{"id":36562,"date":"2019-08-24T19:56:28","date_gmt":"2019-08-24T19:56:28","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/e-motivasyon.net\/?p=36562"},"modified":"2026-01-07T19:58:01","modified_gmt":"2026-01-07T19:58:01","slug":"basiniza-gelen-her-sey-ya-size-ders-olacak-bir-iyilik-ya-da-bir-iyilik-olacak-derstir-polly-berends-sozleri","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/e-motivasyon.net\/en\/basiniza-gelen-her-sey-ya-size-ders-olacak-bir-iyilik-ya-da-bir-iyilik-olacak-derstir-polly-berends-sozleri.html","title":{"rendered":"\u201cEverything that happens to you is either a favor that will be a lesson to you, or a lesson that will be a favor.\u201d Polly Berrien Berends"},"content":{"rendered":"

“Ba\u015f\u0131n\u0131za gelen her \u015fey, ya size ders olacak bir iyilik ya da bir iyilik olacak derstir.” Polly Berrien Berends<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

\""Ba\u015f\u0131n\u0131za<\/a><\/p>\n

Bu s\u00f6z, hayat\u0131n bize sundu\u011fu deneyimlere nas\u0131l bakt\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n<\/strong>, ya\u015fad\u0131klar\u0131m\u0131zdan ne \u00e7\u0131kard\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131zdan<\/em> \u00e7ok daha belirleyici oldu\u011funu hat\u0131rlat\u0131r. Ba\u015f\u0131m\u0131za gelenler bazen sevindirir, bazen can yakar; ancak her durumda i\u00e7lerinde bir anlam tohumu ta\u015f\u0131rlar. Kimi zaman ya\u015fad\u0131klar\u0131m\u0131z do\u011frudan bir iyilik gibi g\u00f6r\u00fcn\u00fcr, kimi zamansa \u00f6nce zorlar, sonra \u00f6\u011fretir. Asl\u0131nda hayat bize s\u00fcrekli \u015funu f\u0131s\u0131ldar: Ya\u015fanan hi\u00e7bir \u015fey bo\u015funa de\u011fildir.<\/strong> Biz yeterince durup bakt\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131zda, en karma\u015f\u0131k anlar\u0131n bile<\/em> bizi biraz daha olgunla\u015ft\u0131rd\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131, bak\u0131\u015f a\u00e7\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 geni\u015fletti\u011fini fark ederiz. \u00d6nemli olan, olaylar\u0131n etiketine de\u011fil; bize ne katt\u0131\u011f\u0131na odaklanabilmektir.<\/p>\n

G\u00fcnl\u00fck hayatta bunu prati\u011fe d\u00f6kmek i\u00e7in basit ama g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc bir ad\u0131m atabiliriz. G\u00fcn\u00fcn sonunda kendimize \u015fu soruyu sormay\u0131 al\u0131\u015fkanl\u0131k h\u00e2line getirelim: \u201cBug\u00fcn ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131m hangi olay bana ne \u00f6\u011fretti?\u201d<\/strong><\/em> Bu soru, iyi ya da k\u00f6t\u00fc diye ay\u0131rmadan ya\u015fananlar\u0131 anlamland\u0131rmam\u0131za yard\u0131mc\u0131 olur. Biz bu soruyu d\u00fczenli sorduk\u00e7a, hayat\u0131n kar\u015f\u0131s\u0131nda daha az savrulur, daha \u00e7ok \u00f6\u011freniriz. Olan biteni de\u011fi\u015ftiremeyebiliriz ama ondan \u00e7\u0131kard\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z dersi her zaman se\u00e7ebiliriz.<\/strong> \u0130\u015fte bu se\u00e7im, ya\u015fad\u0131klar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 y\u00fck olmaktan \u00e7\u0131kar\u0131p i\u00e7sel bir kazanca d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015ft\u00fcrmenin en sade yoludur.<\/p>\n

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