{"id":42723,"date":"2021-08-02T09:20:29","date_gmt":"2021-08-02T09:20:29","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/e-motivasyon.net\/?p=42723"},"modified":"2026-02-06T10:38:27","modified_gmt":"2026-02-06T10:38:27","slug":"insanlar-tipki-su-gibi-kendi-seviyelerini-ararlar-ann-landers","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/e-motivasyon.net\/en\/insanlar-tipki-su-gibi-kendi-seviyelerini-ararlar-ann-landers.html","title":{"rendered":"\u201cPeople seek their own level, just like water.\u201d Ann Landers"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u201cPeople seek their own level, just like water.\u201d Ann Landers<\/strong><\/em><\/span><\/h3>\n

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Ann Landers\u2019\u0131n bu \u00e7arp\u0131c\u0131 s\u00f6z\u00fc, insan ili\u015fkilerinin g\u00f6r\u00fcnmeyen ama \u00e7ok g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc bir dinami\u011fine i\u015faret eder. Su nas\u0131l bulundu\u011fu kab\u0131n seviyesine kendili\u011finden uyum sa\u011flarsa, insanlar da zamanla benzer de\u011ferler, benzer bak\u0131\u015f a\u00e7\u0131lar\u0131 ve benzer bilin\u00e7 d\u00fczeyleri<\/strong> olan ki\u015filere y\u00f6nelir. Bu, bilin\u00e7li bir se\u00e7imden \u00e7ok, i\u00e7sel bir \u00e7ekimdir. Hayata bak\u0131\u015f\u0131m\u0131z, konu\u015fma dilimiz, s\u0131n\u0131rlar\u0131m\u0131z ve hayattan beklentilerimiz; kimlerle yak\u0131nla\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z\u0131, kimlerle uzakla\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 belirler. Bu y\u00fczden \u00e7evremizdeki insanlar \u00e7o\u011fu zaman bir tesad\u00fcf de\u011fil, i\u00e7 d\u00fcnyam\u0131z\u0131n sessiz bir yans\u0131mas\u0131d\u0131r<\/strong>.<\/p>\n

Bu s\u00f6zden ilhamla g\u00fcnl\u00fck hayatta uygulanabilecek pratik bir \u00f6neri \u015fudur: Bir hafta boyunca \u00e7evrenizde en \u00e7ok vakit ge\u00e7irdi\u011finiz \u00fc\u00e7 ki\u015fiyi d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcn ve kendinize \u015fu soruyu sorun: \u201cBu insanlar\u0131n hangi \u00f6zellikleri benim hayat\u0131mda normalle\u015fiyor?\u201d<\/strong> \u015eik\u00e2yet mi, \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fcm m\u00fc; geli\u015fim mi, dura\u011fanl\u0131k m\u0131? Buradaki ama\u00e7 kimseyi yarg\u0131lamak de\u011fil, kendi seviyemizi fark etmektir<\/strong>. Biz i\u00e7sel olarak b\u00fcy\u00fcmeye ba\u015flad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131zda, eski ili\u015fkiler ya d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015f\u00fcr ya da yerini yenilerine b\u0131rak\u0131r. Su y\u00fckseldi\u011finde, bulundu\u011fu alan da de\u011fi\u015fir.<\/p>\n

\u00d6rne\u011fin s\u00fcrekli \u00fcretmekten, \u00f6\u011frenmekten ve geli\u015fmekten s\u00f6z eden biriyseniz; bir s\u00fcre sonra yaln\u0131zca \u015fik\u00e2yet eden ortamlarda i\u00e7inizin s\u0131k\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 fark edersiniz. Bu bir kopu\u015f de\u011fil, do\u011fal bir hizalanmad\u0131r. Ann Landers\u2019\u0131n alt\u0131n\u0131 \u00e7izdi\u011fi ger\u00e7ek \u015fudur: Biz \u201cdaha iyisini arad\u0131k\u00e7a\u201d, hayat da bize o seviyeye uygun insanlar\u0131 ve ortamlar\u0131 sunar.<\/em><\/strong> Kendimizi geli\u015ftirmek, asl\u0131nda \u00e7evremizi de sessizce d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015ft\u00fcrmenin en g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc yoludur.<\/p>\n

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Ann Landers Kimdir?<\/strong><\/h3>\n

Ann Landers, asl\u0131nda Esther Pauline Lederer\u2019in kulland\u0131\u011f\u0131 takma add\u0131r. 20. y\u00fczy\u0131l\u0131n en etkili k\u00f6\u015fe yazarlar\u0131ndan biri olan Ann Landers, y\u0131llarca milyonlarca insan\u0131n mektuplar\u0131na verdi\u011fi samimi, net ve d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fcr\u00fcc\u00fc yan\u0131tlarla tan\u0131nm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. \u0130nsan ili\u015fkileri, ahlaki ikilemler, ki\u015fisel geli\u015fim ve toplumsal de\u011ferler \u00fczerine yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131 yorumlar, onu bir t\u00fcr g\u00fcndelik ya\u015fam rehberi<\/strong> haline getirmi\u015ftir. S\u00f6z\u00fc edilen bu yakla\u015f\u0131m\u0131yla Ann Landers, insan do\u011fas\u0131n\u0131 sade ama derin bir bak\u0131\u015f a\u00e7\u0131s\u0131yla anlatmay\u0131 ba\u015farm\u0131\u015f isimlerden biridir.<\/p>\n

\u0130nsanlara Dair \u00d6zl\u00fc S\u00f6zler ve \u00d6zdeyi\u015fler<\/a><\/p><\/blockquote>\n