{"id":5413,"date":"2014-11-28T13:05:35","date_gmt":"2014-11-28T11:05:35","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.ozdeyis.net\/?p=5413"},"modified":"2026-03-02T18:26:44","modified_gmt":"2026-03-02T18:26:44","slug":"kimse-gecmisini-geri-satin-alabilecek-kadar-zengin-degildir-oscar-wilde","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/e-motivasyon.net\/en\/kimse-gecmisini-geri-satin-alabilecek-kadar-zengin-degildir-oscar-wilde.html","title":{"rendered":"\u201cNo one is rich enough to buy back their past.\u201d Oscar Wilde"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u201cNo one is rich enough to buy back their past.\u201d Oscar Wilde<\/strong><\/em><\/h3>\n

\""Tepki<\/a><\/p>\n

Oscar Wilde<\/span><\/span>\u2019\u0131n \u201cKimse ge\u00e7mi\u015fini geri sat\u0131n alabilecek kadar zengin de\u011fildir.\u201d<\/em> s\u00f6z\u00fc, insan\u0131n zaman kar\u015f\u0131s\u0131ndaki en b\u00fcy\u00fck ger\u00e7e\u011fini sade ama \u00e7arp\u0131c\u0131 bir \u015fekilde ortaya koyar. Hayatta para, stat\u00fc ya da ba\u015far\u0131 bir\u00e7ok \u015feyi de\u011fi\u015ftirebilir; ancak ge\u00e7mi\u015fte s\u00f6ylenen bir s\u00f6z, ka\u00e7\u0131r\u0131lan bir f\u0131rsat ya da yap\u0131lmayan bir se\u00e7im geri getirilemez. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc zaman, sahip olunabilecek bir \u015fey de\u011fil; yaln\u0131zca ya\u015fanabilecek bir s\u00fcre\u00e7tir. Wilde burada bize \u015funu hat\u0131rlat\u0131r: Pi\u015fmanl\u0131klar genellikle yanl\u0131\u015f se\u00e7imlerden de\u011fil, ertelenmi\u015f cesaretlerden do\u011far.<\/strong> Ge\u00e7mi\u015fi de\u011fi\u015ftiremeyiz ama onunla kurdu\u011fumuz ili\u015fkiyi de\u011fi\u015ftirebiliriz. Bu s\u00f6z, ki\u015fisel geli\u015fim ve fark\u0131ndal\u0131k a\u00e7\u0131s\u0131ndan g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc bir \u00e7a\u011fr\u0131d\u0131r: Enerjimizi geri d\u00f6nmeyen d\u00fcnlere de\u011fil, \u015fekillendirebilece\u011fimiz bug\u00fcne y\u00f6neltmek.<\/p>\n

Bu s\u00f6zden ilhamla g\u00fcnl\u00fck hayatta uygulayabilece\u011fimiz pratik \u00f6neri \u015fudur: \u201cBug\u00fcn Telafi G\u00fcn\u00fc\u201d al\u0131\u015fkanl\u0131\u011f\u0131 olu\u015fturun.<\/strong> Her g\u00fcn\u00fcn sonunda kendinize yaln\u0131zca tek bir soru sorun: \u201cBug\u00fcn yar\u0131n pi\u015fman olmayaca\u011f\u0131m ne yapt\u0131m?\u201d Bu k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck fark\u0131ndal\u0131k egzersizi, kararlar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 bilin\u00e7li hale getirir. Erteledi\u011finiz bir \u00f6zr\u00fc dilemek, uzun zamand\u0131r aramad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z birini aramak ya da s\u00fcrekli erteledi\u011finiz k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck bir ad\u0131m\u0131 atmak\u2026 Bunlar\u0131n her biri gelecekte olu\u015fabilecek pi\u015fmanl\u0131klar\u0131n \u00f6n\u00fcne ge\u00e7er. Ge\u00e7mi\u015fi de\u011fi\u015ftiremeyiz ama gelece\u011fin ge\u00e7mi\u015fini bug\u00fcn yazabiliriz.<\/strong> \u0130\u015fte Oscar Wilde\u2019\u0131n s\u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fcn g\u00fcnl\u00fck ya\u015fama d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015fm\u00fc\u015f hali tam olarak budur.<\/p>\n

Hayat\u0131n i\u00e7inde bunu s\u0131k\u00e7a g\u00f6r\u00fcr\u00fcz. Y\u0131llarca \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131p maddi ba\u015far\u0131 elde eden ama \u00e7ocuklu\u011funu ka\u00e7\u0131rd\u0131\u011f\u0131 i\u00e7in \u00fczg\u00fcn bir ebeveyn, s\u00f6yleyemedi\u011fi duygular\u0131n a\u011f\u0131rl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 ta\u015f\u0131yan bir dost ya da \u201cke\u015fke deneseydim\u201d diyen bir insan\u2026 Hepsinin ortak noktas\u0131 ayn\u0131d\u0131r: Zaman\u0131n geri sat\u0131n al\u0131namaz olu\u015fu. Oysa bilin\u00e7li ya\u015famak, kusursuz kararlar almak de\u011fil; fark\u0131nda kararlar almakt\u0131r. Bug\u00fcn at\u0131lan k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck ama samimi bir ad\u0131m, yar\u0131n\u0131n en b\u00fcy\u00fck huzuruna d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015febilir. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc ger\u00e7ek zenginlik, ge\u00e7mi\u015fi geri almak de\u011fil; bug\u00fcn\u00fc \u00f6yle ya\u015famakt\u0131r ki yar\u0131n geriye bakt\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131zda i\u00e7inizde eksik bir c\u00fcmle kalmas\u0131n.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

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Oscar Wilde Kimdir?<\/strong><\/h3>\n

Oscar Wilde (1854-1900) \u0130rlandal\u0131 yazar, \u015fair ve oyun yazar\u0131d\u0131r. Viktorya d\u00f6neminin en parlak edebiyat fig\u00fcrlerinden biri olarak kabul edilir. Keskin zek\u00e2s\u0131, ironik \u00fcslubu ve insan do\u011fas\u0131na dair derin g\u00f6zlemleriyle tan\u0131nan Wilde, Dorian Gray\u2019in Portresi<\/em> adl\u0131 roman\u0131 ve sahne oyunlar\u0131yla edebiyat tarihinde kal\u0131c\u0131 bir iz b\u0131rakm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. Toplumsal normlara y\u00f6nelik ele\u015ftirel bak\u0131\u015f\u0131 ve aforizmalar\u0131yla h\u00e2l\u00e2 ki\u015fisel geli\u015fim, sanat ve ya\u015fam felsefesi \u00fczerine yap\u0131lan tart\u0131\u015fmalarda s\u0131k\u00e7a an\u0131lmaktad\u0131r.<\/p>\n

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\u0130nsanlara Dair \u00d6zl\u00fc S\u00f6zler ve \u00d6zdeyi\u015fler<\/a><\/p><\/blockquote>\n