{"id":5694,"date":"2018-10-10T18:36:24","date_gmt":"2018-10-10T18:36:24","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.ozdeyis.net\/?p=5694"},"modified":"2026-01-27T19:04:42","modified_gmt":"2026-01-27T19:04:42","slug":"yasam-sana-ne-getirirse-kabul-et-ama-kimsenin-hakkini-ve-ozgurlugunu-almasina-izin-verme-osho-3","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/e-motivasyon.net\/en\/yasam-sana-ne-getirirse-kabul-et-ama-kimsenin-hakkini-ve-ozgurlugunu-almasina-izin-verme-osho-3.html","title":{"rendered":"\u201cAccept whatever life throws at you\u2026 But don't let anyone take away your rights and freedom!\u201d Osho"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u201cAccept whatever life throws at you\u2026 But don't let anyone take away your rights and freedom!\u201d Osho<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

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\u201cYa\u015fam sana ne getirirse kabul et\u2026 Ama kimsenin hakk\u0131n\u0131 ve \u00f6zg\u00fcrl\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fc almas\u0131na izin verme!\u201d s\u00f6z\u00fcyle Osho<\/strong>, s\u0131k\u00e7a kar\u0131\u015ft\u0131r\u0131lan iki kavram\u0131 net bir bi\u00e7imde ay\u0131r\u0131r: kabullenme<\/strong> . boyun e\u011fme<\/strong>. Hayat\u0131 oldu\u011fu gibi kabul etmek; ba\u015f\u0131m\u0131za gelenleri ink\u00e2r etmeden, diren\u00e7 \u00fcretmeden g\u00f6rmek demektir. Ancak bu duru\u015f, pasifle\u015fmek ya da s\u0131n\u0131rlar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n ihlal edilmesine raz\u0131 olmak anlam\u0131na gelmez. Osho\u2019nun alt\u0131n\u0131 \u00e7izdi\u011fi \u015fey \u015fudur: Hayat\u0131 kabul edebiliriz ama kendimizden vazge\u00e7emeyiz.<\/strong> Ger\u00e7ek olgunluk, d\u0131\u015f ko\u015fullara a\u00e7\u0131k olurken i\u00e7sel \u00f6zg\u00fcrl\u00fc\u011f\u00fc koruyabilmektir.<\/p>\n

Bu s\u00f6zden ilhamla g\u00fcnl\u00fck hayatta uygulanabilecek pratik bir \u00f6neri: \u201cS\u0131n\u0131r fark\u0131ndal\u0131\u011f\u0131\u201d egzersizi.<\/strong> G\u00fcn i\u00e7inde sizi zorlayan bir durumu d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcn ve kendinize \u015fu iki soruyu sorun: \u201cBu durum benden neyi kabul etmemi istiyor?\u201d ve \u201cBu noktada benim s\u0131n\u0131r\u0131m nerede ba\u015fl\u0131yor?\u201d Kabul edilmesi gereken \u015fey, \u00e7o\u011fu zaman olay\u0131n kendisidir; kabul edilmemesi gereken ise sayg\u0131s\u0131zl\u0131k, bask\u0131 ya da hak ihlali<\/strong>dir. Bu fark\u0131 netle\u015ftirdi\u011finizde, daha sakin ama daha g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc tepkiler vermeye ba\u015flars\u0131n\u0131z. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc s\u0131n\u0131r, \u00e7at\u0131\u015fma de\u011fil; \u00f6z sayg\u0131n\u0131n ifadesidir.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u00d6rne\u011fin; i\u015f hayat\u0131nda ya\u015fanan bir zorlu\u011fu olgunlukla kar\u015f\u0131layabilirsiniz ama eme\u011finizin g\u00f6rmezden gelinmesine sessiz kalmak zorunda de\u011filsiniz. \u0130li\u015fkilerde anlay\u0131\u015f g\u00f6sterebilirsiniz ama kendi de\u011ferlerinizin \u00e7i\u011fnenmesine izin vermek zorunda de\u011filsiniz. Osho\u2019nun bu s\u00f6zde hat\u0131rlatt\u0131\u011f\u0131 temel denge \u015fudur: Hayat\u0131n ak\u0131\u015f\u0131n\u0131 kabul ederken, kendi hak ve \u00f6zg\u00fcrl\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fcz\u00fc korumak sizin sorumlulu\u011funuzdur.<\/em><\/strong> Kabullenmek g\u00fc\u00e7s\u00fczl\u00fck de\u011fil; s\u0131n\u0131r koyabilmek, ger\u00e7ek i\u00e7sel g\u00fcc\u00fcn g\u00f6stergesidir.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

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Osho Kimdir?<\/h3>\n

Osho<\/strong> (1931\u20131990), Hindistan do\u011fumlu spirit\u00fcel \u00f6\u011fretmen, d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcr ve yazard\u0131r. \u00d6\u011fretilerinin merkezinde fark\u0131ndal\u0131k, \u00f6zg\u00fcrl\u00fck, bireysel sorumluluk, meditasyon ve bilin\u00e7li ya\u015fam<\/strong> yer al\u0131r. Osho, insan\u0131n hayata direnmeden ama kendini de yok saymadan ya\u015fayabilmesini savunur. Ona g\u00f6re ger\u00e7ek \u00f6zg\u00fcrl\u00fck, d\u0131\u015f ko\u015fullardan \u00e7ok ki\u015finin kendi i\u00e7 d\u00fcnyas\u0131nda kurdu\u011fu bilin\u00e7 ve s\u0131n\u0131rlarla<\/strong> ilgilidir. Bug\u00fcn h\u00e2l\u00e2 s\u00f6zleri ve kitaplar\u0131, ki\u015fisel geli\u015fim ve i\u00e7sel d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015f\u00fcm alan\u0131nda g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc bir ilham kayna\u011f\u0131 olmaya devam etmektedir.<\/p>\n

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Ways to Gain Self Confidence<\/a><\/p><\/blockquote>\n