{"id":42515,"date":"2021-07-07T08:51:03","date_gmt":"2021-07-07T08:51:03","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/e-motivasyon.net\/?p=42515"},"modified":"2026-03-31T15:10:29","modified_gmt":"2026-03-31T15:10:29","slug":"insan-kaderiyle-cogu-zaman-ondan-kacinmak-icin-ciktigi-yolda-karsilasir-jean-de-la-fontaine","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/e-motivasyon.net\/en\/insan-kaderiyle-cogu-zaman-ondan-kacinmak-icin-ciktigi-yolda-karsilasir-jean-de-la-fontaine.html","title":{"rendered":"\u201cMan often meets his destiny on the way to avoid it.\u201d Jean de La Fontaine"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u201cMan often meets his destiny on the way to avoid it.\u201d Jean de La Fontaine<\/strong><\/em><\/span><\/h3>\n

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\u201c\u0130nsan kaderiyle \u00e7o\u011fu zaman, ondan ka\u00e7\u0131nmak i\u00e7in \u00e7\u0131kt\u0131\u011f\u0131 yolda kar\u015f\u0131la\u015f\u0131r.<\/strong>\u201d s\u00f6z\u00fc, Jean de La Fontaine\u2019in insan do\u011fas\u0131na dair yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131 en derin g\u00f6zlemlerden biridir. Bu ifade, kader kavram\u0131n\u0131 gizemli bir yazg\u0131 olarak de\u011fil, \u00e7o\u011fu zaman kendi se\u00e7imlerimizin dolayl\u0131 sonucu olarak ele al\u0131r. Ka\u00e7t\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z \u015feyler asl\u0131nda bizi y\u00f6nlendiren korkular\u0131m\u0131z, bast\u0131rd\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z y\u00f6nlerimiz ya da y\u00fczle\u015fmek istemedi\u011fimiz ger\u00e7ekler olabilir. Hayatta baz\u0131 durumlar\u0131 erteledik\u00e7e ya da g\u00f6rmezden geldik\u00e7e onlar\u0131n farkl\u0131 bi\u00e7imlerde yeniden kar\u015f\u0131m\u0131za \u00e7\u0131kt\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 fark ederiz. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc ka\u00e7\u0131nma davran\u0131\u015f\u0131 sorunu ortadan kald\u0131rmaz; yaln\u0131zca onu ba\u015fka bir sahneye ta\u015f\u0131r.<\/strong> La Fontaine\u2019in bu s\u00f6z\u00fc, insan\u0131n kaderinin d\u0131\u015far\u0131da de\u011fil, \u00e7o\u011fu zaman kendi kararlar\u0131n\u0131n i\u00e7inde \u015fekillendi\u011fini anlatan g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc bir fark\u0131ndal\u0131k \u00e7a\u011fr\u0131s\u0131d\u0131r.<\/p>\n

Bu s\u00f6zden ilham alarak g\u00fcnl\u00fck hayat\u0131m\u0131zda uygulayabilece\u011fimiz pratik \u00f6neri \u015fudur: Ka\u00e7\u0131nd\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z bir konuyu k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck bir ad\u0131mla bilin\u00e7li \u015fekilde ele almak. \u00d6rne\u011fin erteledi\u011finiz bir konu\u015fma, ba\u015flamaktan \u00e7ekindi\u011finiz bir proje ya da y\u00fczle\u015fmek istemedi\u011finiz bir duygu olabilir. Bug\u00fcn yaln\u0131zca ilk ad\u0131m\u0131 atmay\u0131 deneyebiliriz: bir mesaj yazmak, bir plan tasla\u011f\u0131 olu\u015fturmak ya da duygular\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 d\u00fcr\u00fcst\u00e7e not almak. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc kader \u00e7o\u011fu zaman b\u00fcy\u00fck kararlarla de\u011fil, ertelenmi\u015f k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck se\u00e7imlerle \u015fekillenir.<\/strong> Motivasyon ve ki\u015fisel geli\u015fim a\u00e7\u0131s\u0131ndan ger\u00e7ek ilerleme, ka\u00e7\u0131nmay\u0131 b\u0131rak\u0131p sorumluluk almaya ba\u015flad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z noktada ortaya \u00e7\u0131kar.<\/p>\n

D\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcn; topluluk \u00f6n\u00fcnde konu\u015fmaktan korkan biri s\u00fcrekli geri planda kalmay\u0131 se\u00e7ti\u011finde, kariyerinde ilerleyemedi\u011fi i\u00e7in ayn\u0131 hayal k\u0131r\u0131kl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 tekrar tekrar ya\u015fayabilir. Oysa korkusundan ka\u00e7mak yerine k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck bir sunumla ba\u015flamas\u0131, hayat\u0131n\u0131n y\u00f6n\u00fcn\u00fc de\u011fi\u015ftirebilir. B\u00f6ylece kader sand\u0131\u011f\u0131 \u015feyin asl\u0131nda kendi davran\u0131\u015f d\u00f6ng\u00fcs\u00fc oldu\u011funu fark eder. Jean de La Fontaine\u2019in s\u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fcn \u00f6z\u00fc tam da burada sakl\u0131d\u0131r: Hayat\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 belirleyen \u015fey \u00e7o\u011fu zaman ba\u015f\u0131m\u0131za gelenler de\u011fil, y\u00fczle\u015fmekten ka\u00e7\u0131p ka\u00e7mad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131zd\u0131r.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

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Who is Jean de La Fontaine?<\/strong><\/h3>\n

Jean de La Fontaine (1621-1695) Frans\u0131z \u015fair ve yazard\u0131r. \u00d6zellikle hayvan karakterler \u00fczerinden insan do\u011fas\u0131n\u0131 ve toplumsal davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131 ele\u015ftiren fabllar\u0131yla d\u00fcnya edebiyat\u0131nda kal\u0131c\u0131 bir yer edinmi\u015ftir. Alegorik anlat\u0131m\u0131 ve sade dili sayesinde ahlaki dersleri evrensel hik\u00e2yelere d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015ft\u00fcrm\u00fc\u015f, eserleri y\u00fczy\u0131llard\u0131r e\u011fitim ve edebiyat alan\u0131nda etkisini s\u00fcrd\u00fcrm\u00fc\u015ft\u00fcr.<\/p>\n

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