{"id":41184,"date":"2021-01-20T23:52:29","date_gmt":"2021-01-20T23:52:29","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/e-motivasyon.net\/?p=41184"},"modified":"2026-02-06T09:24:30","modified_gmt":"2026-02-06T09:24:30","slug":"alisilmis-yollarimizdan-bir-kez-atildigimizda-her-seyin-kayboldugunu-dusunuruz-ancak-burasi-sadece-yeni-ve-iyinin-basladigi-yerdir-lev-tolstoy","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/e-motivasyon.net\/en\/alisilmis-yollarimizdan-bir-kez-atildigimizda-her-seyin-kayboldugunu-dusunuruz-ancak-burasi-sadece-yeni-ve-iyinin-basladigi-yerdir-lev-tolstoy.html","title":{"rendered":"\u201cOnce we are thrown out of our habitual ways, we think all is lost, but this is where only the new and the good begin.\u201d Leo Tolstoy"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u201cOnce we are thrown out of our habitual ways, we think all is lost, but this is where only the new and the good begin.\u201d Leo Tolstoy<\/strong><\/em><\/span><\/p>\n

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\u201cAl\u0131\u015f\u0131lm\u0131\u015f yollar\u0131m\u0131zdan bir kez at\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131zda, her \u015feyin kayboldu\u011funu d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcr\u00fcz; ancak buras\u0131 sadece yeni ve iyinin ba\u015flad\u0131\u011f\u0131 yerdir.<\/strong>\u201d diyen Leo Tolstoy<\/strong>, insan\u0131n de\u011fi\u015fim kar\u015f\u0131s\u0131ndaki en temel korkusunu ve ayn\u0131 zamanda en b\u00fcy\u00fck f\u0131rsat\u0131n\u0131 i\u015faret eder. Al\u0131\u015fkanl\u0131klar g\u00fcven verir; bildik yollar, kontrol duygusu yarat\u0131r. Bu y\u00fczden o yollardan savruldu\u011fumuzda, sanki kimli\u011fimiz de da\u011f\u0131lm\u0131\u015f gibi hissederiz. Oysa Tolstoy\u2019un hat\u0131rlatt\u0131\u011f\u0131 \u015fey \u015fudur: Kayboldu\u011funu sand\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z an, \u00e7o\u011fu zaman d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015f\u00fcm\u00fcn e\u015fi\u011fidir.<\/strong> Siz ve biz, konfor alan\u0131m\u0131zdan \u00e7\u0131kt\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131zda her \u015feyin bitti\u011fini san\u0131r\u0131z; halbuki zihinsel ve ruhsal b\u00fcy\u00fcme, tam da bu belirsizlikte filizlenir. Yeni olan, eskiden vazge\u00e7ebildi\u011fimiz \u00f6l\u00e7\u00fcde g\u00f6r\u00fcn\u00fcr olur.<\/p>\n

Bu s\u00f6zden ilhamla g\u00fcnl\u00fck hayatta uygulanabilecek pratik bir \u00f6neri \u015fudur: Hayat\u0131n\u0131zda \u015fu anda \u201cbozulmu\u015f\u201d gibi g\u00f6r\u00fcnen bir alan\u0131 se\u00e7in ve kendinize \u015fu soruyu sorun: \u201cBurada yeni olan neye alan a\u00e7\u0131l\u0131yor?\u201d<\/strong> Siz ve biz \u00e7o\u011fu zaman de\u011fi\u015fimi eskiyi onarmakla e\u015f tutar\u0131z; oysa bazen yap\u0131lmas\u0131 gereken, tamamen farkl\u0131 bir yol denemektir<\/strong>. \u0130\u015f de\u011fi\u015fikli\u011fi, ili\u015fki biti\u015fi, rutinin da\u011f\u0131lmas\u0131\u2026 Bunlar\u0131 hemen \u201ckay\u0131p\u201d olarak etiketlemek yerine, ortaya \u00e7\u0131kan bo\u015flu\u011fu g\u00f6zlemlemek; yeni becerilere, ili\u015fkilere ya da bak\u0131\u015f a\u00e7\u0131lar\u0131na yer a\u00e7ar. Bu yakla\u015f\u0131m, motivasyonu d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcrmek yerine yeniden in\u015fa etme enerjisi<\/strong> \u00fcretir.<\/p>\n

Uzun y\u0131llar ayn\u0131 i\u015fi yapan birinin ani bir i\u015f kayb\u0131 ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcn. \u0130lk his; korku, belirsizlik ve kaybolmu\u015fluk olur. Ancak zamanla ki\u015fi, y\u0131llard\u0131r erteledi\u011fi yeteneklerini fark eder, yeni bir y\u00f6n \u00e7izer. \u0130\u015fte Tolstoy\u2019un s\u00f6z\u00fc tam olarak bu noktada anlam kazan\u0131r: Hayat bizi bildik yollardan \u00e7\u0131kard\u0131\u011f\u0131nda, asl\u0131nda daha sahici bir yola davet ediyordur.<\/strong><\/em> Siz ve biz, bu daveti tehdit de\u011fil bir ba\u015flang\u0131\u00e7 sinyali<\/strong> olarak okudu\u011fumuzda, kayboldu\u011fumuzu sand\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z yerde kendimizi yeniden buluruz.<\/p>\n

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Lev Tolstoy Kimdir?<\/strong><\/h3>\n

Leo Tolstoy<\/strong> (1828\u20131910), Rus edebiyat\u0131n\u0131n ve d\u00fcnya edebiyat\u0131n\u0131n en b\u00fcy\u00fck yazarlar\u0131ndan biridir. \u201cSava\u015f ve Bar\u0131\u015f\u201d ve \u201cAnna Karenina\u201d gibi ba\u015fyap\u0131tlar\u0131yla tan\u0131nan Tolstoy, yaln\u0131zca bir romanc\u0131 de\u011fil; ayn\u0131 zamanda derin bir ahlak ve ya\u015fam filozofudur<\/strong>. Hayat\u0131n\u0131n ilerleyen d\u00f6nemlerinde sade ya\u015fam, i\u00e7sel d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015f\u00fcm, anlam aray\u0131\u015f\u0131 ve insan\u0131n kendini yeniden in\u015fa etmesi \u00fczerine yo\u011funla\u015fm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. Tolstoy\u2019un eserlerinde s\u0131k\u00e7a kar\u015f\u0131la\u015f\u0131lan tema, insan\u0131n krizler yoluyla olgunla\u015fmas\u0131d\u0131r. Bug\u00fcn h\u00e2l\u00e2 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnceleri; de\u011fi\u015fim, belirsizlik ve yeni ba\u015flang\u0131\u00e7lar kar\u015f\u0131s\u0131nda yolunu arayanlar i\u00e7in g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc bir rehber olmaya devam etmektedir.<\/p>\n

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