{"id":42725,"date":"2021-08-02T09:30:12","date_gmt":"2021-08-02T09:30:12","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/e-motivasyon.net\/?p=42725"},"modified":"2026-03-24T20:02:49","modified_gmt":"2026-03-24T20:02:49","slug":"fakirler-zengin-olmak-zenginler-mutlu-olmak-bekarlar-evlenmek-ve-evliler-ise-olmek-ister-ann-landers","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/e-motivasyon.net\/en\/fakirler-zengin-olmak-zenginler-mutlu-olmak-bekarlar-evlenmek-ve-evliler-ise-olmek-ister-ann-landers.html","title":{"rendered":"\u201cThe poor want to be rich, the rich want to be happy, the single want to get married, and the married want to die.\u201d Ann Landers"},"content":{"rendered":"

“Fakirler zengin olmak, zenginler mutlu olmak, bekarlar evlenmek ve evliler ise \u00f6lmek ister.” Ann Landers<\/strong><\/em><\/span><\/h3>\n

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\u201cFakirler zengin olmak, zenginler mutlu olmak, bekarlar evlenmek ve evliler ise \u00f6lmek ister.\u201d s\u00f6z\u00fc, Ann Landers<\/span><\/span> taraf\u0131ndan insan do\u011fas\u0131n\u0131n bitmeyen aray\u0131\u015f\u0131n\u0131 ironik ama \u00e7arp\u0131c\u0131 bir dille anlat\u0131r. Bu s\u00f6z\u00fcn alt\u0131nda yatan ger\u00e7ek \u015fudur: \u0130nsan \u00e7o\u011fu zaman sahip olduklar\u0131na de\u011fil, sahip olmad\u0131klar\u0131na odaklan\u0131r. Bir hedefe ula\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131zda mutlulu\u011fun gelece\u011fini d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcr\u00fcz; ancak ula\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z anda zihnimiz yeni bir eksiklik \u00fcretir. Mutlulu\u011fu ko\u015fullara ba\u011flayan zihin, bulundu\u011fu hi\u00e7bir noktay\u0131 yeterli g\u00f6rmez.<\/strong> Ann Landers burada asl\u0131nda ya\u015fam\u0131n trajikomik d\u00f6ng\u00fcs\u00fcn\u00fc g\u00f6sterir: \u0130nsan, hayat\u0131n i\u00e7inde de\u011fil, s\u00fcrekli bir sonraki ihtimalde ya\u015famaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131r.<\/p>\n

Bu s\u00f6zden ilhamla g\u00fcnl\u00fck hayatta uygulayabilece\u011fimiz pratik \u00f6neri olduk\u00e7a basittir: \u201c\u015eu an\u0131n de\u011ferini fark etme egzersizi.\u201d G\u00fcn\u00fcn sonunda kendimize sadece \u015fu soruyu soral\u0131m: \u201cBug\u00fcn sahip oldu\u011fum ama \u00e7o\u011fu zaman fark etmedi\u011fim \u00fc\u00e7 \u015fey neydi?\u201d Bu bir ili\u015fki, sa\u011fl\u0131k, huzurlu bir an ya da k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck bir ba\u015far\u0131 olabilir. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc \u015f\u00fckran fark\u0131ndal\u0131\u011f\u0131, zihnin s\u00fcrekli eksik arama al\u0131\u015fkanl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 yava\u015flat\u0131r.<\/strong> Zengin olmay\u0131 beklerken huzuru, evlenmeyi beklerken \u00f6zg\u00fcrl\u00fc\u011f\u00fc ya da ba\u015far\u0131y\u0131 beklerken ya\u015fam\u0131n kendisini ka\u00e7\u0131rmamak i\u00e7in bilin\u00e7li bir duru\u015f geli\u015ftirmemiz gerekir.<\/p>\n

G\u00fcnl\u00fck hayatta bunu a\u00e7\u0131k\u00e7a g\u00f6zlemleriz: \u00dcniversiteye girmek isteyen biri mezun olmay\u0131 hayal eder, mezun olan i\u015f bulmay\u0131 ister, i\u015fe giren tatili bekler; tatilde ise d\u00fczenli hayat\u0131 \u00f6zler. D\u00f6ng\u00fc de\u011fi\u015fmez, sadece sahne de\u011fi\u015fir. Ann Landers\u2019\u0131n mizahi ama d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fcr\u00fcc\u00fc s\u00f6z\u00fc bize \u015funu hat\u0131rlat\u0131r: Hayat, ula\u015fmay\u0131 bekledi\u011fimiz bir nokta de\u011fil, i\u00e7inde bulundu\u011fumuz s\u00fcre\u00e7tir. Ger\u00e7ek doyum, ko\u015fullar de\u011fi\u015fti\u011finde de\u011fil bak\u0131\u015f a\u00e7\u0131s\u0131 de\u011fi\u015fti\u011finde ortaya \u00e7\u0131kar.<\/strong> Mutluluk, sahip olduklar\u0131m\u0131z tamamland\u0131\u011f\u0131nda de\u011fil; sahip olduklar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 fark etmeye ba\u015flad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z anda ba\u015flar.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

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Ann Landers Kimdir?<\/strong><\/h3>\n

Ann Landers (1918-2002) Amerikal\u0131 gazeteci ve k\u00f6\u015fe yazar\u0131 Eppie Lederer\u2019in kulland\u0131\u011f\u0131 takma add\u0131r. Uzun y\u0131llar boyunca gazetelerde yay\u0131mlanan tavsiye k\u00f6\u015fesiyle milyonlarca okuyucuya ili\u015fkiler, evlilik, aile ve g\u00fcnl\u00fck ya\u015fam konular\u0131nda rehberlik etmi\u015ftir. Mizahi ama ger\u00e7ek\u00e7i \u00fcslubuyla insan davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6zlemleyen Landers, modern ya\u015fam\u0131n psikolojik ve sosyal \u00e7eli\u015fkilerini sade bir dille anlatmas\u0131yla tan\u0131n\u0131r.<\/p>\n

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\u0130nsanlara Dair \u00d6zl\u00fc S\u00f6zler ve \u00d6zdeyi\u015fler<\/a><\/p><\/blockquote>\n