{"id":5952,"date":"2015-01-07T19:57:06","date_gmt":"2015-01-07T17:57:06","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.ozdeyis.net\/?p=5952"},"modified":"2026-07-31T00:02:28","modified_gmt":"2026-07-31T00:02:28","slug":"eger-savasacak-kadar-guclu-degilsen-dusmanini-kucaklamalisin-iki-kolu-da-sana-sarili-iken-sana-silahini-dogrultamaz-tibette-yedi-yil","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/e-motivasyon.net\/en\/eger-savasacak-kadar-guclu-degilsen-dusmanini-kucaklamalisin-iki-kolu-da-sana-sarili-iken-sana-silahini-dogrultamaz-tibette-yedi-yil.html","title":{"rendered":"\u201cIf you are not strong enough to fight, you must embrace your enemy. He can't point his gun at you with both of his arms wrapped around you." Seven Years in Tibet"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u201cIf you are not strong enough to fight, you must embrace your enemy. He can't point his gun at you with both of his arms wrapped around you." Seven Years in Tibet<\/strong><\/em><\/h3>\n

\"Tibet'te<\/a><\/p>\n

\u0130nsan ili\u015fkilerinde her sorun g\u00fc\u00e7 kullan\u0131larak \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fclemez; bazen en etkili \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fcm anlay\u0131\u015f, empati ve diyalogdur. Tibet’te Yedi Y\u0131l (Seven Years in Tibet)<\/em> filminde ge\u00e7en \u201cE\u011fer sava\u015facak kadar g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc de\u011filsen, d\u00fc\u015fman\u0131n\u0131 kucaklamal\u0131s\u0131n. Her iki kolu da sana sar\u0131l\u0131 iken, sana silah\u0131n\u0131 do\u011frultamaz.\u201d<\/strong> s\u00f6z\u00fc, \u00e7at\u0131\u015fmalar\u0131 k\u00f6r\u00fcklemek yerine onlar\u0131 d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015ft\u00fcrmenin \u00f6nemini anlat\u0131r. Buradaki “kucaklamak”<\/strong>, teslim olmak ya da haks\u0131zl\u0131\u011fa boyun e\u011fmek anlam\u0131na gelmez. Aksine, \u00f6fkeyi \u00f6fkeyle b\u00fcy\u00fctmek yerine, kar\u015f\u0131 taraf\u0131 anlamaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015farak gerilimi azaltmay\u0131 ifade eder. Ger\u00e7ek g\u00fc\u00e7, her tart\u0131\u015fmay\u0131 kazanmakta de\u011fil; gereksiz \u00e7at\u0131\u015fmalar\u0131 bilgeli\u011fimizle etkisiz h\u00e2le getirebilmektedir.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Bu d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnceyi g\u00fcnl\u00fck ya\u015fam\u0131n\u0131za uygulamak i\u00e7in bir anla\u015fmazl\u0131k ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131zda, cevap vermeden \u00f6nce kar\u015f\u0131n\u0131zdaki ki\u015fiye \u015fu soruyu sormay\u0131 deneyin: “Bu konuda seni en \u00e7ok rahats\u0131z eden \u015fey ne?”<\/strong> Bu basit soru, savunma duvarlar\u0131n\u0131 y\u0131kabilir ve tart\u0131\u015fmay\u0131 bir g\u00fc\u00e7 m\u00fccadelesinden yap\u0131c\u0131 bir diyalo\u011fa d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015ft\u00fcrebilir. \u0130nsanlar anla\u015f\u0131ld\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131 hissettiklerinde, \u00e7o\u011fu zaman sald\u0131rgan tav\u0131rlar\u0131 da yumu\u015famaya ba\u015flar.<\/strong> Elbette bu yakla\u015f\u0131m, \u015fiddet i\u00e7eren veya g\u00fcvenli\u011finizi tehdit eden durumlar i\u00e7in de\u011fil; g\u00fcnl\u00fck ya\u015fam\u0131n ola\u011fan fikir ayr\u0131l\u0131klar\u0131 ve ileti\u015fim sorunlar\u0131 i\u00e7in ge\u00e7erlidir.<\/p>\n

\u00d6rne\u011fin i\u015f yerinde bir \u00e7al\u0131\u015fma arkada\u015f\u0131n\u0131z sizi sert bir dille ele\u015ftirdi\u011finde, ayn\u0131 sertlikle kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131k vermek yerine onu dikkatle dinleyip sorunun kayna\u011f\u0131n\u0131 anlamaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015fabilirsiniz. \u00c7o\u011fu zaman yanl\u0131\u015f anla\u015f\u0131lmalar ya da farkl\u0131 beklentiler, a\u00e7\u0131k bir ileti\u015fim sayesinde \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fclebilir. B\u00f6ylece hem ili\u015fkiniz zarar g\u00f6rmez hem de ortak bir \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fcm \u00fcretme ihtimaliniz artar. Hayat bize g\u00f6steriyor ki en kal\u0131c\u0131 zaferler, ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131 yenerek de\u011fil; \u00f6fkenin yerine anlay\u0131\u015f\u0131, \u00e7at\u0131\u015fman\u0131n yerine ileti\u015fimi koyabildi\u011fimiz zaman kazan\u0131l\u0131r.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

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Tibet’te Yedi Y\u0131l (Seven Years in Tibet) Konusu<\/strong><\/h2>\n

Tibet’te Yedi Y\u0131l (Seven Years in Tibet), 1997 y\u0131l\u0131nda g\u00f6sterime giren, y\u00f6netmenli\u011fini Jean-Jacques Annaud’nun yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131 biyografik drama filmidir. Ba\u015frollerinde Brad Pitt ve David Thewlis yer al\u0131r. Film, Avusturyal\u0131 da\u011fc\u0131 Heinrich Harrer’in ger\u00e7ek ya\u015fam \u00f6yk\u00fcs\u00fcnden uyarlanm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r ve II. D\u00fcnya Sava\u015f\u0131 s\u0131ras\u0131nda Tibet’e uzanan yolculu\u011funu konu al\u0131r. Gen\u00e7 14. Dalai Lama ile kurdu\u011fu dostluk \u00fczerinden; ho\u015fg\u00f6r\u00fc, i\u00e7sel d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015f\u00fcm, bar\u0131\u015f, empati ve insan\u0131n kendini ke\u015ffetmesi gibi evrensel temalar\u0131 i\u015fler. Film, farkl\u0131 k\u00fclt\u00fcrleri anlaman\u0131n ve \u015fefkatin d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015ft\u00fcr\u00fcc\u00fc g\u00fcc\u00fcn\u00fc etkileyici bir dille anlatan yap\u0131mlar aras\u0131nda kabul edilmektedir.<\/p>\n

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Seven Years in Tibet<\/a><\/p><\/blockquote>\n