{"id":44706,"date":"2022-07-07T21:15:13","date_gmt":"2022-07-07T21:15:13","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/e-motivasyon.net\/?p=44706"},"modified":"2026-01-30T22:19:07","modified_gmt":"2026-01-30T22:19:07","slug":"aptallarin-kavgaciligina-karsi-sabirli-olun-anlamadigini-anlamak-kolay-degildir","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/e-motivasyon.net\/en\/aptallarin-kavgaciligina-karsi-sabirli-olun-anlamadigini-anlamak-kolay-degildir.html","title":{"rendered":"\u201cBe patient with the quarrelsomeness of fools. It is not easy to understand what you do not understand.\u201d Marie von Ebner Eschenbach"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u201cBe patient with the quarrelsomeness of fools. It is not easy to understand what you do not understand.\u201d Marie von Ebner Eschenbach<\/strong><\/em><\/span><\/h3>\n

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Marie von Ebner Eschenbach, asl\u0131nda insan ili\u015fkilerinin en zor ama en ger\u00e7ek taraf\u0131na i\u015faret eder. Herkesin ayn\u0131 kavray\u0131\u015f d\u00fczeyinde olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 kabul etmek kolay de\u011fildir; hele ki kar\u015f\u0131m\u0131zdaki ki\u015fi anlamad\u0131\u011f\u0131 \u015feyi savunmaya ba\u015flad\u0131\u011f\u0131nda\u2026 \u00c7o\u011fu tart\u0131\u015fma bilgi eksikli\u011finden de\u011fil, fark\u0131ndal\u0131k eksikli\u011finden<\/strong> do\u011far. \u0130nsan bazen bilmedi\u011fini bilir; bazen ise anlamad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 bile anlamaz<\/strong>. \u0130\u015fte bu noktada \u00f6fke y\u00fckselir, sesler sertle\u015fir ve ileti\u015fim yerini \u00e7at\u0131\u015fmaya b\u0131rak\u0131r.<\/p>\n

Bu s\u00f6zden ilhamla g\u00fcnl\u00fck hayatta uygulanabilecek pratik bir \u00f6neri \u015fudur: Tart\u0131\u015fma k\u0131z\u0131\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131nda kendinize \u015fu soruyu sorun: \u201cBen bu ki\u015fiyi ikna etmeye mi \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131yorum, yoksa sakin kalmay\u0131 m\u0131 se\u00e7iyorum?\u201d<\/strong> Her tart\u0131\u015fma kazan\u0131lmas\u0131 gereken bir sava\u015f de\u011fildir. Bazen en g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc hamle, geri \u00e7ekilmek ve sabr\u0131 se\u00e7mektir. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc biz sakin kald\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131zda, kar\u015f\u0131m\u0131zdaki ki\u015finin kavgac\u0131 tavr\u0131 da anlam\u0131n\u0131 yitirmeye ba\u015flar. Sab\u0131r, zay\u0131fl\u0131k de\u011fil; bilin\u00e7li bir g\u00fc\u00e7t\u00fcr<\/strong>.<\/p>\n

G\u00fcnl\u00fck hayatta bunu s\u0131k\u00e7a g\u00f6r\u00fcr\u00fcz: Ayn\u0131 konuyu defalarca anlatmam\u0131za ra\u011fmen h\u00e2l\u00e2 anla\u015f\u0131lmad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z anlar olur. O noktada \u0131srar etmek \u00e7o\u011fu zaman sadece y\u0131prat\u0131r. Marie von Ebner Eschenbach\u2019in bu s\u00f6z\u00fc bize \u015funu hat\u0131rlat\u0131r: Herkesle her \u015feyi konu\u015fmak zorunda de\u011filiz.<\/strong> Baz\u0131 insanlar i\u00e7in en b\u00fcy\u00fck engel, bilgi de\u011fil fark\u0131ndal\u0131kt\u0131r. Ger\u00e7ek olgunluk, her sava\u015fa girmemekte; baz\u0131 kavgalar\u0131 ba\u015ftan kazanmaktan ge\u00e7er.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

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Marie von Ebner Eschenbach Kimdir?<\/h3>\n

Marie von Ebner Eschenbach, 19. y\u00fczy\u0131lda ya\u015fam\u0131\u015f Avusturyal\u0131 bir yazar ve d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcrd\u00fcr. \u0130nsan do\u011fas\u0131, ahlak, sab\u0131r ve toplumsal ili\u015fkiler \u00fczerine yazd\u0131\u011f\u0131 derinlikli aforizmalarla tan\u0131n\u0131r. Eserlerinde s\u0131k\u00e7a insan zihninin k\u00f6r noktalar\u0131na<\/strong> ve bireyin kendini kand\u0131rma e\u011filimine dikkat \u00e7eker. S\u00f6z\u00fc edilen bu yakla\u015f\u0131m\u0131, g\u00fcn\u00fcm\u00fczde ki\u015fisel geli\u015fim ve fark\u0131ndal\u0131k alan\u0131nda h\u00e2l\u00e2 g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc bir referans olmay\u0131 s\u00fcrd\u00fcrmektedir.<\/p>\n

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\u0130nsanlara Dair \u00d6zl\u00fc S\u00f6zler ve \u00d6zdeyi\u015fler<\/a><\/p><\/blockquote>\n