{"id":4964,"date":"2014-11-16T20:37:47","date_gmt":"2014-11-16T18:37:47","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.ozdeyis.net\/?p=4964"},"modified":"2026-05-03T07:52:12","modified_gmt":"2026-05-03T07:52:12","slug":"yuzde-israr-etme-doksan-da-olur-insan-dediginde-noksan-da-olur-sakin-buyuklenme-elde-neler-var-bir-ben-varim-deme-yoksan-da-olur-hatasiz-dost-arayan-dosttan-da-olur","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/e-motivasyon.net\/en\/yuzde-israr-etme-doksan-da-olur-insan-dediginde-noksan-da-olur-sakin-buyuklenme-elde-neler-var-bir-ben-varim-deme-yoksan-da-olur-hatasiz-dost-arayan-dosttan-da-olur.html","title":{"rendered":"\u201cDon't insist on one percent, it's okay with ninety. When people said, it would be incomplete. Don't be arrogant, what do you have in hand? There is also a friend who seeks a faultless friend.\u201d Mevlana"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u201cDon't insist on one percent, it's okay with ninety. When people said, it would be incomplete. Don't be arrogant, what do you have in hand? There is also a friend who seeks a faultless friend.\u201d Mevlana<\/strong><\/em><\/h3>\n

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Mevlana<\/span><\/span>, insan\u0131n kusurlu do\u011fas\u0131n\u0131 kabullenmeye ve tevazuya davet eder. Bu s\u00f6z, hem ili\u015fkiler hem de ki\u015fisel geli\u015fim a\u00e7\u0131s\u0131ndan derin bir bilgelik ta\u015f\u0131r. M\u00fckemmeliyet\u00e7ilik \u00e7o\u011fu zaman bizi hem kendimize hem de ba\u015fkalar\u0131na kar\u015f\u0131 ac\u0131mas\u0131z yapar. Oysa ger\u00e7ek olgunluk, insan\u0131n eksikli\u011fiyle insan oldu\u011funu kabul etmekten<\/strong> ge\u00e7er. Mevlana burada bize \u015funu hat\u0131rlat\u0131r: Hayat y\u00fczde y\u00fczl\u00fck performanslardan de\u011fil, samimi \u00e7abalardan olu\u015fur. Kusursuz dost ararsak yaln\u0131z kal\u0131r\u0131z; kusursuz olmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131rken de kendimizi yorar\u0131z. Motivasyon, m\u00fckemmel olma bask\u0131s\u0131ndan de\u011fil; insani olma cesaretinden do\u011far.<\/p>\n

Bu s\u00f6zden ilhamla g\u00fcnl\u00fck hayatta uygulayabilece\u011fimiz g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc bir pratik \u00f6neri \u015fudur: Bir ili\u015fkide ya da bir projede beklentinizi bilin\u00e7li olarak y\u00fczde y\u00fczden y\u00fczde dokuza indirin. Kendinize ve kar\u015f\u0131n\u0131zdakine \u015fu c\u00fcmleyi kurun: \u201cEksik olabiliriz ama de\u011ferliyiz.\u201d \u00d6rne\u011fin bir ekip \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmas\u0131nda herkesin hatas\u0131z olmas\u0131n\u0131 beklemek yerine, g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc y\u00f6nleri g\u00f6r\u00fcn ve geli\u015fime a\u00e7\u0131k alanlar\u0131 birlikte konu\u015fun. M\u00fckemmellik aray\u0131\u015f\u0131 yerine ilerleme odakl\u0131 olmak<\/strong>, hem stresi azalt\u0131r hem de ba\u011flar\u0131 g\u00fc\u00e7lendirir. Ki\u015fisel geli\u015fim s\u00fcrecinde de ayn\u0131 yakla\u015f\u0131m ge\u00e7erlidir: K\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck ama istikrarl\u0131 ad\u0131mlar, kusursuz ama ertelenmi\u015f planlardan daha de\u011ferlidir.<\/p>\n

Diyelim ki bir dostunuz sizi hayal k\u0131r\u0131kl\u0131\u011f\u0131na u\u011fratt\u0131. \u0130lk tepkiniz uzakla\u015fmak olabilir. Ama durup d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnelim: Siz hi\u00e7 hata yapmad\u0131n\u0131z m\u0131? Hi\u00e7 eksik kalmad\u0131n\u0131z m\u0131? \u0130li\u015fkiler, kusursuzluk s\u00f6zle\u015fmesi de\u011fil; anlay\u0131\u015f ve b\u00fcy\u00fcme alan\u0131d\u0131r. Biz \u00e7o\u011fu zaman y\u00fczde y\u00fczl\u00fck insanlar arar\u0131z, oysa hayat doksanlarla g\u00fczeldir. \u0130nsan\u0131 insan yapan kusurlar\u0131d\u0131r; ger\u00e7ek dostluk ve ger\u00e7ek geli\u015fim, bu kusurlarla birlikte y\u00fcr\u00fcyebilmektir.<\/strong><\/em> \u0130\u015fte Mevlana\u2019n\u0131n \u00f6\u011fretti\u011fi tevazu ve bilgelik tam da burada ba\u015flar.<\/p>\n

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Mevlana Kimdir?<\/h3>\n

Mevl\u00e2n\u00e2 Cel\u00e2ledd\u00een-i R\u00fbm\u00ee, 13. y\u00fczy\u0131lda ya\u015fam\u0131\u015f b\u00fcy\u00fck bir mutasavv\u0131f, \u015fair ve d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcrd\u00fcr. Sevgi, ho\u015fg\u00f6r\u00fc, insan\u0131n kendini bilmesi ve d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015f\u00fcm temalar\u0131 etraf\u0131nda \u015fekillenen eserleriyle yaln\u0131zca \u0130slam d\u00fcnyas\u0131n\u0131 de\u011fil, t\u00fcm insanl\u0131\u011f\u0131 etkilemi\u015ftir. En bilinen eseri\u00a0Mesnev\u00ee<\/strong>, insan\u0131n i\u00e7 yolculu\u011funu ve olgunla\u015fma s\u00fcrecini derin metaforlarla anlat\u0131r. Mevl\u00e2n\u00e2\u2019n\u0131n s\u00f6zleri, y\u00fczy\u0131llar ge\u00e7se de harekete ge\u00e7iren, umut a\u015f\u0131layan ve sorumluluk alan bir ya\u015fam felsefesini canl\u0131 tutmaya devam eder.<\/p>\n

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Quotations on Science and Wisdom<\/a><\/p><\/blockquote>\n