{"id":38521,"date":"2020-01-09T22:13:34","date_gmt":"2020-01-09T22:13:34","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/e-motivasyon.net\/?p=38521"},"modified":"2026-03-31T06:34:35","modified_gmt":"2026-03-31T06:34:35","slug":"bir-gun-kaybedecek-bir-davada-kazanmaktansa-bir-gun-kazanacak-bir-davada-kaybetmeyi-tercih-ederim-woodrow-wilson","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/e-motivasyon.net\/en\/bir-gun-kaybedecek-bir-davada-kazanmaktansa-bir-gun-kazanacak-bir-davada-kaybetmeyi-tercih-ederim-woodrow-wilson.html","title":{"rendered":"\u201cI would rather lose in a case that will one day win than win in a case that will one day lose.\u201d Woodrow Wilson"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u201cI would rather lose in a case that will one day win than win in a case that will one day lose.\u201d Woodrow Wilson<\/strong><\/em><\/span><\/h3>\n

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\u201cBir g\u00fcn kaybedecek bir davada kazanmaktansa, bir g\u00fcn kazanacak bir davada kaybetmeyi tercih ederim.<\/strong>\u201d s\u00f6z\u00fc, Woodrow Wilson\u2019un ba\u015far\u0131y\u0131 yaln\u0131zca sonu\u00e7larla de\u011fil, de\u011ferler ve uzun vadeli anlam \u00fczerinden de\u011ferlendiren bak\u0131\u015f a\u00e7\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 yans\u0131t\u0131r. Bu ifade bize \u015funu hat\u0131rlat\u0131r: Her kazan\u0131m ger\u00e7ek bir ba\u015far\u0131 de\u011fildir ve her kay\u0131p da ger\u00e7ek bir yenilgi say\u0131lmaz. \u0130nsan bazen k\u0131sa vadede kazand\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 san\u0131rken asl\u0131nda yanl\u0131\u015f bir yolun i\u00e7inde ilerler; bazen de do\u011fru bir ama\u00e7 u\u011fruna kaybederek gelece\u011fin temelini atar. Wilson\u2019un vurgulad\u0131\u011f\u0131 \u015fey, hakl\u0131 bir yolun par\u00e7as\u0131 olman\u0131n, ge\u00e7ici zaferlerden daha de\u011ferli oldu\u011fudur.<\/strong> Motivasyon ve ki\u015fisel geli\u015fim a\u00e7\u0131s\u0131ndan bak\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131nda bu s\u00f6z, bizi sonu\u00e7 odakl\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmenin \u00f6tesine ge\u00e7irerek anlam odakl\u0131 ya\u015famaya davet eder.<\/p>\n

Bu s\u00f6zden ilhamla g\u00fcnl\u00fck hayatta uygulayabilece\u011fimiz pratik \u00f6neri \u015fudur: Bir karar vermeden \u00f6nce kendimize \u015fu soruyu sormak \u2014 \u201cBu se\u00e7im beni k\u0131sa vadede mi kazand\u0131r\u0131yor, yoksa uzun vadede do\u011fru insan h\u00e2line mi getiriyor?\u201d \u00d6rne\u011fin bir tart\u0131\u015fmada hakl\u0131 \u00e7\u0131kmak i\u00e7in k\u0131r\u0131c\u0131 olmak kolayd\u0131r; fakat ili\u015fkiyi korumay\u0131 se\u00e7mek daha uzun vadeli bir kazan\u00e7t\u0131r. Do\u011fru tarafta kalmay\u0131 se\u00e7mek, anl\u0131k egoyu de\u011fil kal\u0131c\u0131 geli\u015fimi besler.<\/strong> Bu k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck zihinsel duraklama al\u0131\u015fkanl\u0131\u011f\u0131, hayat\u0131m\u0131zdaki bir\u00e7ok karar\u0131n y\u00f6n\u00fcn\u00fc de\u011fi\u015ftirir ve bizi de\u011ferlerimizle uyumlu bir ya\u015fam \u00e7izgisine ta\u015f\u0131r.<\/p>\n

Hayatta hepimiz zaman zaman h\u0131zl\u0131 kazan\u00e7larla anlaml\u0131 ilerleme aras\u0131nda se\u00e7im yapmak zorunda kal\u0131r\u0131z. Kolay yolu se\u00e7en ki\u015fi o an kazanabilir; fakat uzun vadede i\u00e7sel tatminini kaybedebilir. Buna kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131k do\u011fru oldu\u011funa inand\u0131\u011f\u0131 bir hedef i\u00e7in sabreden ki\u015fi, ba\u015flang\u0131\u00e7ta zorlanabilir ama zamanla sa\u011flam bir ba\u015far\u0131 in\u015fa eder. Woodrow Wilson\u2019un s\u00f6z\u00fc tam da bu noktada anlam kazan\u0131r: ba\u015far\u0131 yaln\u0131zca var\u0131\u015f noktas\u0131 de\u011fil, y\u00fcr\u00fcd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcm\u00fcz yolun do\u011frulu\u011fudur. Ger\u00e7ek kazan\u00e7, hemen alk\u0131\u015f almak de\u011fil; zaman ge\u00e7tik\u00e7e hakl\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131 ortaya \u00e7\u0131kan bir hayat\u0131n i\u00e7inde yer almakt\u0131r.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

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Woodrow Wilson Kimdir?<\/strong><\/h3>\n

Woodrow Wilson (1856-1924) Amerikal\u0131 siyaset\u00e7i, akademisyen ve Amerika Birle\u015fik Devletleri\u2019nin 28. ba\u015fkan\u0131d\u0131r. Siyaset bilimi profes\u00f6r\u00fc olarak akademik kariyer yapt\u0131ktan sonra siyasete at\u0131lm\u0131\u015f, \u00f6zellikle I. D\u00fcnya Sava\u015f\u0131 sonras\u0131 bar\u0131\u015f politikalar\u0131 ve uluslararas\u0131 i\u015f birli\u011fini savunan g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015fleriyle tan\u0131nm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. Milletler Cemiyeti\u2019nin kurulmas\u0131na \u00f6nc\u00fcl\u00fck etmi\u015f ve diplomasi ile k\u00fcresel bar\u0131\u015f anlay\u0131\u015f\u0131na yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131 katk\u0131lar nedeniyle 1919 y\u0131l\u0131nda Nobel Bar\u0131\u015f \u00d6d\u00fcl\u00fc kazanm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r.<\/p>\n

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Ba\u015far\u0131 \u00d6zl\u00fc S\u00f6zleri<\/a><\/p><\/blockquote>\n