{"id":3900,"date":"2014-11-02T23:45:44","date_gmt":"2014-11-02T21:45:44","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.ozdeyis.net\/?p=3900"},"modified":"2026-03-24T18:03:17","modified_gmt":"2026-03-24T18:03:17","slug":"insan-yasadikca-anliyor-ki-kendi-kayigini-kendin-cekmezsen-bir-yerlere-varamiyorsun-katharine-hepburn","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/e-motivasyon.net\/en\/insan-yasadikca-anliyor-ki-kendi-kayigini-kendin-cekmezsen-bir-yerlere-varamiyorsun-katharine-hepburn.html","title":{"rendered":"\u201cAs one lives, one realizes that if you don't pull your own boat, you won't get anywhere.\u201d Katharine Hepburn"},"content":{"rendered":"

“\u0130nsan ya\u015fad\u0131k\u00e7a anl\u0131yor ki, kendi kay\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 kendin \u00e7ekmezsen bir yerlere varam\u0131yorsun.” Katharine Hepburn<\/strong><\/em><\/h3>\n

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\u201c\u0130nsan ya\u015fad\u0131k\u00e7a anl\u0131yor ki, kendi kay\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 kendin \u00e7ekmezsen bir yerlere varam\u0131yorsun.\u201d s\u00f6z\u00fc, Katharine Hepburn taraf\u0131ndan dile getirilen ve ya\u015fam sorumlulu\u011funu do\u011frudan bireyin eline veren g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc bir hayat ger\u00e7e\u011fini anlat\u0131r. Bu ifade, hayat yolculu\u011funda ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131n deste\u011finin de\u011ferli oldu\u011funu kabul ederken, as\u0131l ilerlemeyi sa\u011flayan g\u00fcc\u00fcn ki\u015finin kendi iradesi oldu\u011funu hat\u0131rlat\u0131r. Hepimiz zaman zaman ko\u015fullar\u0131n de\u011fi\u015fmesini, birinin bizi fark etmesini ya da do\u011fru f\u0131rsat\u0131n kap\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 \u00e7almas\u0131n\u0131 bekleriz. Oysa ger\u00e7ek d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015f\u00fcm, beklemekten de\u011fil harekete ge\u00e7mekten do\u011far. Hayat bir nehirse, y\u00f6n\u00fcm\u00fcz\u00fc belirleyen ak\u0131nt\u0131 de\u011fil; k\u00fcre\u011fi tutan ellerimizdir. Bu s\u00f6z, ki\u015fisel sorumluluk, \u00f6z motivasyon ve bireysel \u00e7aba kavramlar\u0131n\u0131n \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc sade ama etkileyici bir metaforla anlat\u0131r.<\/p>\n

Bu s\u00f6zden ilhamla g\u00fcnl\u00fck hayatta uygulayabilece\u011fimiz pratik \u00f6neri \u015fudur: \u201cK\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck ama sahiplenilmi\u015f ad\u0131mlar\u201d kural\u0131n\u0131 benimsemek. Her sabah kendimize \u015fu soruyu sorabiliriz: \u201cBug\u00fcn hayat\u0131m ad\u0131na kendi kay\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131 \u00e7ekmek i\u00e7in ne yapaca\u011f\u0131m?\u201d B\u00fcy\u00fck de\u011fi\u015fimler \u00e7o\u011fu zaman g\u00f6z korkutucu g\u00f6r\u00fcn\u00fcr; ancak k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck ve d\u00fczenli eylemler, beklenen mucizelerden \u00e7ok daha g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fcd\u00fcr. \u00d6rne\u011fin yeni bir beceri \u00f6\u011frenmek istiyorsan\u0131z sadece 20 dakika ay\u0131rmak, sa\u011fl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 geli\u015ftirmek istiyorsan\u0131z k\u0131sa bir y\u00fcr\u00fcy\u00fc\u015f yapmak ya da erteledi\u011finiz bir i\u015fi ba\u015flatmak bile kay\u0131\u011f\u0131 hareket ettiren ilk \u00e7eki\u015ftir. \u00d6nemli olan m\u00fckemmel ba\u015flang\u0131\u00e7lar de\u011fil, sorumlulu\u011fu sahiplenen devaml\u0131l\u0131kt\u0131r.<\/p>\n

G\u00fcnl\u00fck hayatta bunu a\u00e7\u0131k\u00e7a g\u00f6r\u00fcr\u00fcz: Ayn\u0131 hedefe sahip iki ki\u015fiden biri s\u00fcrekli \u015fartlar\u0131n uygun olmas\u0131n\u0131 beklerken di\u011feri k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck ad\u0131mlarla ilerlemeye ba\u015flar. Aylar sonra fark olu\u015fur; \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc biri beklemi\u015f, di\u011feri k\u00fcrek \u00e7ekmi\u015ftir. Katharine Hepburn\u2019\u00fcn s\u00f6z\u00fc bize \u015funu hat\u0131rlat\u0131r: kimse bizim yerimize hayat\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 ya\u015fayamaz. Y\u00f6n\u00fcm\u00fcz\u00fc de\u011fi\u015ftiren \u015fey d\u0131\u015f ko\u015fullar de\u011fil, i\u00e7sel kararlar\u0131m\u0131zd\u0131r. Kendi kay\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 \u00e7ekmeye ba\u015flad\u0131\u011f\u0131n anda yol g\u00f6r\u00fcn\u00fcr, mesafe k\u0131sal\u0131r ve hayat ger\u00e7ekten senin hareketinle \u015fekillenmeye ba\u015flar.<\/p>\n

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Katharine Hepburn Kimdir?<\/strong><\/h3>\n

Katharine Hepburn (1907-2003) Amerikal\u0131 oyuncu ve sinema tarihinin en etkili kad\u0131n oyuncular\u0131ndan biridir. G\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc karakterleri canland\u0131rmas\u0131, ba\u011f\u0131ms\u0131z ki\u015fili\u011fi ve \u00f6zg\u00fcn ya\u015fam tarz\u0131yla Hollywood\u2019da kal\u0131plar\u0131 de\u011fi\u015ftiren isimlerden biri olmu\u015ftur. D\u00f6rt Akademi \u00d6d\u00fcl\u00fc kazanarak oyunculuk tarihinde rekor k\u0131rm\u0131\u015f, \u00f6zellikle g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc ve kendi ayaklar\u0131 \u00fczerinde duran kad\u0131n karakterleriyle tan\u0131nm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. Sanat ya\u015fam\u0131 boyunca bireysellik, cesaret ve \u00f6z g\u00fcven temalar\u0131n\u0131 temsil eden Hepburn, hem oyunculu\u011fu hem ya\u015fam felsefesiyle ilham veren bir fig\u00fcr olarak kabul edilir.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/section>\n

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\u00c7al\u0131\u015fkanl\u0131k \u00dczerine \u00d6zl\u00fc S\u00f6zler<\/a><\/p><\/blockquote>\n