{"id":39963,"date":"2020-09-20T20:57:05","date_gmt":"2020-09-20T20:57:05","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/e-motivasyon.net\/?p=39963"},"modified":"2026-02-15T18:06:58","modified_gmt":"2026-02-15T18:06:58","slug":"bazen-konusurken-sozlerim-dusuncelerime-yetisemiyor-neden-konustugumuzdan-daha-hizli-dusundugumuzu-merak-ediyorum-muhtemelen-iki-kez-dusunebilmemiz-icin-bill-watterson","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/e-motivasyon.net\/en\/bazen-konusurken-sozlerim-dusuncelerime-yetisemiyor-neden-konustugumuzdan-daha-hizli-dusundugumuzu-merak-ediyorum-muhtemelen-iki-kez-dusunebilmemiz-icin-bill-watterson.html","title":{"rendered":"\u201cSometimes when I speak, my words can't keep up with my thoughts. I wonder why we think faster than we speak. Probably so we can think twice.\u201d Bill Watterson"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u201cSometimes when I speak, my words can't keep up with my thoughts. I wonder why we think faster than we speak. Probably so we can think twice.\u201d Bill Watterson<\/em><\/strong><\/span><\/h3>\n

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Bill Watterson<\/span><\/span>, bu s\u00f6z\u00fcyle asl\u0131nda zihnin h\u0131z\u0131na ve bilin\u00e7li fark\u0131ndal\u0131\u011f\u0131n g\u00fcc\u00fcne i\u015faret ediyor. D\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnce saniyeler i\u00e7inde k\u0131v\u0131lc\u0131mlan\u0131rken, kelimeler o k\u0131v\u0131lc\u0131m\u0131 ta\u015f\u0131makta zorlanabiliyor. Beynimiz adeta \u0131\u015f\u0131k h\u0131z\u0131nda ba\u011flant\u0131lar kuruyor; ge\u00e7mi\u015f deneyimlerimizi, duygular\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 ve sezgilerimizi ayn\u0131 anda devreye sokuyor. Ancak konu\u015fma, bu karma\u015f\u0131k i\u00e7 d\u00fcnyay\u0131 lineer bir s\u0131raya dizmek zorunda. \u0130\u015fte tam burada d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnce ile s\u00f6z aras\u0131ndaki mesafe<\/strong>, ki\u015fisel geli\u015fim ve motivasyon a\u00e7\u0131s\u0131ndan kritik bir alan haline geliyor. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc bu mesafe, bize ikinci bir de\u011ferlendirme f\u0131rsat\u0131 sunuyor. Belki de ger\u00e7ekten, iki kez d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmemiz i\u00e7in\u2026<\/p>\n

Bu s\u00f6zden ilhamla g\u00fcnl\u00fck hayatta uygulayabilece\u011fimiz basit ama etkili bir pratik \u00f6neri: \u201c3 saniye kural\u0131.\u201d<\/strong> \u00d6nemli bir konu\u015fmada, tart\u0131\u015fmada ya da duygusal bir anda yan\u0131t vermeden \u00f6nce bilin\u00e7li olarak \u00fc\u00e7 saniye durun. Bu k\u0131sa mola, d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcncelerimizin h\u0131z\u0131n\u0131 biraz olsun kelimelerimize yakla\u015ft\u0131r\u0131r. Motivasyon ko\u00e7lu\u011fu perspektifinden bakarsak; bu al\u0131\u015fkanl\u0131k hem ileti\u015fim kalitesini art\u0131r\u0131r hem de pi\u015fmanl\u0131klar\u0131 azalt\u0131r. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc \u00e7o\u011fu k\u0131r\u0131c\u0131 s\u00f6z, d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcncesizlikten de\u011fil; d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcncenin h\u0131z\u0131na yeti\u015femeyen bilin\u00e7ten do\u011far. \u00dc\u00e7 saniye\u2026 Belki de ili\u015fkilerimizi d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015ft\u00fcrecek kadar g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fcd\u00fcr.<\/p>\n

\u00d6rne\u011fin bir i\u015f toplant\u0131s\u0131nda ele\u015ftiri ald\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131zda ya da evde bir yak\u0131n\u0131n\u0131z sizi yanl\u0131\u015f anlad\u0131\u011f\u0131nda, hemen savunmaya ge\u00e7mek yerine \u00fc\u00e7 saniye bekledi\u011finizi d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcn. O \u00fc\u00e7 saniyede zihniniz ikinci turunu atar: \u201cGer\u00e7ekten ne s\u00f6ylemek istiyorum? Bu tepki beni nereye g\u00f6t\u00fcr\u00fcr?\u201d \u0130\u015fte o an fark edersiniz ki konu\u015fman\u0131n h\u0131z\u0131 de\u011fil, fark\u0131ndal\u0131\u011f\u0131n derinli\u011fi belirleyicidir. D\u00fc\u015f\u00fcncelerimiz bizden h\u0131zl\u0131 olabilir; ama bilgelik, o h\u0131z\u0131n i\u00e7inden do\u011fru s\u00f6z\u00fc se\u00e7ebilme cesaretidir.<\/strong><\/em> Ve belki de ger\u00e7ek motivasyon, tam da bu bilin\u00e7li se\u00e7im anlar\u0131nda do\u011far.<\/p>\n

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Bill Watterson Kimdir?<\/strong><\/h3>\n

Bill Watterson (1958\u2013 ) Amerikal\u0131 karikat\u00fcrist ve yazar olup, \u00f6zellikle \u201cCalvin and Hobbes\u201d adl\u0131 \u00e7izgi roman serisinin yarat\u0131c\u0131s\u0131 olarak tan\u0131n\u0131r. Mizah\u0131 felsefi derinlikle bulu\u015fturan Watterson, insan do\u011fas\u0131, d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnce g\u00fcc\u00fc ve hayal d\u00fcnyas\u0131 \u00fczerine yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131 ince g\u00f6zlemlerle d\u00fcnya \u00e7ap\u0131nda milyonlarca okura ula\u015fm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. Medyadan uzak, sade bir ya\u015fam s\u00fcrmeyi tercih etmesiyle de bilinir.<\/p>\n

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\u0130nsanlara Dair \u00d6zl\u00fc S\u00f6zler ve \u00d6zdeyi\u015fler<\/a><\/p><\/blockquote>\n