{"id":41977,"date":"2021-05-10T16:44:25","date_gmt":"2021-05-10T16:44:25","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/e-motivasyon.net\/?p=41977"},"modified":"2026-01-17T08:48:29","modified_gmt":"2026-01-17T08:48:29","slug":"hayatinizi-durustluk-icinde-yasamaya-karar-verebilirsiniz-aleksandr-soljenitsin","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/e-motivasyon.net\/en\/hayatinizi-durustluk-icinde-yasamaya-karar-verebilirsiniz-aleksandr-soljenitsin.html","title":{"rendered":"\u201cYou can decide to live your life with honesty. Let your faith be like this: Let the lie come into the world, and even triumph. But not through me.\u201d Alexander Solzhenitsyn"},"content":{"rendered":"

“Hayat\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 d\u00fcr\u00fcstl\u00fck i\u00e7inde ya\u015famaya karar verebilirsiniz. \u0130nanc\u0131n\u0131z \u015f\u00f6yle olsun: Yalan d\u00fcnyaya gelsin, hatta zafer kazans\u0131n. Ama benim arac\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131mla de\u011fil.” Aleksandr Soljenitsin<\/strong><\/em><\/span><\/p>\n

\""F\u0131rt\u0131nalar<\/a><\/p>\n

Soljenitsin\u2019in bu s\u00f6z\u00fc, d\u00fcr\u00fcstl\u00fc\u011f\u00fc romantik bir erdem de\u011fil, bilin\u00e7li ve bedeli olan bir duru\u015f<\/strong><\/em> olarak ele al\u0131r. Burada anlat\u0131lan \u015fey, d\u00fcnyadaki t\u00fcm yalanlar\u0131 yok etmek de\u011fil; onlara ta\u015f\u0131y\u0131c\u0131 olmamay\u0131<\/strong><\/em> se\u00e7mektir. Yalan\u0131n var olabilece\u011fini, hatta kazanabilece\u011fini kabul eder; ama insan\u0131n kendi vicdan\u0131n\u0131 buna alet etmemesi gerekti\u011fini vurgular. Bu s\u00f6z, \u201cd\u00fcnya de\u011fi\u015fsin\u201d demekten \u00f6nce, \u201cben neye hizmet ediyorum?\u201d sorusunu sordurur.<\/strong><\/em> D\u00fcr\u00fcstl\u00fck burada safl\u0131k de\u011fil; fark\u0131ndal\u0131kla al\u0131nm\u0131\u015f bir ahlaki karard\u0131r.<\/p>\n

Bu yakla\u015f\u0131mdan ilhamla g\u00fcnl\u00fck hayatta uygulanabilecek tek bir pratik \u00f6neri \u015fudur: K\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck yalanlara bilin\u00e7li olarak \u201chay\u0131r\u201d demeyi se\u00e7in.<\/strong><\/em> \u00d6zellikle \u201ckimseye zarar\u0131 yok\u201d diye ge\u00e7i\u015ftirdi\u011fimiz s\u00f6zleri fark etmeye ba\u015flay\u0131n. Bir durumu oldu\u011fundan farkl\u0131 g\u00f6stermek, kendinizi korumak i\u00e7in ger\u00e7e\u011fi e\u011fip b\u00fckmek ya da s\u0131rf ortam bozulmas\u0131n diye susmak\u2026 Kendinize \u015fu soruyu sorun: \u201c\u015eu an s\u00f6yledi\u011fim ya da saklad\u0131\u011f\u0131m \u015fey, benim de\u011ferlerimle uyumlu mu?\u201d D\u00fcr\u00fcstl\u00fck, b\u00fcy\u00fck anlardan \u00e7ok k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck anlarda s\u0131nan\u0131r.<\/strong><\/em> Biz bu k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck anlarda netle\u015ftik\u00e7e, i\u00e7sel g\u00fcc\u00fcm\u00fcz de artar.<\/p>\n

\u00d6rne\u011fin bir i\u015f ortam\u0131nda ba\u015fkas\u0131n\u0131n hatas\u0131n\u0131 \u00f6rtmek ya da kendi pay\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fcltmek k\u0131sa vadede rahatlat\u0131c\u0131 olabilir. Ama uzun vadede bu t\u00fcr \u00f6d\u00fcnler, insan\u0131n kendine olan sayg\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 sessizce a\u015f\u0131nd\u0131r\u0131r. \u0130nsan en \u00e7ok, kendine anlatt\u0131\u011f\u0131 yalanlarla yorulur.<\/strong><\/em> Soljenitsin\u2019in hat\u0131rlatt\u0131\u011f\u0131 gibi, d\u00fcnya her zaman adil olmayabilir; ama biz adaletle temas\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 koparmayabiliriz. Ve \u00e7o\u011fu zaman ger\u00e7ek zafer, kazanmak de\u011fil; yanl\u0131\u015fa ortak olmamay\u0131 ba\u015farmakt\u0131r.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

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\u0130nsanlara Dair \u00d6zl\u00fc S\u00f6zler ve \u00d6zdeyi\u015fler<\/a><\/p><\/blockquote>\n