{"id":4524,"date":"2014-11-10T21:22:21","date_gmt":"2014-11-10T19:22:21","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.ozdeyis.net\/?p=4524"},"modified":"2026-03-06T19:48:07","modified_gmt":"2026-03-06T19:48:07","slug":"cebiniz-delikse-onu-para-ile-doldurmanin-bir-yarari-yoktur-george-eliot","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/e-motivasyon.net\/en\/cebiniz-delikse-onu-para-ile-doldurmanin-bir-yarari-yoktur-george-eliot.html","title":{"rendered":"\u201cIf you have a hole in your pocket, it's no use filling it with money.\u201d George Eliot"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u201cIf you have a hole in your pocket, it's no use filling it with money.\u201d George Eliot<\/strong><\/em><\/h3>\n

\""Cebiniz<\/a><\/p>\n

\u201cCebiniz delikse, onu para ile doldurman\u0131n bir yarar\u0131 yoktur.\u201d diyen George Eliot<\/span><\/span> asl\u0131nda hayat\u0131n \u00e7ok temel bir ger\u00e7e\u011fine i\u015faret eder: Sorunun kayna\u011f\u0131 \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fclmeden yap\u0131lan her m\u00fcdahale ge\u00e7ici kal\u0131r. \u0130nsanlar \u00e7o\u011fu zaman eksiklerini d\u0131\u015far\u0131dan gelen \u015feylerle kapatmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131r; daha fazla para, daha fazla e\u015fya, daha fazla f\u0131rsat\u2026 Ancak e\u011fer al\u0131\u015fkanl\u0131klar\u0131m\u0131z, d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnce bi\u00e7imimiz veya davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131m\u0131z \u2018delik bir cep\u2019 gibiyse<\/strong>, ne kadar kazan\u0131rsak kazanal\u0131m sonu\u00e7 de\u011fi\u015fmez. Bu s\u00f6z yaln\u0131zca para y\u00f6netimiyle ilgili de\u011fildir; ayn\u0131 zamanda karakter, disiplin ve fark\u0131ndal\u0131kla da ilgilidir. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc ger\u00e7ek de\u011fi\u015fim, d\u0131\u015far\u0131dan eklemekle de\u011fil, i\u00e7erideki s\u0131z\u0131nt\u0131y\u0131 fark edip onu onarmakla<\/strong> ba\u015flar.<\/p>\n

Bu d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnceden hareketle g\u00fcnl\u00fck hayat\u0131m\u0131zda uygulayabilece\u011fimiz basit ama g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc bir \u00f6neri var: \u201cS\u0131z\u0131nt\u0131y\u0131 bul\u201d al\u0131\u015fkanl\u0131\u011f\u0131.<\/strong> Kendinize \u015fu soruyu sorun: \u201cHayat\u0131mda s\u00fcrekli kaybolan \u015fey ne?\u201d Para m\u0131, zaman m\u0131, enerji mi, motivasyon mu? Ard\u0131ndan bunun nedenini d\u00fcr\u00fcst\u00e7e inceleyin. \u00d6rne\u011fin s\u00fcrekli para biriktiremiyorsan\u0131z mesele kazanc\u0131n az olmas\u0131 de\u011fil, harcama al\u0131\u015fkanl\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131z olabilir. Zaman bulam\u0131yorsan\u0131z mesele yo\u011funluk de\u011fil, \u00f6nceliklerin net olmamas\u0131 olabilir. Sorunun kayna\u011f\u0131n\u0131 fark etmek, \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fcm\u00fcn yar\u0131s\u0131d\u0131r.<\/strong> \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc delik kapat\u0131lmadan yap\u0131lan her yeni ekleme ayn\u0131 sonucu do\u011furur: kay\u0131p.<\/p>\n

Bunu basit bir \u00f6rnekle d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnelim. Diyelim ki biri maa\u015f\u0131 artt\u0131k\u00e7a daha rahat ya\u015fayaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcyor; fakat harcama al\u0131\u015fkanl\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131 de\u011fi\u015ftirmedi\u011fi i\u00e7in gelir artt\u0131k\u00e7a gider de art\u0131yor. Sonu\u00e7ta para yine yetmiyor. \u0130\u015fte burada sorun para de\u011fil, \u201cdelik cep\u201dtir. Ayn\u0131 \u015fey ili\u015fkilerde, i\u015f hayat\u0131nda ve ki\u015fisel geli\u015fimde de ge\u00e7erlidir. E\u011fer davran\u0131\u015f kal\u0131plar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 g\u00f6zden ge\u00e7irmezsek, ayn\u0131 sorunlar farkl\u0131 \u015fekillerde tekrar eder. Bu y\u00fczden George Eliot<\/span><\/span>\u2019un s\u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fcn \u00f6z\u00fc \u015fudur: Ger\u00e7ek \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fcm, hayat\u0131m\u0131za daha fazlas\u0131n\u0131 eklemek de\u011fil; kaybettiren al\u0131\u015fkanl\u0131klar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 fark edip onlar\u0131 de\u011fi\u015ftirmektir.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

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George Eliot Kimdir?<\/strong><\/h3>\n

George Eliot<\/span><\/span> (1819-1880) \u0130ngiliz romanc\u0131, \u015fair ve gazetecidir. As\u0131l ad\u0131 Mary Ann Evans\u2019t\u0131r ve eserlerini d\u00f6nemin toplumsal \u00f6nyarg\u0131lar\u0131 nedeniyle erkek takma ad\u0131yla yay\u0131mlam\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. 19. y\u00fczy\u0131l \u0130ngiliz edebiyat\u0131n\u0131n en \u00f6nemli realist yazarlar\u0131ndan biri olarak kabul edilir. Middlemarch<\/em>, Silas Marner<\/em> . The Mill on the Floss<\/em> gibi eserlerinde insan psikolojisini, toplumsal ili\u015fkileri ve ahlaki se\u00e7imleri derin bir g\u00f6zlemle ele alm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. George Eliot\u2019un yaz\u0131lar\u0131, insan do\u011fas\u0131n\u0131 anlamaya y\u00f6nelik g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc analizleri ve felsefi derinli\u011fiyle edebiyat tarihinde \u00f6nemli bir yer tutar.<\/p>\n

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Zenginlik ve Para \u0130le \u0130lgili \u00d6zl\u00fc S\u00f6zler<\/a><\/p><\/blockquote>\n