{"id":40180,"date":"2020-10-16T21:18:04","date_gmt":"2020-10-16T21:18:04","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/e-motivasyon.net\/?p=40180"},"modified":"2026-04-30T16:28:38","modified_gmt":"2026-04-30T16:28:38","slug":"her-seyden-once-kendinize-yalan-soylemeyin-fyodor-dostoyevski","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/e-motivasyon.net\/en\/her-seyden-once-kendinize-yalan-soylemeyin-fyodor-dostoyevski.html","title":{"rendered":"\u201cFirst of all, don't lie to yourself. The person who lies to himself and listens to his own lie comes to the point where he cannot distinguish the truth within or around him, and thus loses all respect for himself and others. And because he has no respect, he stops loving.\u201d Fyodor Dostoevsky"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u201cFirst of all, don't lie to yourself. The person who lies to himself and listens to his own lie comes to the point where he cannot distinguish the truth within or around him, and thus loses all respect for himself and others. And because he has no respect, he stops loving.\u201d Fyodor Dostoevsky<\/strong><\/em><\/span><\/p>\n

\""Herkes<\/a><\/p>\n

Fyodor Dostoyevski bu s\u00f6z\u00fcyle, insan\u0131n en derin \u00e7at\u0131\u015fmas\u0131n\u0131n d\u0131\u015f d\u00fcnyayla de\u011fil, kendi i\u00e7 d\u00fcnyas\u0131yla oldu\u011funu \u00e7arp\u0131c\u0131 bir \u015fekilde ortaya koyar. Kendine s\u00f6ylenen k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck bir yalan bile zamanla b\u00fcy\u00fcr, katmanla\u015f\u0131r ve ger\u00e7e\u011fin \u00fczerini \u00f6rter. Bu noktada ki\u015fi art\u0131k ne hissetti\u011fini, ne d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fc ve neye inand\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 net bir \u015fekilde ay\u0131rt edemez. \u0130\u00e7sel d\u00fcr\u00fcstl\u00fck kayboldu\u011funda, insan\u0131n kendine olan sayg\u0131s\u0131 da yava\u015f yava\u015f erir.<\/strong> Ve bu erozyon sadece bireyin kendisiyle ili\u015fkisini de\u011fil, ba\u015fkalar\u0131yla kurdu\u011fu ba\u011f\u0131 da zedeler. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc kendine kar\u015f\u0131 d\u00fcr\u00fcst olamayan bir insan, ger\u00e7ek bir sevgi de in\u015fa edemez.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Bu s\u00f6zden ilhamla g\u00fcnl\u00fck hayatta uygulayabilece\u011finiz pratik \u00f6neri \u015fudur: G\u00fcn\u00fcn sonunda kendinize \u015fu soruyu sorun: \u201cBug\u00fcn kendime kar\u015f\u0131 tamamen d\u00fcr\u00fcst m\u00fcyd\u00fcm?\u201d Bu soruya verece\u011finiz cevap, i\u00e7sel fark\u0131ndal\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n aynas\u0131d\u0131r. E\u011fer ka\u00e7\u0131nd\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z, g\u00f6rmezden geldi\u011finiz ya da \u00e7arp\u0131tt\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z bir durum varsa, onu yarg\u0131lamadan kabul edin. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc ger\u00e7ek de\u011fi\u015fim, ink\u00e2rla de\u011fil; y\u00fczle\u015fmeyle ba\u015flar.<\/strong> Bu al\u0131\u015fkanl\u0131k, zamanla sizi daha net, daha g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc ve daha b\u00fct\u00fcn bir insan haline getirir.<\/p>\n

Bunu bir \u00f6rnekle d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnelim: Sevmedi\u011finiz bir i\u015fte \u00e7al\u0131\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 biliyorsunuz ama kendinize s\u00fcrekli \u201cAsl\u0131nda memnunum\u201d diyorsunuz. Bu k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck yalan, zamanla motivasyonunuzu d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcr\u00fcr, enerjinizi t\u00fcketir ve sizi i\u00e7sel bir bo\u015flu\u011fa s\u00fcr\u00fckler. Oysa ger\u00e7e\u011fi kabul etti\u011finiz anda, de\u011fi\u015fim i\u00e7in ilk ad\u0131m\u0131 atars\u0131n\u0131z. \u0130\u015fte \u00a0Dostoyevski\u2019nin s\u00f6z\u00fc tam olarak bunu anlat\u0131r. Ger\u00e7ekten ka\u00e7mak, sizi korumaz; aksine sizi kendinizden uzakla\u015ft\u0131r\u0131r.<\/strong> Ve unutmay\u0131n: Kendinize s\u00f6yledi\u011finiz en k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck yalan bile, zamanla sizi en b\u00fcy\u00fck ger\u00e7e\u011finizden koparabilir.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

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Fyodor Dostoyevski Kimdir?<\/strong><\/h3>\n

Fyodor Dostoyevski (1821-1881) Rus romanc\u0131, filozof ve d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcrd\u00fcr. \u0130nsan psikolojisini derinlemesine ele alan eserleriyle d\u00fcnya edebiyat\u0131n\u0131n en \u00f6nemli yazarlar\u0131ndan biri olarak kabul edilir. \u201cSu\u00e7 ve Ceza\u201d, \u201cKaramazov Karde\u015fler\u201d ve \u201cYeralt\u0131ndan Notlar\u201d gibi eserlerinde insan\u0131n i\u00e7sel \u00e7at\u0131\u015fmalar\u0131n\u0131, ahlaki sorgulamalar\u0131n\u0131 ve varolu\u015fsal aray\u0131\u015flar\u0131n\u0131 ustal\u0131kla i\u015flemi\u015ftir.<\/p>\n

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\u0130nsanlara Dair \u00d6zl\u00fc S\u00f6zler ve \u00d6zdeyi\u015fler<\/a><\/p><\/blockquote>\n