{"id":3766,"date":"2014-11-01T14:56:36","date_gmt":"2014-11-01T12:56:36","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.ozdeyis.net\/?p=3766"},"modified":"2026-08-25T09:41:54","modified_gmt":"2026-08-25T09:41:54","slug":"dustugumuz-kuyular-sandigimiz-kadar-dipsiz-degil-aslinda-tutunmaya-calistgimiz-ipler-cok-kisa-charles-bukowski","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/e-motivasyon.net\/en\/dustugumuz-kuyular-sandigimiz-kadar-dipsiz-degil-aslinda-tutunmaya-calistgimiz-ipler-cok-kisa-charles-bukowski.html","title":{"rendered":"“D\u00fc\u015ft\u00fc\u011f\u00fcm\u00fcz kuyular sand\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z kadar dipsiz de\u011fil asl\u0131nda; tutunmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z ipler \u00e7ok k\u0131sa.” Charles Bukowski"},"content":{"rendered":"

“D\u00fc\u015ft\u00fc\u011f\u00fcm\u00fcz kuyular sand\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z kadar dipsiz de\u011fil asl\u0131nda; tutunmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z ipler \u00e7ok k\u0131sa.” Charles Bukowski<\/strong><\/em><\/h3>\n

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Charles Bukowski\u2019nin bu s\u00f6z\u00fc, zor zamanlarda ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z sorunlar\u0131 oldu\u011fundan daha b\u00fcy\u00fck ve \u00e7\u0131k\u0131\u015f yollar\u0131n\u0131 oldu\u011fundan daha k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck g\u00f6rme e\u011filimimize<\/strong> dikkat \u00e7eker. Bazen bir ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131zl\u0131k, ayr\u0131l\u0131k, maddi s\u0131k\u0131nt\u0131 veya hayal k\u0131r\u0131kl\u0131\u011f\u0131 ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131zda kendimizi i\u00e7inden \u00e7\u0131k\u0131lmas\u0131 imk\u00e2ns\u0131z bir kuyunun dibinde hissedebiliriz. Oysa sorun her zaman d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcm\u00fcz kadar derin de\u011fildir; bazen bizi a\u015fa\u011f\u0131da tutan \u015fey, yaln\u0131zca elimizdeki ilk \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fcm\u00fcn i\u015fe yaramam\u0131\u015f olmas\u0131d\u0131r. Bir yolun t\u0131kanmas\u0131, b\u00fct\u00fcn yollar\u0131n t\u0131kand\u0131\u011f\u0131 anlam\u0131na gelmez.<\/strong> Bukowski\u2019nin g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc metaforunda as\u0131l dikkat \u00e7ekici nokta da budur: Belki de kuyu dipsiz de\u011fildir, yaln\u0131zca tutundu\u011fumuz ip bizi yukar\u0131 \u00e7\u0131karmaya yetmiyordur. Bu durumda yap\u0131lmas\u0131 gereken umudu b\u0131rakmak de\u011fil, daha uzun bir ip aramakt\u0131r.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Bu s\u00f6zden g\u00fcnl\u00fck ya\u015fam\u0131m\u0131z i\u00e7in \u00e7\u0131karabilece\u011fimiz pratik \u00f6neri \u015fudur: Bir sorun kar\u015f\u0131s\u0131nda denedi\u011finiz \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fcm i\u015fe yaramad\u0131\u011f\u0131nda, sorunun kendisini de\u011fil \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fcm y\u00f6nteminizi de\u011fi\u015ftirmeyi deneyin.<\/strong> \u00d6rne\u011fin bir hedefinize ula\u015fmak i\u00e7in s\u00fcrekli ayn\u0131 y\u00f6ntemi uyguluyor ve sonu\u00e7 alam\u0131yorsan\u0131z, \u201cBen bunu ba\u015faram\u0131yorum.\u201d demek yerine \u201cBa\u015fka hangi yolu deneyebilirim?\u201d diye sorun. M\u00fcmk\u00fcnse sorunu bir k\u00e2\u011f\u0131da yaz\u0131n ve alt\u0131na en az \u00fc\u00e7 farkl\u0131 \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fcm se\u00e7ene\u011fi ekleyin. Zihnimiz \u00e7aresizli\u011fe odakland\u0131\u011f\u0131nda se\u00e7enekleri g\u00f6rmez; se\u00e7enek \u00fcretmeye ba\u015flad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131zda ise \u00e7aresizlik duygusu zay\u0131flamaya ba\u015flar.<\/strong> Bazen ihtiyac\u0131m\u0131z olan \u015fey daha fazla g\u00fc\u00e7 de\u011fil, daha farkl\u0131 bir bak\u0131\u015f a\u00e7\u0131s\u0131d\u0131r.<\/p>\n

\u00d6rne\u011fin i\u015fini kaybeden bir insan, ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131 ekonomik s\u0131k\u0131nt\u0131 nedeniyle gelece\u011finin tamamen karard\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnebilir. Fakat yeni bir beceri \u00f6\u011frenmek, farkl\u0131 bir i\u015f alan\u0131na y\u00f6nelmek, \u00e7evresinden destek istemek veya daha \u00f6nce hi\u00e7 de\u011ferlendirmedi\u011fi bir se\u00e7ene\u011fi ara\u015ft\u0131rmak, \u00f6n\u00fcnde yeni kap\u0131lar a\u00e7abilir. \u0130lk denemesi ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131z oldu\u011funda vazge\u00e7mek yerine y\u00f6ntemini de\u011fi\u015ftiren insan, asl\u0131nda kuyunun i\u00e7inde yeni bir \u00e7\u0131k\u0131\u015f yolu ke\u015ffetmeye ba\u015flam\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. Hayatta baz\u0131 kuyular ger\u00e7ekten derin olabilir; ancak insan\u0131n \u00e7\u0131k\u0131\u015f arama iradesi \u00e7o\u011fu zaman sand\u0131\u011f\u0131ndan daha g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fcd\u00fcr.<\/strong> Bazen bizi kurtaracak olan daha uzun bir ip de\u011fil, elimizdeki ipin k\u0131sa oldu\u011funu fark edip ba\u015fka bir yol aramaya cesaret etmektir.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

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Charles Bukowski Kimdir?<\/h3>\n

Charles Bukowski (1920-1994) Alman-Amerikal\u0131 \u015fair, yazar ve \u00f6yk\u00fcc\u00fcd\u00fcr. 16 A\u011fustos 1920’de Andernach, Almanya’da do\u011fan Bukowski, \u00e7ocukluk y\u0131llar\u0131nda ailesiyle birlikte Amerika Birle\u015fik Devletleri’ne ta\u015f\u0131nd\u0131 ve ya\u015fam\u0131n\u0131n b\u00fcy\u00fck b\u00f6l\u00fcm\u00fcn\u00fc Los Angeles’ta ge\u00e7irdi. Yaln\u0131zl\u0131k, yoksulluk, ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131zl\u0131k, a\u015fk, alkol, g\u00fcndelik hayat ve toplumun d\u0131\u015f\u0131na itilmi\u015f insanlar\u0131n ya\u015famlar\u0131 eserlerinde s\u0131k\u00e7a i\u015fledi\u011fi konular aras\u0131nda yer ald\u0131. Kendine \u00f6zg\u00fc, do\u011frudan ve zaman zaman sert anlat\u0131m\u0131yla Amerikan edebiyat\u0131nda farkl\u0131 bir yer edinen Bukowski; Post Office<\/em>, Factotum<\/em>, Women<\/em> . Ham on Rye<\/em> gibi romanlar\u0131n\u0131n yan\u0131 s\u0131ra \u00e7ok say\u0131da \u015fiir ve \u00f6yk\u00fc yay\u0131mlad\u0131. 9 Mart 1994’te San Pedro, California’da hayat\u0131n\u0131 kaybeden Bukowski, \u00f6zellikle s\u0131radan insan\u0131n hayat\u0131ndaki m\u00fccadeleyi ve k\u0131r\u0131lganl\u0131\u011f\u0131 filtresiz bi\u00e7imde anlatan yazarlar aras\u0131nda \u00f6nemli bir yere sahiptir.<\/p>\n

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