00fc bir fark\u0131ndal\u0131\u011fa davet eder.<\/p>\n

Bu bak\u0131\u015f a\u00e7\u0131s\u0131ndan ilhamla g\u00fcnl\u00fck hayatta uygulanabilecek pratik bir \u00f6neri \u015fudur: Birini ele\u015ftirmeden \u00f6nce kendinize \u015fu soruyu sorun: \u201cBen bu konuda ne kadar tutarl\u0131y\u0131m?\u201d E\u011fer ayn\u0131 davran\u0131\u015f\u0131n izlerini kendi hayat\u0131n\u0131zda da g\u00f6rebiliyorsan\u0131z, yarg\u0131lamak yerine anlamay\u0131 se\u00e7in. Ele\u015ftiriyi durdurup \u00f6z de\u011ferlendirme yapmak<\/strong>, hem ili\u015fkileri yumu\u015fat\u0131r hem de ki\u015fisel geli\u015fim i\u00e7in g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc bir kap\u0131 aralar.<\/p>\n

G\u00fcnl\u00fck ya\u015famda bunun say\u0131s\u0131z \u00f6rne\u011fini g\u00f6r\u00fcr\u00fcz. Hatalar\u0131 y\u00fcz\u00fcnden bir \u00e7al\u0131\u015fma arkada\u015f\u0131n\u0131 sert\u00e7e ele\u015ftirirken, benzer bir hatay\u0131 zaman\u0131nda bizim de yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 unutabiliriz. \u00c7ocu\u011fumuzdan kusursuz davranmas\u0131n\u0131 beklerken, kendi sab\u0131rs\u0131zl\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 fark etmeyebiliriz. George Herbert\u2019in bu s\u00f6z\u00fc bize \u015funu f\u0131s\u0131ldar: Ba\u015fkalar\u0131na att\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z her ta\u015f, asl\u0131nda kendi cam evimize do\u011fru savrulmu\u015f bir risktir.<\/strong><\/em> Kendimizi tan\u0131d\u0131k\u00e7a, ba\u015fkalar\u0131na kar\u015f\u0131 daha anlay\u0131\u015fl\u0131 oluruz.<\/p>\n

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George Herbert Kimdir?<\/strong>
George Herbert (1593\u20131633), \u0130ngiliz \u015fair, yazar ve din adam\u0131d\u0131r. Metafizik \u015fiirin \u00f6nemli temsilcilerinden biri olarak kabul edilir. Eserlerinde ahlak, insan do\u011fas\u0131, i\u00e7sel fark\u0131ndal\u0131k ve erdem kavramlar\u0131n\u0131 sade ama derin bir dille ele alm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. \u00d6zl\u00fc s\u00f6zleriyle tan\u0131nan Herbert, insan\u0131n kendisiyle y\u00fczle\u015fmeden ba\u015fkalar\u0131 hakk\u0131nda h\u00fck\u00fcm vermesini ele\u015ftiren g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc ifadeler b\u0131rakm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. Bug\u00fcn h\u00e2l\u00e2 ki\u015fisel geli\u015fim, etik d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnce ve insan ili\u015fkileri<\/strong> alanlar\u0131nda yol g\u00f6sterici kabul edilmektedir.<\/p>\n

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\u0130nsanlara Dair \u00d6zl\u00fc S\u00f6zler ve \u00d6zdeyi\u015fler<\/a><\/p><\/blockquote>\n