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Etki Alan\u0131m\u0131z<\/span><\/h3>\n

\"Gen\u00e7<\/a><\/p>\n

Gen\u00e7 ve h\u00fcr iken, d\u00fc\u015flerim sonsuzken, d\u00fcnyay\u0131 de\u011fi\u015ftirmek isterdim. Ya\u015flan\u0131p ak\u0131llan\u0131nca, d\u00fcnyan\u0131n de\u011fi\u015fmeyece\u011fini anlad\u0131m. Ben de d\u00fc\u015flerimi biraz k\u0131s\u0131tlayarak, sadece memleketimi de\u011fi\u015ftirmeye karar verdim. Ama o da de\u011fi\u015fece\u011fe benzemiyordu. \u0130yice ya\u015fland\u0131\u011f\u0131mda, art\u0131k son bir gayretle, sadece ailemi, kendime en yak\u0131n olanlar\u0131 de\u011fi\u015ftirmeyi denedim. Ama maalesef bunu da kabul ettiremedim. \u015eimdi \u00f6l\u00fcm d\u00f6\u015fe\u011finde yatarken birden fark ettim ki, \u00f6nce yaln\u0131z kendimi de\u011fi\u015ftirseydim, onlara \u00f6rnek olarak ailemi de de\u011fi\u015ftirebilirdim. Onlardan alaca\u011f\u0131m cesaret ve ilhamla memleketimi daha ileri g\u00f6t\u00fcrebilirdim. Kim bilir, belki d\u00fcnyay\u0131 bile de\u011fi\u015ftirebilirdim.<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

Westminster Manast\u0131r\u0131\u2019nda Bir Mezar Yaz\u0131t\u0131<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

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Westminster Abbey<\/span><\/span>\u2019deki bir mezar yaz\u0131t\u0131na atfedilen bu s\u00f6z, insan\u0131n hayat boyunca ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131 en \u00f6nemli fark\u0131ndal\u0131klardan birini anlat\u0131r: D\u00fcnyay\u0131 de\u011fi\u015ftirme arzusu \u00e7o\u011fu zaman kendi i\u00e7 d\u00fcnyam\u0131z\u0131 de\u011fi\u015ftirme sorumlulu\u011fundan \u00f6nce gelir.<\/strong> Gen\u00e7li\u011fin co\u015fkusu i\u00e7inde toplumlar\u0131, sistemleri ya da insanlar\u0131 de\u011fi\u015ftirmeyi hayal ederiz. Fakat zaman ilerledik\u00e7e bunun san\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131 kadar kolay olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6r\u00fcr\u00fcz. Oysa \u00e7o\u011fu zaman g\u00f6zden ka\u00e7\u0131rd\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z basit bir ger\u00e7ek vard\u0131r: Ger\u00e7ek de\u011fi\u015fim d\u0131\u015far\u0131dan de\u011fil, i\u00e7eriden ba\u015flar.<\/strong> Kendi d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcncelerimizi, al\u0131\u015fkanl\u0131klar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 ve davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015ft\u00fcrmeden ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131 de\u011fi\u015ftirmeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmak, \u00e7o\u011fu zaman sonu\u00e7suz bir \u00e7abadan ibaret kal\u0131r.<\/p>\n

Bu d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnceden ilham alarak g\u00fcnl\u00fck hayat\u0131m\u0131zda uygulayabilece\u011fimiz pratik bir \u00f6neri \u015fudur: De\u011fi\u015fmesini istedi\u011finiz bir durumu d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcn ve \u00f6nce kendinize \u015fu soruyu sorun: \u201cBen bu konuda nas\u0131l bir \u00f6rnek oluyorum?\u201d<\/strong> \u00d6rne\u011fin \u00e7evrenizde insanlar\u0131n daha sab\u0131rl\u0131, daha d\u00fcr\u00fcst ya da daha \u00fcretken olmas\u0131n\u0131 istiyorsan\u0131z, \u00f6nce kendi davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 bu y\u00f6nde geli\u015ftirmeye ba\u015flay\u0131n. \u0130nsanlar \u00e7o\u011fu zaman s\u00f6zlerden \u00e7ok davran\u0131\u015flardan etkilenir.<\/strong> Bir ki\u015fi kendi hayat\u0131nda disiplinli, tutarl\u0131 ve samimi bir de\u011fi\u015fim ortaya koydu\u011funda, bu de\u011fi\u015fim sessiz ama g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc bir etki yarat\u0131r. B\u00f6ylece ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131 zorlamadan, yaln\u0131zca \u00f6rnek olarak bile \u00e7evremizde k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck ama anlaml\u0131 d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015f\u00fcmler ba\u015flatabiliriz.<\/p>\n

Bunu g\u00fcnl\u00fck hayattan basit bir \u00f6rnekle d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnelim: Bir ebeveyn \u00e7ocu\u011funun kitap okumas\u0131n\u0131 istiyor ama kendisi neredeyse hi\u00e7 kitap a\u00e7m\u0131yorsa, verdi\u011fi \u00f6\u011f\u00fctlerin etkisi s\u0131n\u0131rl\u0131 kal\u0131r. Fakat ayn\u0131 ebeveyn her g\u00fcn d\u00fczenli olarak kitap okudu\u011funda, \u00e7ocuk bunu g\u00f6r\u00fcr ve zamanla bu davran\u0131\u015f\u0131 model alabilir. \u0130\u015fte bu nedenle de\u011fi\u015fimin en g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc yolu nasihat de\u011fil, \u00f6rnek olmakt\u0131r.<\/strong> \u0130nsan bazen y\u0131llar sonra fark eder ki d\u00fcnyay\u0131 de\u011fi\u015ftirme hayali asl\u0131nda kendi i\u00e7 d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015f\u00fcm\u00fcyle ba\u015flar. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc ger\u00e7ek de\u011fi\u015fim, \u00f6nce insan\u0131n kendi hayat\u0131nda ba\u015flar; oradan ailesine, \u00e7evresine ve belki de t\u00fcm d\u00fcnyaya dalga dalga yay\u0131l\u0131r.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

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Westminster Abbey<\/span><\/span>\u2019de yer ald\u0131\u011f\u0131 s\u0131k\u00e7a s\u00f6ylenen bu metin genellikle \u201cWestminster Manast\u0131r\u0131\u2019ndaki bir mezar yaz\u0131t\u0131\u201d olarak an\u0131lsa da, tarihsel olarak belirli bir ki\u015fiye ait oldu\u011fu kesin bi\u00e7imde do\u011frulanm\u0131\u015f de\u011fildir. Bu metin zamanla ki\u015fisel geli\u015fim ve \u00f6z d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015f\u00fcm fikrini anlatan sembolik bir hik\u00e2ye olarak yayg\u0131nla\u015fm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. Anlat\u0131, insan\u0131n hayat boyunca d\u0131\u015f d\u00fcnyay\u0131 de\u011fi\u015ftirmeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131rken asl\u0131nda en g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc de\u011fi\u015fim g\u00fcc\u00fcn\u00fcn kendi i\u00e7 d\u00fcnyas\u0131nda oldu\u011funu fark etmesini vurgulayan g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc bir metafor olarak kabul edilir. Bu nedenle metin, g\u00fcn\u00fcm\u00fczde ki\u015fisel de\u011fi\u015fim, \u00f6z fark\u0131ndal\u0131k ve liderlik konular\u0131nda s\u0131k\u00e7a al\u0131nt\u0131lanan etkileyici bir d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnce metni haline gelmi\u015ftir.<\/p>\n

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Ki\u015fisel Geli\u015fim \u00d6zl\u00fc S\u00f6zleri<\/a><\/p><\/blockquote>\n