{"id":5733,"date":"2014-12-17T20:52:01","date_gmt":"2014-12-17T18:52:01","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.ozdeyis.net\/?p=5733"},"modified":"2026-01-27T20:12:45","modified_gmt":"2026-01-27T20:12:45","slug":"taslari-atabiliriz-taslardan-sikayet-edebiliriz-taslara-takilabiliriz-taslarin-uzerine-tirmanabiliriz-ya-da-taslari-kullanarak-gorkemli-bir-insaat-yapabiliriz-william-arthur-ward","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/e-motivasyon.net\/en\/taslari-atabiliriz-taslardan-sikayet-edebiliriz-taslara-takilabiliriz-taslarin-uzerine-tirmanabiliriz-ya-da-taslari-kullanarak-gorkemli-bir-insaat-yapabiliriz-william-arthur-ward.html","title":{"rendered":"\u201cWe can throw stones, we can complain about stones, we can tread on stones, we can climb on stones, or we can use stones to build a magnificent building.\u201d William Arthur Ward"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u201cWe can throw stones, we can complain about stones, we can tread on stones, we can climb on stones, or we can use stones to build a magnificent building.\u201d William Arthur Ward<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

\"Ta\u015flar\u0131<\/a><\/p>\n

\u201cWe can throw stones, complain about stones, trip over stones, climb on stones or use stones to build a magnificent building.<\/strong>\u201d s\u00f6z\u00fc, William Arthur Ward\u2019un hayata bak\u0131\u015f a\u00e7\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n kaderimizi nas\u0131l \u015fekillendirdi\u011fini anlatan g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc bir metaforudur. Hepimizin yoluna zaman zaman \u201cta\u015flar\u201d \u00e7\u0131kar; engeller, sorunlar, hayal k\u0131r\u0131kl\u0131klar\u0131, beklenmedik zorluklar\u2026 Ancak bu s\u00f6z bize \u015funu hat\u0131rlat\u0131r: As\u0131l belirleyici olan ta\u015flar\u0131n varl\u0131\u011f\u0131 de\u011fil, onlarla ne yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131zd\u0131r.<\/strong> Ayn\u0131 ko\u015fullar birini \u00f6fkelendirip durdururken, bir ba\u015fkas\u0131n\u0131 g\u00fc\u00e7lendirebilir. Hayat, bize ne sundu\u011fundan \u00e7ok, bizim ona nas\u0131l kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131k verdi\u011fimizle anlam kazan\u0131r.<\/p>\n

Bu s\u00f6zden ilhamla g\u00fcnl\u00fck hayatta uygulanabilecek pratik bir \u00f6neri \u015fudur: Kar\u015f\u0131la\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z bir sorunla ilgili kendinize \u015fu soruyu sorun: \u201cBu ta\u015f bana ne \u00f6\u011fretiyor ve bunu nas\u0131l avantaja \u00e7evirebilirim?\u201d<\/strong> \u00d6rne\u011fin ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z bir ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131zl\u0131\u011f\u0131 sadece moral bozan bir engel olarak g\u00f6rmek yerine, geli\u015fim i\u00e7in bir geri bildirim olarak ele al\u0131n. Biz bu bak\u0131\u015f a\u00e7\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 benimsedi\u011fimizde, \u015fik\u00e2yet etmek yerine \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fcm \u00fcretmeye, tak\u0131l\u0131p kalmak yerine ilerlemeye ba\u015flar\u0131z. K\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck bir zihinsel y\u00f6n de\u011fi\u015fikli\u011fi bile, motivasyonumuzu ve hareket alan\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 ciddi bi\u00e7imde geni\u015fletebilir.<\/p>\n

D\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcn; ayn\u0131 i\u015f ortam\u0131nda ya\u015fanan bir problem, bir ki\u015fi i\u00e7in s\u00fcrekli yak\u0131n\u0131lan bir y\u00fckken, bir ba\u015fkas\u0131 i\u00e7in yeni bir sistem kurma f\u0131rsat\u0131na d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015febilir. Ta\u015flar oradad\u0131r, ka\u00e7\u0131n\u0131lmazd\u0131r; fakat onlar\u0131 nas\u0131l kulland\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z tamamen bize ba\u011fl\u0131d\u0131r. William Arthur Ward\u2019un bu s\u00f6z\u00fc, bizi pasif bir seyirci olmaktan \u00e7\u0131kar\u0131p ya\u015fam\u0131n mimar\u0131 olmaya davet eder. Ta\u015flar\u0131 in\u015fa malzemesine d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015ft\u00fcrd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcm\u00fczde, yaln\u0131zca engelleri a\u015fmakla kalmaz, kendi g\u00f6rkemli yap\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 da ad\u0131m ad\u0131m in\u015fa ederiz.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

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William Arthur Ward Kimdir?<\/h3>\n

William Arthur Ward, ki\u015fisel geli\u015fim, motivasyon ve ya\u015fam felsefesi alan\u0131nda etkili s\u00f6zleriyle tan\u0131nan Amerikal\u0131 bir yazar ve d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcrd\u00fcr. \u00d6zellikle ilham verici s\u00f6zleri<\/strong> ve k\u0131sa ama derin anlamlar ta\u015f\u0131yan ifadeleriyle bilinir. Ward\u2019un yakla\u015f\u0131m\u0131, insan\u0131n kar\u015f\u0131la\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131 zorluklar kar\u015f\u0131s\u0131nda pasif kalmak yerine sorumluluk almas\u0131n\u0131 ve bilin\u00e7li se\u00e7imler yapmas\u0131n\u0131 te\u015fvik eder. Bug\u00fcn h\u00e2l\u00e2 motivasyon, ki\u015fisel geli\u015fim ve fark\u0131ndal\u0131k alanlar\u0131nda payla\u015f\u0131lan pek \u00e7ok s\u00f6z\u00fc, bireylerin hayata daha yap\u0131c\u0131 ve umutlu bir perspektiften bakmas\u0131na katk\u0131 sa\u011flamaktad\u0131r.<\/p>\n

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No Stones, No Belt!<\/a><\/p><\/blockquote>\n