{"id":5985,"date":"2015-01-08T18:51:44","date_gmt":"2015-01-08T16:51:44","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.ozdeyis.net\/?p=5985"},"modified":"2026-01-31T19:29:13","modified_gmt":"2026-01-31T19:29:13","slug":"durustluk-cok-pahali-bir-hediyedir-ucuz-insanlardan-beklemeyin-warren-buffett","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/e-motivasyon.net\/en\/durustluk-cok-pahali-bir-hediyedir-ucuz-insanlardan-beklemeyin-warren-buffett.html","title":{"rendered":"\u201cHonesty is a very expensive gift, don't expect it from cheap people.\u201d Warren Buffett"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u201cHonesty is a very expensive gift, don't expect it from cheap people.\u201d Warren Buffett<\/strong><\/em><\/h3>\n

\"\u201cD\u00fcr\u00fcstl\u00fck<\/a><\/p>\n

Warren Buffett\u2019\u0131n \u201cD\u00fcr\u00fcstl\u00fck \u00e7ok pahal\u0131 bir hediyedir, ucuz insanlardan beklemeyin<\/strong>\u201d s\u00f6z\u00fc, hem insan ili\u015fkilerine hem de ya\u015fam duru\u015funa dair g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc bir ger\u00e7ekli\u011fi y\u00fcz\u00fcm\u00fcze vurur. Bu s\u00f6z, d\u00fcr\u00fcstl\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn herkesin kolayca sergileyebilece\u011fi bir \u00f6zellik olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 anlat\u0131r. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc d\u00fcr\u00fcst olmak; bedel \u00f6demeyi, net olmay\u0131 ve gerekti\u011finde yaln\u0131z kalmay\u0131 g\u00f6ze almay\u0131 gerektirir. Biz \u00e7o\u011fu zaman hayal k\u0131r\u0131kl\u0131klar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n kayna\u011f\u0131n\u0131 d\u0131\u015far\u0131da arar\u0131z; oysa sorun, yanl\u0131\u015f beklentilerle yanl\u0131\u015f insanlara de\u011ferli bir erdem atfetmemizdir<\/strong>. Warren Buffett burada bizi uyand\u0131r\u0131r: Herkesin karakter kapasitesi ayn\u0131 de\u011fildir ve d\u00fcr\u00fcstl\u00fck, karakteri geli\u015fmi\u015f insanlar\u0131n ta\u015f\u0131yabildi\u011fi a\u011f\u0131r bir y\u00fckt\u00fcr.<\/p>\n

Bu s\u00f6zden ilhamla g\u00fcnl\u00fck hayatta uygulayabilece\u011fimiz tek bir pratik \u00f6neri \u015fudur: Beklentilerinizi de\u011fil, g\u00f6zlemlerinizi temel al\u0131n.<\/strong> Siz ve biz, bir insana g\u00fcvenmeden \u00f6nce s\u00f6ylediklerine de\u011fil, tekrar eden davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131na bakal\u0131m. K\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck yalanlar\u0131 g\u00f6rmezden gelip b\u00fcy\u00fck d\u00fcr\u00fcstl\u00fck beklemek, kendimizi kand\u0131rmaktan ba\u015fka bir \u015fey de\u011fildir. Ki\u015fisel geli\u015fim ve sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 ili\u015fkiler a\u00e7\u0131s\u0131ndan bu fark\u0131ndal\u0131k \u00e7ok de\u011ferlidir. D\u00fcr\u00fcstl\u00fck, talep edilmez; fark edilir.<\/strong> Ve fark edilen bir erdem, zaten kendini ispatlam\u0131\u015ft\u0131r.<\/p>\n

\u00d6rne\u011fin i\u015f hayat\u0131nda s\u00f6z verip tutmayan birine \u201cbu sefer farkl\u0131 olur\u201d umuduyla yakla\u015fmak, hayal k\u0131r\u0131kl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 davet eder. Ya da \u00f6zel ili\u015fkilerde s\u0131n\u0131rlar\u0131 s\u00fcrekli ihlal eden birinden \u015feffafl\u0131k beklemek, enerjimizi bo\u015fa harcar. Warren Buffett\u2019\u0131n yat\u0131r\u0131m felsefesinde oldu\u011fu gibi, insan ili\u015fkilerinde de uzun vadeli kazan\u00e7; do\u011fru de\u011feri, do\u011fru yere koymakla m\u00fcmk\u00fcnd\u00fcr. D\u00fcr\u00fcstl\u00fc\u011f\u00fc herkeste aramak yerine, d\u00fcr\u00fcst insanlar\u0131 ay\u0131rt etmeyi \u00f6\u011frendi\u011fimizde hem kalbimiz hem hayat\u0131m\u0131z hafifler.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

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Warren Buffett Kimdir?<\/strong><\/h3>\n

Warren Buffett, d\u00fcnyan\u0131n en ba\u015far\u0131l\u0131 yat\u0131r\u0131mc\u0131lar\u0131ndan biri olarak kabul edilen Amerikal\u0131 i\u015f insan\u0131 ve Berkshire Hathaway\u2019in CEO\u2019sudur. 1930 do\u011fumlu Buffett, yaln\u0131zca finansal ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131yla de\u011fil; d\u00fcr\u00fcstl\u00fck, etik de\u011ferler ve uzun vadeli d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnme<\/strong> konusundaki net duru\u015fuyla da tan\u0131n\u0131r. \u201cOmaha Kahini\u201d olarak an\u0131lan Buffett, servetini nas\u0131l kazand\u0131\u011f\u0131ndan \u00e7ok, hangi ilkelerle korudu\u011fuyla \u00f6rnek g\u00f6sterilir. Hayat ve i\u015f felsefesinde karakteri merkeze alan Warren Buffett, ba\u015far\u0131y\u0131 yaln\u0131zca para kazanmakla de\u011fil, do\u011fru insan olmakla tan\u0131mlar.<\/p>\n

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\u0130nsanlara Dair \u00d6zl\u00fc S\u00f6zler ve \u00d6zdeyi\u015fler<\/a><\/p><\/blockquote>\n