{"id":4872,"date":"2019-03-24T10:50:10","date_gmt":"2019-03-24T10:50:10","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.ozdeyis.net\/?p=4872"},"modified":"2026-08-27T21:21:39","modified_gmt":"2026-08-27T21:21:39","slug":"duzenim-bozulur-hayatim-alt-ust-olur-diye-endise-etme-nereden-biliyorsun-hayatin-altinin-ustunden-daha-iyi-olmayacagini-sems-tebrizi","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/e-motivasyon.net\/en\/duzenim-bozulur-hayatim-alt-ust-olur-diye-endise-etme-nereden-biliyorsun-hayatin-altinin-ustunden-daha-iyi-olmayacagini-sems-tebrizi.html","title":{"rendered":"\u201cDon't worry about my order being broken, my life being turned upside down. How do you know that is better than gold over the life?" Shams Tabrizi"},"content":{"rendered":"

“D\u00fczenim bozulur, hayat\u0131m alt \u00fcst olur diye endi\u015fe etme. Nereden biliyorsun hayat\u0131n alt\u0131n\u0131n \u00fcst\u00fcnden daha iyi olmayaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131?” Shams Tabrizi<\/span><\/strong><\/em><\/span><\/h3>\n

Bazen hayat\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n d\u00fczeninin bozulmas\u0131ndan \u00f6ylesine korkar\u0131z ki, al\u0131\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z hayat\u0131 iyi oldu\u011fu i\u00e7in de\u011fil, bildi\u011fimiz i\u00e7in koruruz.<\/strong> Oysa \u015eems-i Tebrizi\u2019nin \u201cD\u00fczenim bozulur, hayat\u0131m alt \u00fcst olur diye endi\u015fe etme. Nereden biliyorsun hayat\u0131n alt\u0131n\u0131n \u00fcst\u00fcnden daha iyi olmayaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131?\u201d s\u00f6z\u00fc, de\u011fi\u015fime bak\u0131\u015f\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 sorgulamam\u0131z\u0131 ister. Yeni bir ba\u015flang\u0131\u00e7, bir i\u015f de\u011fi\u015fikli\u011fi, biten bir ili\u015fki ya da hi\u00e7 planlamad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z bir d\u00f6neme\u00e7 ilk anda hayat\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 alt\u00fcst etmi\u015f gibi g\u00f6r\u00fcnebilir. Fakat bazen eski d\u00fczenimiz, geli\u015fimimizin \u00f6n\u00fcndeki en b\u00fcy\u00fck engeldir. Hayat\u0131n bildi\u011fimiz taraf\u0131 g\u00fcvenli g\u00f6r\u00fcn\u00fcrken, bilmedi\u011fimiz taraf\u0131 potansiyelimizle bulu\u015faca\u011f\u0131m\u0131z yer olabilir.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Bu s\u00f6zden ilham alarak g\u00fcnl\u00fck ya\u015famda uygulayabilece\u011fimiz pratik bir \u00f6neri, hayat\u0131m\u0131zdaki k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck bir de\u011fi\u015fikli\u011fe bilin\u00e7li olarak izin vermektir. Bunun i\u00e7in bug\u00fcn kendinize \u015fu soruyu sorun: \u201cHayat\u0131mda de\u011fi\u015fmesinden korktu\u011fum \u015fey ger\u00e7ekten k\u00f6t\u00fc m\u00fc, yoksa sadece al\u0131\u015f\u0131k oldu\u011fum i\u00e7in mi vazge\u00e7ilmez g\u00f6r\u00fcn\u00fcyor?\u201d<\/strong> Ard\u0131ndan uzun zamand\u0131r erteledi\u011finiz k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck bir de\u011fi\u015fikli\u011fi hayata ge\u00e7irin. \u00c7al\u0131\u015fma rutininizi de\u011fi\u015ftirmek, yeni bir beceri \u00f6\u011frenmeye ba\u015flamak, farkl\u0131 insanlarla tan\u0131\u015fmak veya s\u00fcrekli erteledi\u011finiz bir karar\u0131 yeniden de\u011ferlendirmek bile zihnimizde yeni pencereler a\u00e7abilir. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc de\u011fi\u015fim her zaman b\u00fcy\u00fck ve sars\u0131c\u0131 olmak zorunda de\u011fildir; k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck bir ad\u0131m bile zihnimizdeki \u201cba\u015fka t\u00fcrl\u00fc olabilir\u201d ihtimalini g\u00fc\u00e7lendirebilir.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u00d6rne\u011fin y\u0131llarca ayn\u0131 i\u015fte \u00e7al\u0131\u015fan birinin, kendisini art\u0131k geli\u015ftirmedi\u011fini fark etti\u011fini d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnelim. \u0130\u015fini kaybetme veya d\u00fczenini bozma korkusuyla hi\u00e7bir \u015fey yapmazsa, g\u00fcvenli g\u00f6r\u00fcnen hayat\u0131n\u0131n i\u00e7inde yava\u015f yava\u015f kendisinden uzakla\u015fabilir. Oysa yeni bir e\u011fitim al\u0131p farkl\u0131 bir alana y\u00f6nelmeyi denedi\u011finde \u00f6nce belirsizlik ya\u015fayabilir; fakat zamanla y\u0131llard\u0131r kullanmad\u0131\u011f\u0131 yeteneklerini ke\u015ffedebilir, yeni insanlarla tan\u0131\u015fabilir ve kendisine daha uygun bir ya\u015fam kurabilir. Belki hayat\u0131 ger\u00e7ekten \u201calt\u00fcst\u201d olmu\u015ftur; fakat bu kez par\u00e7alar, daha anlaml\u0131 bir b\u00fct\u00fcn olu\u015fturmak \u00fczere yeniden bir araya gelmi\u015ftir. Bazen hayat\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n alt\u0131n\u0131n \u00fcst\u00fcnden daha iyi olmas\u0131n\u0131n nedeni, de\u011fi\u015fimin bizi kaybettirmesi de\u011fil; kendimize yeniden ula\u015fmam\u0131z\u0131 sa\u011flamas\u0131d\u0131r.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

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\u015eems-i Tebrizi Kimdir?<\/h3>\n

\u015eems-i Tebrizi (1185-1248) \u0130ranl\u0131 mutasavv\u0131f, d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcr ve gezgin dervi\u015ftir. Tasavvuf tarihinin en etkileyici isimlerinden biri olan \u015eems-i Tebrizi, \u00f6zellikle Mevl\u00e2n\u00e2 Cel\u00e2ledd\u00een-i R\u00fbm\u00ee ile kurdu\u011fu derin manevi dostluk sayesinde tan\u0131nm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. Mevl\u00e2n\u00e2\u2019n\u0131n d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnce d\u00fcnyas\u0131nda b\u00fcy\u00fck bir d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015f\u00fcm ya\u015famas\u0131na vesile olmu\u015f, sevgi, tevazu, hakikat, insan\u0131n i\u00e7sel yolculu\u011fu ve ilahi a\u015fk \u00fczerine geli\u015ftirdi\u011fi fikirlerle y\u00fczy\u0131llard\u0131r insanlara ilham vermi\u015ftir. \u015eems-i Tebrizi\u2019nin s\u00f6zleri ve \u00f6\u011fretileri, g\u00fcn\u00fcm\u00fczde de ki\u015fisel geli\u015fim, insan ili\u015fkileri ve manevi olgunluk \u00fczerine en \u00e7ok ba\u015fvurulan kaynaklar aras\u0131nda yer almaktad\u0131r.<\/p>\n

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\u015eems-i Tebrizi’nin T\u00fcm S\u00f6zleri<\/strong><\/a><\/span><\/p>\n

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\u201cThis is life, once you see, everything comes to an end. This is life, the moment you say the last thing, everything comes to life again.\u201d Shams Tabrizi<\/a><\/p><\/blockquote>\n