{"id":36309,"date":"2019-07-13T20:41:40","date_gmt":"2019-07-13T20:41:40","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/e-motivasyon.net\/?p=36309"},"modified":"2026-03-08T10:01:52","modified_gmt":"2026-03-08T10:01:52","slug":"yuzune-kapatilan-kapilar-ile-kararliligin-arkandan-kapatilan-kapilar-ile-de-cesaretin-test-edilir-tayfun-topaloglu-ozlu-sozleri","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/e-motivasyon.net\/en\/yuzune-kapatilan-kapilar-ile-kararliligin-arkandan-kapatilan-kapilar-ile-de-cesaretin-test-edilir-tayfun-topaloglu-ozlu-sozleri.html","title":{"rendered":"\u201cYour determination is tested with the doors closed in your face, and your courage with the doors closed behind you.\u201d Tayfun Topaloglu"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u201cYour determination is tested with the doors closed in your face, and your courage with the doors closed behind you.\u201d Tayfun Topaloglu<\/em><\/strong><\/span>
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tayfuntopaloglu.com<\/strong><\/span><\/a><\/p>\n

\u201cY\u00fcz\u00fcne kapat\u0131lan kap\u0131lar ile kararl\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131n, arkandan kapat\u0131lan kap\u0131lar ile de cesaretin test edilir.\u201d diyen Tayfun Topalo\u011flu<\/span><\/span>, hayat\u0131n zorluklar\u0131n\u0131n asl\u0131nda insan\u0131n karakterini ortaya \u00e7\u0131karan birer s\u0131nav oldu\u011funu anlat\u0131r. Bazen bir f\u0131rsat\u0131n reddedilmesi, bir teklifin geri \u00e7evrilmesi ya da bir hayalin \u00f6n\u00fcne engeller \u00e7\u0131kmas\u0131 \u201cy\u00fcz\u00fcm\u00fcze kapanan kap\u0131lar\u201d gibi hissettirebilir. \u0130\u015fte bu anlar kararl\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n s\u0131nand\u0131\u011f\u0131 anlard\u0131r.<\/strong> Peki ya bir kap\u0131dan \u00e7\u0131kmak zorunda kald\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131zda, bir al\u0131\u015fkanl\u0131\u011f\u0131 b\u0131rakmam\u0131z gerekti\u011finde ya da bildi\u011fimiz bir g\u00fcven alan\u0131n\u0131 geride b\u0131rakt\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131zda? \u0130\u015fte o zaman da cesaretimiz devreye girer. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc geride b\u0131rakmak ve bilinmeyene do\u011fru y\u00fcr\u00fcmek, \u00e7o\u011fu zaman en b\u00fcy\u00fck cesaret g\u00f6stergesidir.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Bu s\u00f6zden ilham alarak g\u00fcnl\u00fck hayatta uygulayabilece\u011fimiz pratik bir \u00f6neri var: \u201cKap\u0131 metaforu\u201d ile d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmek.<\/strong> Hayatta kar\u015f\u0131la\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z her reddi ya da kapanan f\u0131rsat\u0131 bir son gibi g\u00f6rmek yerine kendimize \u015fu soruyu sorabiliriz: \u201cBu kapanan kap\u0131 bana hangi yeni kap\u0131y\u0131 arama f\u0131rsat\u0131 veriyor?\u201d B\u00f6yle d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcm\u00fczde zihnimiz otomatik olarak yeni ihtimalleri ke\u015ffetmeye ba\u015flar. Kararl\u0131l\u0131k, kap\u0131lar kapand\u0131\u011f\u0131nda vazge\u00e7memektir; cesaret ise yeni kap\u0131lar aramaya devam etmektir.<\/strong> Bu bak\u0131\u015f a\u00e7\u0131s\u0131, zor anlar\u0131 bir \u00e7\u0131kmazdan \u00e7ok bir y\u00f6n de\u011fi\u015fimi olarak g\u00f6rmemize yard\u0131mc\u0131 olabilir.<\/p>\n

Hayattan basit bir \u00f6rnek d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnelim. Bir ki\u015fi uzun zamand\u0131r istedi\u011fi bir i\u015fe ba\u015fvurur fakat reddedilir. \u0130lk anda bu durum b\u00fcy\u00fck bir hayal k\u0131r\u0131kl\u0131\u011f\u0131 yaratabilir. Fakat o ki\u015fi pes etmek yerine kendini geli\u015ftirmeye devam eder ve farkl\u0131 bir alanda yeni bir f\u0131rsat yakalar. Y\u0131llar sonra geriye bakt\u0131\u011f\u0131nda, o ilk reddedilmenin asl\u0131nda hayat\u0131n\u0131n y\u00f6n\u00fcn\u00fc de\u011fi\u015ftiren bir d\u00f6n\u00fcm noktas\u0131 oldu\u011funu fark eder. \u0130\u015fte Tayfun Topalo\u011flu<\/span><\/span>\u2019nun s\u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fcn ger\u00e7ek g\u00fcc\u00fc tam da burada ortaya \u00e7\u0131kar. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc hayat bazen y\u00fcz\u00fcm\u00fcze kapanan kap\u0131larla kararl\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z\u0131, geride b\u0131rakt\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z kap\u0131larla ise cesaretimizi b\u00fcy\u00fct\u00fcr.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

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Tayfun Topalo\u011flu Kimdir?<\/strong><\/h3>\n

Tayfun Topalo\u011flu<\/a><\/p><\/blockquote>\n