{"id":42056,"date":"2021-05-25T10:05:54","date_gmt":"2021-05-25T10:05:54","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/e-motivasyon.net\/?p=42056"},"modified":"2026-10-22T13:37:35","modified_gmt":"2026-10-22T13:37:35","slug":"basarisizlik-bir-sonuc-degil-bir-tutumdur-harvey-mackay","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/e-motivasyon.net\/en\/basarisizlik-bir-sonuc-degil-bir-tutumdur-harvey-mackay.html","title":{"rendered":"“Ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131zl\u0131k bir sonu\u00e7 de\u011fil, bir tutumdur.” Harvey Mackay"},"content":{"rendered":"

“Ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131zl\u0131k bir sonu\u00e7 de\u011fil, bir tutumdur.” Harvey Mackay<\/strong><\/em><\/span><\/h3>\n
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Ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131zl\u0131k denildi\u011finde \u00e7o\u011fumuzun akl\u0131na ula\u015famad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z hedefler, yar\u0131m kalan i\u015fler ve istedi\u011fimiz gibi sonu\u00e7lanmayan giri\u015fimler gelir. Oysa bir hedefe ula\u015famamakla kendimizi ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131z biri olarak g\u00f6rmek ayn\u0131 \u015fey de\u011fildir. Harvey Mackay taraf\u0131ndan ifade edilen \u201cBa\u015far\u0131s\u0131zl\u0131k bir sonu\u00e7 de\u011fil, bir tutumdur.\u201d s\u00f6z\u00fc, ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131zl\u0131\u011fa bak\u0131\u015f a\u00e7\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n ya\u015fam\u0131m\u0131z \u00fczerindeki etkisini vurgular. Bir giri\u015fimin istedi\u011fimiz sonucu vermemesi, yaln\u0131zca belirli bir ko\u015fulda bekledi\u011fimiz sonuca ula\u015famad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 g\u00f6sterir. Bu deneyimi nas\u0131l yorumlad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z ve sonras\u0131nda nas\u0131l davrand\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z ise geli\u015fimimizi etkiler. Ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131zl\u0131\u011f\u0131 bir son olarak g\u00f6rd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcm\u00fczde se\u00e7eneklerimizi daralt\u0131r, \u00f6\u011frenme f\u0131rsat\u0131 olarak de\u011ferlendirdi\u011fimizde yeni olas\u0131l\u0131klara kap\u0131 aralar\u0131z.<\/strong> Elbette her ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131zl\u0131k mutlaka ba\u015far\u0131ya d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015fmez; ancak her deneyimden bir \u015feyler \u00f6\u011frenmek, bir sonraki ad\u0131m\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 daha bilin\u00e7li atmam\u0131za yard\u0131mc\u0131 olabilir.<\/p>\n

Peki, ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131zl\u0131k kar\u015f\u0131s\u0131nda tutumumuzu nas\u0131l de\u011fi\u015ftirebiliriz? Bunun i\u00e7in bir sonraki hayal k\u0131r\u0131kl\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131zda kendimize \u015fu soruyu soral\u0131m: \u201cBu deneyim bana ne \u00f6\u011fretti ve bundan sonra neyi farkl\u0131 yapabilirim?\u201d<\/strong> Yan\u0131t\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 somutla\u015ft\u0131rmak i\u00e7in ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131zl\u0131kla sonu\u00e7lanan bir giri\u015fimimizi se\u00e7elim. Nelerin yolunda gitmedi\u011fini, hangi kararlar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 g\u00f6zden ge\u00e7irmemiz gerekti\u011fini ve hangi becerilerimizi geli\u015ftirebilece\u011fimizi yazal\u0131m. Ard\u0131ndan belirledi\u011fimiz noktalardan yaln\u0131zca birini se\u00e7erek k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck bir eylem plan\u0131 olu\u015ftural\u0131m. \u00d6rne\u011fin, bir sunumumuz bekledi\u011fimiz kadar etkili olmad\u0131ysa kendimizi yeteneksiz ilan etmek yerine anlat\u0131m\u0131m\u0131z\u0131, haz\u0131rl\u0131k s\u00fcremizi veya dinleyicilerle kurdu\u011fumuz ileti\u015fimi de\u011ferlendirebiliriz. Ama\u00e7, ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131zl\u0131\u011f\u0131 g\u00f6rmezden gelmek de\u011fil, onun bizi tan\u0131mlamas\u0131na izin vermeden deneyimden yararlanmakt\u0131r.<\/strong> B\u00f6ylece motivasyonumuzu yaln\u0131zca elde etti\u011fimiz sonu\u00e7lara de\u011fil, \u00f6\u011frenme ve geli\u015fme kapasitemize de dayand\u0131rabiliriz.<\/p>\n

Yeni bir i\u015f kurmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015fan bir giri\u015fimci d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnelim. \u0130lk denemesinde yeterli m\u00fc\u015fteriye ula\u015famayan bu ki\u015fi, ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131 sonucu kendi yetersizli\u011finin kan\u0131t\u0131 olarak g\u00f6rebilir ve giri\u015fiminden vazge\u00e7ebilir. Ba\u015fka bir yakla\u015f\u0131m ise m\u00fc\u015fterilerin beklentilerini ara\u015ft\u0131rmak, \u00fcr\u00fcn\u00fcn\u00fc geli\u015ftirmek ve i\u015f modelini yeniden de\u011ferlendirmektir. \u0130kinci yakla\u015f\u0131m ba\u015far\u0131y\u0131 garanti etmez; fakat daha bilin\u00e7li kararlar alma ve yeni se\u00e7enekleri de\u011ferlendirme olana\u011f\u0131 sunar. Ayn\u0131 durum e\u011fitim hayat\u0131m\u0131zda, ili\u015fkilerimizde ve ki\u015fisel hedeflerimizde de ge\u00e7erlidir. Her zaman istedi\u011fimiz sonucu elde edemeyebiliriz; bazen ko\u015fullar de\u011fi\u015fir, bazen y\u00f6ntemimiz i\u015fe yaramaz, bazen de hedefimizi yeniden belirlememiz gerekir. \u00d6nemli olan, ya\u015fananlar\u0131 ger\u00e7ek\u00e7i bi\u00e7imde de\u011ferlendirmek ve kendimize yeni bir hareket alan\u0131 a\u00e7abilmektir. Ba\u015far\u0131, yaln\u0131zca ka\u00e7 kez kazand\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131zla de\u011fil, zorluklar kar\u015f\u0131s\u0131nda nas\u0131l d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcm\u00fcz ve nas\u0131l ilerledi\u011fimizle de ilgilidir.<\/strong> \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131zl\u0131k, bir kez istedi\u011fimiz sonucu alamam\u0131zda de\u011fil, \u00f6\u011frenme ve de\u011fi\u015fme ihtimaline s\u0131rt\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 d\u00f6nmemizde kal\u0131c\u0131 h\u00e2le gelir.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<\/div>\n

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Harvey Mackay Kimdir?<\/h3>\n

Harvey Mackay (1932-2025), Amerikal\u0131 i\u015f insan\u0131, yazar ve motivasyon konu\u015fmac\u0131s\u0131d\u0131r. Sat\u0131\u015f, i\u015f d\u00fcnyas\u0131nda ba\u015far\u0131, liderlik ve insan ili\u015fkileri \u00fczerine geli\u015ftirdi\u011fi fikirlerle tan\u0131nm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. Minnesota \u00dcniversitesi’nde e\u011fitim g\u00f6rd\u00fckten sonra i\u015f hayat\u0131na at\u0131lan Mackay, zarf \u00fcretimi alan\u0131nda faaliyet g\u00f6steren MackayMitchell Envelope Company’nin y\u00f6neticili\u011fini yapm\u0131\u015f ve \u015firketin b\u00fcy\u00fcmesinde \u00f6nemli rol oynam\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. \u0130\u015f d\u00fcnyas\u0131ndaki deneyimlerini ki\u015fisel geli\u015fim ve ba\u015far\u0131 \u00fczerine yazd\u0131\u011f\u0131 kitaplara ta\u015f\u0131yan Mackay’in en bilinen eserleri aras\u0131nda Swim with the Sharks Without Being Eaten Alive<\/em> . Beware the Naked Man Who Offers You His Shirt<\/em> yer al\u0131r. Yaz\u0131lar\u0131nda insan ili\u015fkilerinin, kararl\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131n, s\u00fcrekli \u00f6\u011frenmenin ve do\u011fru tutum geli\u015ftirmenin i\u015f ya\u015fam\u0131ndaki \u00f6nemini vurgulam\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. Ba\u015far\u0131ya ula\u015fmak isteyen ki\u015filere y\u00f6nelik pratik \u00f6nerileriyle i\u015f d\u00fcnyas\u0131nda ve motivasyon alan\u0131nda tan\u0131nan isimlerden biri olmu\u015ftur.<\/p>\n

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Ba\u015far\u0131 \u00d6zl\u00fc S\u00f6zleri<\/a><\/p><\/blockquote>\n