{"id":6034,"date":"2018-10-15T16:56:50","date_gmt":"2018-10-15T16:56:50","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.ozdeyis.net\/?p=6034"},"modified":"2026-07-24T16:54:40","modified_gmt":"2026-07-24T16:54:40","slug":"hayata-tepeden-bakarsan-insanlarin-sadece-tepesini-gorursun-hayata-daima-insanlarla-ayni-mesafeden-bak-o-zaman-insanlarin-hem-yuzunu-hem-kalbini-gorursun-sems-tebrizi","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/e-motivasyon.net\/en\/hayata-tepeden-bakarsan-insanlarin-sadece-tepesini-gorursun-hayata-daima-insanlarla-ayni-mesafeden-bak-o-zaman-insanlarin-hem-yuzunu-hem-kalbini-gorursun-sems-tebrizi.html","title":{"rendered":"\u201cIf you look down on life, you only see the top of people. Always look at life from the same distance as people. Then you will see both the faces and the hearts of the people.\u201d Shams Tabrizi"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u201cIf you look down on life, you only see the top of people. Always look at life from the same distance as people. Then you will see both the faces and the hearts of the people.\u201d Shams Tabrizi<\/strong><\/em><\/h3>\n

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\u0130nsanlar\u0131 ger\u00e7ekten tan\u0131yabilmek i\u00e7in onlara yukar\u0131dan de\u011fil, yan yana bakabilmek gerekir. \u015eems-i Tebrizi’nin “Hayata tepeden bakarsan insanlar\u0131n sadece tepesini g\u00f6r\u00fcrs\u00fcn. Hayata daima insanlarla ayn\u0131 mesafeden bak. O zaman insanlar\u0131n hem y\u00fcz\u00fcn\u00fc, hem kalbini g\u00f6r\u00fcrs\u00fcn.” s\u00f6z\u00fc, tevazunun ve empati kurman\u0131n insan ili\u015fkilerindeki vazge\u00e7ilmez \u00f6nemini anlat\u0131r.<\/strong> Kibir, bizi insanlardan uzakla\u015ft\u0131r\u0131rken; al\u00e7akg\u00f6n\u00fcll\u00fcl\u00fck, onlar\u0131n duygular\u0131n\u0131, m\u00fccadelelerini ve ger\u00e7ek hik\u00e2yelerini g\u00f6rebilmemizi sa\u011flar. Ki\u015fisel geli\u015fim yaln\u0131zca bilgi ve ba\u015far\u0131 kazanmak de\u011fil, ayn\u0131 zamanda insanlar\u0131 \u00f6nyarg\u0131s\u0131z dinleyebilen ve onlara de\u011fer verebilen bir karakter geli\u015ftirmektir. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc kalpler, kendini \u00fcst\u00fcn g\u00f6renlere de\u011fil; samimiyetle yakla\u015fanlara a\u00e7\u0131l\u0131r.<\/p>\n

Bu d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnceyi g\u00fcnl\u00fck ya\u015famda uygulaman\u0131n pratik bir yolu, her g\u00fcn en az bir ki\u015fiyi yarg\u0131lamadan ve s\u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc kesmeden ger\u00e7ekten dinlemeyi al\u0131\u015fkanl\u0131k h\u00e2line getirmektir.<\/strong> Bir arkada\u015f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n, i\u015f arkada\u015f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n ya da aile bireyinizin anlatt\u0131klar\u0131na cevap vermek i\u00e7in de\u011fil, anlamak i\u00e7in kulak verin. \u00c7o\u011fu zaman insanlar\u0131n en b\u00fcy\u00fck ihtiyac\u0131, kendilerine ak\u0131l verilmesi de\u011fil; i\u00e7tenlikle dinlenmeleridir. Bu k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck al\u0131\u015fkanl\u0131k hem empati becerimizi geli\u015ftirir hem de ili\u015fkilerimizi daha g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc ve g\u00fcvene dayal\u0131 h\u00e2le getirir.<\/p>\n

Bir d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcn; bir y\u00f6netici \u00e7al\u0131\u015fanlar\u0131n\u0131 yaln\u0131zca yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131 i\u015fle de\u011ferlendirirken, ba\u015fka bir y\u00f6netici onlar\u0131n ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131 zorluklar\u0131 da anlamaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131yor. Hangisinin daha g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc bir ekip kuraca\u011f\u0131 a\u00e7\u0131kt\u0131r. Ayn\u0131 durum ailede, dostlukta ve hayat\u0131n her alan\u0131nda ge\u00e7erlidir. \u0130nsanlar de\u011fer g\u00f6rd\u00fckleri yerde g\u00fcven duyar, anla\u015f\u0131ld\u0131klar\u0131 yerde ise g\u00f6n\u00fcllerini a\u00e7arlar. Ger\u00e7ek b\u00fcy\u00fckl\u00fck, ba\u015fkalar\u0131na yukar\u0131dan bakmakta de\u011fil; herkesle ayn\u0131 seviyede durup onlar\u0131n y\u00fcz\u00fcn\u00fc, hik\u00e2yesini ve kalbini g\u00f6rebilmektedir. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc insan\u0131 ger\u00e7ekten g\u00f6ren g\u00f6zler, d\u00fcnyay\u0131 da daha g\u00fczel g\u00f6rmeye ba\u015flar.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

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\u015eems-i Tebrizi Kimdir?<\/h3>\n

\u015eems-i Tebrizi (1185-1248) \u0130ranl\u0131 mutasavv\u0131f, d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcr ve gezgin dervi\u015ftir. Tasavvuf tarihinin en etkileyici isimlerinden biri olan \u015eems-i Tebrizi, \u00f6zellikle Mevl\u00e2n\u00e2 Cel\u00e2ledd\u00een-i R\u00fbm\u00ee ile kurdu\u011fu derin manevi dostluk sayesinde tan\u0131nm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. Mevl\u00e2n\u00e2’n\u0131n d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnce d\u00fcnyas\u0131nda b\u00fcy\u00fck bir d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015f\u00fcm ya\u015famas\u0131na vesile olmu\u015f, sevgi, tevazu, hakikat, insan\u0131n i\u00e7sel yolculu\u011fu ve ilahi a\u015fk \u00fczerine geli\u015ftirdi\u011fi fikirlerle y\u00fczy\u0131llard\u0131r insanlara ilham vermi\u015ftir. \u015eems-i Tebrizi’nin s\u00f6zleri ve \u00f6\u011fretileri, g\u00fcn\u00fcm\u00fczde de ki\u015fisel geli\u015fim, insan ili\u015fkileri ve manevi olgunluk \u00fczerine en \u00e7ok ba\u015fvurulan kaynaklar aras\u0131nda yer almaktad\u0131r.<\/p>\n

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Hayata Dair En \u0130yi \u00d6zl\u00fc S\u00f6zler<\/a><\/p><\/blockquote>\n