{"id":6227,"date":"2015-02-18T12:49:30","date_gmt":"2015-02-18T10:49:30","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.ozdeyis.net\/?p=6227"},"modified":"2026-02-01T20:20:14","modified_gmt":"2026-02-01T20:20:14","slug":"ayakkabilarim-olmadigi-icin-uzulurdum-ta-ki-sokakta-ayaklari-olmayan-adami-gorene-kadar-honore-de-balzac","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/e-motivasyon.net\/en\/ayakkabilarim-olmadigi-icin-uzulurdum-ta-ki-sokakta-ayaklari-olmayan-adami-gorene-kadar-honore-de-balzac.html","title":{"rendered":"\u201cI used to be sad because I didn't have shoes. Until I see the man with no feet in the street.\u201d Honor\u00e9 de Balzac"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u201cI used to be sad because I didn't have shoes. Until I see the man with no feet in the street.\u201d Honor\u00e9 de Balzac<\/strong><\/em><\/h3>\n

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\u201cAyakkab\u0131lar\u0131m olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131 i\u00e7in \u00fcz\u00fcl\u00fcrd\u00fcm. Ta ki, sokakta ayaklar\u0131 olmayan adam\u0131 g\u00f6rene kadar.\u201d <\/strong>Honor\u00e9 de Balzac\u2019\u0131n bu \u00e7arp\u0131c\u0131 s\u00f6z\u00fc, insan\u0131n ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131 eksiklikleri nas\u0131l alg\u0131lad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 ve hayata hangi pencereden bakt\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 sorgulat\u0131r. \u00c7o\u011fu zaman sahip olmad\u0131klar\u0131m\u0131za odaklan\u0131r, elimizde olanlar\u0131 ise fark etmeden ya\u015far\u0131z. Oysa bak\u0131\u015f a\u00e7\u0131s\u0131 de\u011fi\u015fti\u011finde, ayn\u0131 hayat bamba\u015fka bir anlam kazan\u0131r.<\/strong> Bu s\u00f6z, \u015fik\u00e2yetin de\u011fil fark\u0131ndal\u0131\u011f\u0131n; k\u0131yas\u0131n de\u011fil \u015f\u00fckr\u00fcn d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015ft\u00fcr\u00fcc\u00fc g\u00fcc\u00fcn\u00fc hat\u0131rlat\u0131r. Sorun her zaman ko\u015fullar de\u011fil, o ko\u015fullara y\u00fckledi\u011fimiz anlamd\u0131r.<\/p>\n

Bu s\u00f6zden ilham alarak g\u00fcnl\u00fck hayatta uygulayabilece\u011fimiz pratik bir \u00f6neri olduk\u00e7a basittir: G\u00fcn\u00fcn sonunda kendinize \u015fu soruyu sorun: \u201cBug\u00fcn neye \u015f\u00fckredebilirim?\u201d<\/strong> B\u00fcy\u00fck \u015feyler olmak zorunda de\u011fil; y\u00fcr\u00fcyebilmek, nefes almak, sevdiklerinizle konu\u015fabilmek bile yeterlidir. Bu k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck fark\u0131ndal\u0131k egzersizi, zihni s\u00fcrekli eksik arayan bir yerden al\u0131r ve motivasyonu besleyen bir i\u00e7 dengeye<\/strong> ta\u015f\u0131r. D\u00fczenli yap\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131nda, hayata kar\u015f\u0131 daha g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc ve diren\u00e7li bir tutum geli\u015ftirdi\u011finizi fark edersiniz.<\/p>\n

Hepimiz zaman zaman \u201cdaha iyisi\u201dne odaklan\u0131r, mevcut durumdan memnuniyetsizlik duyar\u0131z. Ancak Balzac\u2019\u0131n bu s\u00f6z\u00fc, bizi sert ama \u015fefkatli bir ger\u00e7ekle y\u00fczle\u015ftirir: Elimizdekiler, ba\u015fkas\u0131n\u0131n hayali olabilir.<\/strong> Motivasyon, her \u015feye sahip olmakla de\u011fil; sahip olduklar\u0131n\u0131n fark\u0131nda olmakla g\u00fc\u00e7lenir.<\/em> Ve bu fark\u0131ndal\u0131k, insan\u0131n hem ruhunu hem de ya\u015fam enerjisini aya\u011fa kald\u0131r\u0131r.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

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Honor\u00e9 de Balzac Kimdir?<\/h3>\n

Honor\u00e9 de Balzac<\/strong> (1799\u20131850), Frans\u0131z edebiyat\u0131n\u0131n en \u00f6nemli yazarlar\u0131ndan biridir. En b\u00fcy\u00fck eseri kabul edilen \u0130nsanl\u0131k Komedyas\u0131<\/em> adl\u0131 yap\u0131t dizisinde, 19. y\u00fczy\u0131l Frans\u0131z toplumunu t\u00fcm ger\u00e7ekli\u011fiyle ele alm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. \u0130nsan do\u011fas\u0131, tutkular, h\u0131rslar, s\u0131n\u0131f farklar\u0131 ve psikolojik \u00e7at\u0131\u015fmalar Balzac\u2019\u0131n eserlerinin merkezinde yer al\u0131r. Onun s\u00f6zleri ve metinleri, yaln\u0131zca edebi de\u011fil; motivasyon<\/strong>, fark\u0131ndal\u0131k<\/strong> . insan\u0131n kendini anlamas\u0131<\/strong> a\u00e7\u0131s\u0131ndan da g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc i\u00e7g\u00f6r\u00fcler sunar.<\/p>\n

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Mutluluk \u00dczerine En \u0130yi \u00d6zl\u00fc S\u00f6zler<\/a><\/p><\/blockquote>\n