{"id":38438,"date":"2019-12-29T21:05:25","date_gmt":"2019-12-29T21:05:25","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/e-motivasyon.net\/?p=38438"},"modified":"2026-04-24T14:13:03","modified_gmt":"2026-04-24T14:13:03","slug":"hayatta-iki-temel-secim-vardir-kosullari-oldugu-gibi-kabullenmek-veya-bunlari-degistirme-sorumlulugunu-kabul-etmek-denis-waitley","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/e-motivasyon.net\/en\/hayatta-iki-temel-secim-vardir-kosullari-oldugu-gibi-kabullenmek-veya-bunlari-degistirme-sorumlulugunu-kabul-etmek-denis-waitley.html","title":{"rendered":"\u201cThere are two basic choices in life; accepting the terms as they are or accepting responsibility for changing them.\u201d Denis Waitley"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u201cThere are two basic choices in life; accepting the terms as they are or accepting responsibility for changing them.\u201d Denis Waitley<\/strong><\/em><\/span><\/h3>\n

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Denis Waitley<\/span><\/span> taraf\u0131ndan ifade edilen \u201cHayatta iki temel se\u00e7im vard\u0131r; ko\u015fullar\u0131 oldu\u011fu gibi kabullenmek veya bunlar\u0131 de\u011fi\u015ftirme sorumlulu\u011funu kabul etmek.\u201d s\u00f6z\u00fc, ki\u015fisel geli\u015fim ve sorumluluk bilinci a\u00e7\u0131s\u0131ndan olduk\u00e7a net bir \u00e7er\u00e7eve sunar. Hayat\u0131n i\u00e7inde hepimiz zaman zaman zorlay\u0131c\u0131 ko\u015fullarla kar\u015f\u0131la\u015f\u0131r\u0131z. Bu noktada \u00e7o\u011fu insan \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcnc\u00fc bir se\u00e7enek varm\u0131\u015f gibi davran\u0131r: \u015eik\u00e2yet etmek. Oysa ger\u00e7ekte iki yol vard\u0131r: ya mevcut durumu bilin\u00e7li bir \u015fekilde kabul eder ve onunla bar\u0131\u015f\u0131r\u0131z<\/strong>, ya da onu de\u011fi\u015ftirmek i\u00e7in sorumluluk al\u0131r ve harekete ge\u00e7eriz.<\/strong> Arada kalmak ise en yorucu ve en sonu\u00e7suz yoldur. Bu s\u00f6z bize \u015funu hat\u0131rlat\u0131r: Hayat\u0131n kontrol\u00fc, se\u00e7imlerimizin sorumlulu\u011funu ald\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z noktada ba\u015flar.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Bu s\u00f6zden ilhamla g\u00fcnl\u00fck hayatta uygulayabilece\u011finiz pratik \u00f6neri \u015fudur: Kendinizi s\u0131k s\u0131k \u015fik\u00e2yet ederken yakalad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z bir konuyu se\u00e7in ve o konuda net bir karar verin ya kabul edin ya da de\u011fi\u015ftirmek i\u00e7in bir ad\u0131m at\u0131n. \u00d6rne\u011fin i\u015finizden memnun de\u011filseniz, ya o i\u015fi yeni bir bak\u0131\u015f a\u00e7\u0131s\u0131yla kabullenmeyi \u00f6\u011frenin ya da alternatifler \u00fcretmeye ba\u015flay\u0131n. Ama arada kalmay\u0131n. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc karars\u0131zl\u0131k, enerjinizi t\u00fcketir; karar ise sizi \u00f6zg\u00fcrle\u015ftirir.<\/strong> Bu k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck zihinsel netlik, ya\u015fam kalitenizde b\u00fcy\u00fck bir fark yarat\u0131r.<\/p>\n

G\u00fcnl\u00fck bir \u00f6rnekle d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnelim: Trafikte s\u0131k\u0131\u015ft\u0131n\u0131z ve kontrol edemeyece\u011finiz bir durumdas\u0131n\u0131z. Bu noktada ya \u00f6fkelenip kendinizi y\u0131prat\u0131rs\u0131n\u0131z ya da durumu kabul edip o zaman\u0131 daha verimli kullanman\u0131n bir yolunu bulursunuz. Ama e\u011fer de\u011fi\u015ftirebilece\u011finiz bir \u015fey varsa\u2014\u00f6rne\u011fin yola \u00e7\u0131k\u0131\u015f saatinizi ayarlamak gibi\u2014o zaman sorumluluk almak gerekir. \u0130\u015fte Waitley\u2019nin s\u00f6z\u00fc tam olarak bu ayr\u0131m\u0131 anlat\u0131r. Hayat, ya kabullenme ya da de\u011fi\u015ftirme cesareti ister.<\/strong> Ve unutmay\u0131n: G\u00fc\u00e7, ko\u015fullarda de\u011fil; o ko\u015fullar kar\u015f\u0131s\u0131nda ald\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z sorumlulukta sakl\u0131d\u0131r.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

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Denis Waitley Kimdir?<\/strong>
Denis Waitley (1933-2020) Amerikal\u0131 motivasyon konu\u015fmac\u0131s\u0131, yazar ve ki\u015fisel geli\u015fim uzman\u0131d\u0131r. \u00d6zellikle ba\u015far\u0131 psikolojisi, hedef belirleme ve zihinsel dayan\u0131kl\u0131l\u0131k konular\u0131nda yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131 \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmalarla tan\u0131n\u0131r. \u201cThe Psychology of Winning\u201d adl\u0131 eseri, ki\u015fisel geli\u015fim alan\u0131nda klasikle\u015fmi\u015f kaynaklardan biri olarak kabul edilir. Sporcular, i\u015f d\u00fcnyas\u0131 liderleri ve bireyler i\u00e7in geli\u015ftirdi\u011fi e\u011fitim programlar\u0131yla geni\u015f kitlelere ula\u015fm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r.<\/p>\n

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