{"id":4125,"date":"2014-11-05T13:23:45","date_gmt":"2014-11-05T11:23:45","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.ozdeyis.net\/?p=4125"},"modified":"2026-01-17T12:26:50","modified_gmt":"2026-01-17T12:26:50","slug":"gulumseme-iki-insan-arasindaki-en-kisa-mesafedir-victor-borge","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/e-motivasyon.net\/en\/gulumseme-iki-insan-arasindaki-en-kisa-mesafedir-victor-borge.html","title":{"rendered":"“G\u00fcl\u00fcmseme iki insan aras\u0131ndaki en k\u0131sa mesafedir.” Victor Borge"},"content":{"rendered":"

“G\u00fcl\u00fcmseme iki insan aras\u0131ndaki en k\u0131sa mesafedir.” Victor Borge<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

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Victor Borge\u2019un bu s\u00f6z\u00fc, ileti\u015fimin yaln\u0131zca kelimelerle kurulmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 hat\u0131rlat\u0131r. G\u00fcl\u00fcmseme<\/strong>, iki insan aras\u0131ndaki g\u00f6r\u00fcnmez duvarlar\u0131 incelten, hatta \u00e7o\u011fu zaman ortadan kald\u0131ran en do\u011fal k\u00f6pr\u00fcd\u00fcr. Bizler \u00e7o\u011fu zaman anla\u015f\u0131lmak i\u00e7in uzun c\u00fcmlelere, g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc arg\u00fcmanlara ihtiya\u00e7 duydu\u011fumuzu san\u0131r\u0131z. Oysa i\u00e7ten bir g\u00fcl\u00fcmseme; g\u00fcveni, a\u00e7\u0131kl\u0131\u011f\u0131 ve iyi niyeti tek bir anda ta\u015f\u0131r. G\u00fcl\u00fcmseme, mesafeyi metrelerle de\u011fil, duygularla \u00f6l\u00e7er.<\/strong> Bu y\u00fczden bazen tek bir mimik, sayfalarca anlat\u0131lamayan \u015feyi anlat\u0131r.<\/p>\n

Bu s\u00f6zden ilhamla g\u00fcnl\u00fck hayatta uygulanabilecek basit ama etkili bir pratik \u00f6neri var: \u0130lk temas\u0131 g\u00fcl\u00fcmsemeyle ba\u015flat\u0131n.<\/strong><\/em> Bir toplant\u0131ya girerken, bir mesaj yazmadan \u00f6nce ya da bir yabanc\u0131yla g\u00f6z g\u00f6ze geldi\u011finizde bilin\u00e7li olarak g\u00fcl\u00fcmsemeyi se\u00e7in. Bu k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck hareket, yaln\u0131zca kar\u015f\u0131n\u0131zdakini de\u011fil, sizi de yumu\u015fat\u0131r. Biz g\u00fcl\u00fcmsemeyi bir sonu\u00e7 olarak de\u011fil, bir ba\u015flang\u0131\u00e7 noktas\u0131<\/strong> olarak kulland\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131zda ileti\u015fimin tonu kendili\u011finden de\u011fi\u015fir. \u00c7o\u011fu gerginli\u011fin, hen\u00fcz ba\u015flamadan \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fcld\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fc fark edersiniz.<\/p>\n

\u00d6rne\u011fin yo\u011fun ve stresli bir g\u00fcnde, as\u0131k bir y\u00fczle selam vermekle g\u00fcl\u00fcmseyerek \u201cmerhaba\u201d demek<\/strong> aras\u0131nda b\u00fcy\u00fck bir fark vard\u0131r. \u0130kisi de ayn\u0131 kelimeyi i\u00e7erir, ama etkileri bamba\u015fkad\u0131r. Victor Borge\u2019un i\u015faret etti\u011fi gibi, g\u00fcl\u00fcmseme mesafeyi k\u0131salt\u0131r; insan\u0131 insana yakla\u015ft\u0131r\u0131r.<\/strong><\/em> Biz bu k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck ama g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc arac\u0131 daha s\u0131k kulland\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131zda, ili\u015fkilerin daha ak\u0131c\u0131, temas\u0131n daha insani hale geldi\u011fini g\u00f6r\u00fcr\u00fcz. Ve bazen en k\u0131sa yol, en yumu\u015fak ifadedir.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

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\u0130nsanlara Dair \u00d6zl\u00fc S\u00f6zler ve \u00d6zdeyi\u015fler<\/a><\/p><\/blockquote>\n